Matthew Ringer v. Allison Zeller

CourtCourt of Appeals of Kentucky
DecidedApril 7, 2022
Docket2021 CA 001234
StatusUnknown

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Opinion

RENDERED: APRIL 8, 2022; 10:00 A.M. NOT TO BE PUBLISHED

Commonwealth of Kentucky Court of Appeals

NO. 2021-CA-1234-ME

MATTHEW RINGER APPELLANT

APPEAL FROM ANDERSON FAMILY COURT v. HONORABLE S. MARIE HELLARD, JUDGE ACTION NO. 21-D-00064-001

ALLISON ZELLER APPELLEE

OPINION AFFIRMING

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BEFORE: COMBS, LAMBERT, AND K. THOMPSON, JUDGES.

LAMBERT, JUDGE: Matthew Ringer has appealed from the domestic violence

order (DVO) entered by the Anderson Family Court entered October 5, 2021,

pursuant to a petition filed by Allison Zeller. We affirm.

This matter began with the filing of a petition for an order of

protection by Allison against Matthew on September 27, 2021. While they never

married, Allison and Matthew had lived together. In the petition, Allison alleged that on September 7, 2021, Matthew had engaged in an act or acts of domestic

violence and abuse based on the following circumstances:

Matthew and I would have been together for 4 years in March. We’ve known each other for about 5 years and we were engaged for 2 years. Matthew went to prison for about 2 years. From February 2019 to December 2020. He proposed in July of 2019. Matthew has always had a way with words and has always manipulated me into doing what he wanted because I thought it was love. When Matthew and I argued we never laid hands on each other. We said hurtful things and sometimes got [too] close while screaming at one another but it didn’t get physical until about 4 months after he got out of prison, then when we argued he would scream so hard that he would spit in my face and poke his finger into my forehead to get me out of his way. The way he and I dealt with things was too different for us to understand. When something happens, I always wanted to talk about it right away and he wanted to be left alone to think about stuff. At times I tried to leave him be but I did try to get him to talk to me in those times.

On September 7th, 2021, we woke up that morning and nothing seemed wrong. I had a job interview and he went to help a friend with something and when I called I was trying to play a prank by saying that I was mad because I didn’t get the job but he hung up on me and wouldn’t answer. He texted me and we talked back and forth (I can provide messages). He said he was going to come get his stuff. I was at home when he got there and I asked why he was leaving and he said it was because of me. I followed him into the bedroom and asked what I did to make him leave and he said “I don’t love you anymore[.]” [O]ut of hurt and anger I started screaming “get the [f***] out of my house[.]” [H]e then turned around and said “what did you just say to me?” and I repeated myself. He then left where he was stand[ing] (at the back of the bedroom in the closet) and ran at me and I

-2- put my arms in front of my face to protect myself and he grabbed both arms and pushed me from my bedroom door to my back door, squeezing my arms, spitting in my face and saying “is that what you [f******] wanted?”. I started screaming “let me go” and I did try to spit in his face to get him off of me but he is a big man and I was afraid if I fought back he might end my life. (I can provide pictures.) [A]fter that happened, I started recording a video of his behavior and he admitted to putting his hands on me. I stayed on the opposite side of the room from him but I was scared of what he would [do] if I tried to call someone or if I left him alone in my house. Since September 7th, Matthew has done nothing but harass me and threaten me. He has made fake social media accounts to harass me, he has texted me off of multiple phone numbers, he is messaging all of my family and friends saying that he’s going to kill himself, and he hacked my phone and changed the password to my AT&T account. He is sharing my private information, tracking my location and listening in on my phone calls. I know this because a friend came to me and said “I am worried for your safety because Matthew showed up drunk to my house and was laughing and showing me how he can see your texts, calls, locations . . . [.]”

In addition to these things, he has contacted my mom, my step [d]ad, my cousins who live in North Carolina and a few of my friends trying to harass them or to try to find me/talk to me. I [d]o have screen shot[s] of everything. I have messages, pictures of my bruises and videos. The actions I have taken on my own were not enough. I cut off his phone (it is in my name) and I cut all ties including: car insurance, debit/credit cards, bank accounts, I’ve deleted all of his personal info from my phone. I was his power of [attorney] for the 2 years he was in prison. Also I work at a daycare and my boss knows my situation, she called me to her office and asked to see a picture of Matthew because she said a strange man showed up asking questions but she wasn’t 100%

-3- sure it was him. She said it did look just like him though. The only time I have reached out to him since he left was the night he said he was going to kill himself, I called twice but he didn’t answer and then on September 24 & 25 I received weird texts from a number and tried to call but no answer.

I have pictures that he sent me of his “suicide plan.” That night & the next morning my mom and I called the Frankfort police department for a wellness check. I’ve contacted AT&T 3 times to get my account reset and it keeps getting change[d]. There is information about me coming from him that I have never texted about or talked on the phone about but he still knows. I’m pretty sure he’s using my phone’s microphone to listen in on me. He’s been contacting my friends to meet with him to relay information to me because I won’t talk to him. I’ve blocked him on everything. All of this is happening daily for the last 3 weeks.

In the petition, Allison requested that the court restrain Matthew from committing

any further acts of domestic violence, from any unauthorized contact or

communication with her, from going within a specified distance of her residence

and work, and from disposing of or damaging their property. The family court did

not enter an emergency protection order (EPO) as the petition failed to “state an

immediate and present danger of dating violence and abuse [or] stalking[.]”

Instead, the court signed a protective order summons on September 27, 2021,

which was served on Matthew by the Anderson County Sheriff’s Department on

October 1, 2021.

-4- The court held a hearing on October 5, 2021, during which the parties

appeared via ZOOM without counsel. Allison confirmed that she and Matthew

had previously lived together. Allison testified about the acts of violence that took

place on September 7th as detailed in her petition. He ran across the room,

grabbed her arms as she put them up to shield her face, and threw her up against

the door to the bedroom. She tried to do what she could to get away, but said “he’s

pretty strong.” This action surprised and scared her as she did not expect it. This

was the only altercation between them, although Matthew had also screamed in her

face and poked her in her forehead a few times since he had returned from prison.

She did not think much of this at the time, although she did not like it. She said

she was in fear for her safety, stating that her messages and phone calls had been

listened to and her location followed through AT&T, specifically linked to the

phone number Matthew had. She also said she was scared because she filed the

petition on Monday, and on Friday, Matthew broke into her house and took

property. She thought the summons could have been issued sooner or an escort

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