Mason v. Mason, No. 30 06 62 (Nov. 8, 1991)

1991 Conn. Super. Ct. 9485
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedNovember 8, 1991
DocketNo. 30 06 62
StatusUnpublished

This text of 1991 Conn. Super. Ct. 9485 (Mason v. Mason, No. 30 06 62 (Nov. 8, 1991)) is published on Counsel Stack Legal Research, covering Connecticut Superior Court primary law. Counsel Stack provides free access to over 12 million legal documents including statutes, case law, regulations, and constitutions.

Bluebook
Mason v. Mason, No. 30 06 62 (Nov. 8, 1991), 1991 Conn. Super. Ct. 9485 (Colo. Ct. App. 1991).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.] MEMORANDUM OF DECISION The following findings and conclusions are made after hearing the testimony of the parties and other witnesses, together with a consideration of the exhibits introduced and the factors or criteria of the pertinent Connecticut General Statutes.

1. The parties were married in New Haven, Connecticut, on February 19, 1972.

2. The plaintiff (PLTF) has resided continuously within the State for more than one year prior to the filing of the complaint CT Page 9486 in this action.

3. There are three minor children of this marriage, whose names and dates of birth area as follows:

Michael Mason, January 19, 1977; Marques Mason, October 13, 1978; La-Ria Mason, September 14, 1981.

4. A fourth child, Richard Mason, Jr., was born on July 2, 1973, and is, therefore, eighteen years of age at this time and an adult.

5. Neither of the parents nor the children have ever received any public assistance and are not receiving such at this time.

6. The marriage has broken down irretrievably. Additional findings will be set forth relative to the causes thereof.

7. Defendant (DEFT) filed a substitute answer and cross-complaint. In her substitute answer, the DEFT denies the PLTF's allegation that the marriage has broken down irretrievably. In her cross-complaint, the DEFT alleges that the PLTF ". . .between January 1990 and the date of this Cross Complaint has been guilty of intolerable cruelty to the defendant wife."

8. In his complaint the PLTF seeks custody of the minor children. In her cross-complaint the DEFT seeks custody and support for only the minor, La-Ria. She testified at the hearing that she was seeking joint legal custody of the three minor children but would want physical custody and support only for La-Ria, the daughter whose needs she felt more qualified to meet. She conceded that the two teenage boys, Michael and Marques, could be better led into their respective manhoods by the father, under his physical custody. On September 19, 1990, the file reveals a written agreement, signed by the parties, in which they then agreed to share joint custody over the four minors. During the course of this hearing the PLTF testified to being agreeable to joint legal custody of the now three minors, but requested for himself sole physical custody of the three minors and to have the final word in any dispute with the DEFT over any major questions related to the children.

9. The DEFT seeks alimony for herself and suppport for La-Ria and does not wish to pay support for the two boys to the PLTF. The PLTF does not seek alimony and support, if he has physical custody of the three children and is not ordered to pay alimony. If alimony is awarded to the DEFT, then the PLTF seeks a support order against the DEFT. CT Page 9487

INTOLERABLE CRUELTY

The DEFT testified that the PLTF was cruel to her in several ways. Primarily she referred to two diaries kept by the PLTF for the years 1988 and 1990 in which he had made entries critical of her with respect to certain actions. She submitted into evidence exhibit 25, a diary kept by the PLTF for the year 1988. She was unable to produce the diary for 1990 to also introduce, but did testify to some of its contents as best she could recall. The DEFT stated in her brief on page 2, "The Husband was Intolerably Cruel By Keeping A Diary of His Marital Problems." The DEFT cites the case of Zoarski v. Zoarski, 161 Conn. 578 (1971), and more particularly refers to the memorandum of the trial judge in the case. It is true that Judge Bordon stated that, in his opinion, the acts of the plaintiff-husband of keeping a chronicle of the daily doings of the wife were in themselves acts of cruelty; that it was not natural or normal to keep such a diary to use it to establish grounds for a divorce on cruelty. He found the diaries were kept in preparation for the divorce action.

The case at bar is immediately and readily distinguishable. The PLTF did not introduce the diary into evidence. He did not use the diary to establish grounds for a dissolution. The diary was introduced into evidence by the DEFT in her case in chief and not during the presentation of the PLTF's case. The DEFT testified that she first saw the entries in the diaries in 1990.

There are two findings that I make. First, there is no credible evidence that the PLTF made any such entries for the purpose of establishing proof of grounds for a dissolution. I will expand briefly later. The second finding is that there is no indication that the diary or diaries and the contents thereof had any adverse or cruel impact on the DEFT. One must also consider that the Supreme Court memorandum of decision in Zoarski was extremely brief with no mention of the diaries kept by the PLTF.

Finally, I have examined the only diary submitted. The 1988 diary contains but a few pages in which notations appear referring to the DEFT. It is not necessary to repeat word for word the references set forth. In the early part of the year 1988 there are very brief references to the PLTF's religious work as well as his work making improvements to the family residence, together with the DEFT's help, and finally that after both working around the house on a Saturday in May, they "took the kids to the park for some baseball." The first critical entry is Friday, July 15. The entry notes that the DEFT has again received a hair cut. The PLTF reflects that she may be doing this to bother him. He notes also that she loves to tell people that he does not want her to cut her hair but she proceeds to show such people that she has cut it. He notes in his book that he would never again comment on her CT Page 9488 hair length so that he will not look "Bad" when she would report to the people.

On July 18, there is a reference to the DEFT telling the PLTF that she had ordered colored contact lenses for her eyes. Again his specific comment, "I must understand La-Keeta interest (sic)." This is followed by a religious thought that a "CHRISTIAN" should not seek to attract undue attention.

The concluding item is one of July 21 in which the PLTF mentions that he is not working and so he concludes that last entry for 1988, some six months before the end of the year, with the following:

"I must understand at this time she is the one working and bringing home the money. So I must adjust and make sure when she want something I must accommodate her, until I go back to work."

From my examination of the 1988 diary, I find nothing cruel therein nor again that the diary was being maintained as future evidence in a dissolution proceeding. With further reference to the Zoarski case, it appears to me that the following quotation from the trial referee's memorandum is pertinent and distinguishing:

"Affirmatively, in support of her cross-complaint, she testified without a diary to a long list of cruel acts and abusive treatment by the plaintiff. Her testimony was clear and effective and unshaken by vigorous cross-examination."

This was not so in the instant proceeding. I found the DEFT was not clear and effective because I could not accept her testimony relating to the PLTF's treatment of her as credible. She did what she wanted regardless of his criticism.

The case of Garrison v. Garrison, 190 Conn. 173 (1983), is one in which the trial court granted the dissolution on the ground of intolerable cruelty and this issue is specifically treated in the Supreme Court's opinion on pages 178-181 wherein that Court sustained the trial court.

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