Marriage of Young v. Young

370 N.W.2d 57, 1985 Minn. App. LEXIS 4307
CourtCourt of Appeals of Minnesota
DecidedJune 25, 1985
DocketC4-84-1743
StatusPublished
Cited by11 cases

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Marriage of Young v. Young, 370 N.W.2d 57, 1985 Minn. App. LEXIS 4307 (Mich. Ct. App. 1985).

Opinion

OPINION

HUSPENI, Judge.

This is an appeal by appellant mother Alyda G. Young from an amended judgment and decree which transferred physical and legal custody of the parties’ two youngest children to respondent husband Douglas A. Young, suspended mother’s visitation with those two children, retained as the court’s expert an individual who had originally been retained by father as an expert witness, delegated the authority to determine mother’s visitation with the two minor children to that expert, and granted only legal custody of a daughter to mother, allowing the daughter to determine when she wished to return to her mother’s physical custody. We affirm in part, reverse in part, and remand for further proceedings consistent with this opinion.

FACTS

The parties’ marriage dissolution was commenced in December 1980 and resulted in a decree of dissolution in November 1982. Four children were born of the marriage: Joseph, born March 22, 1967; Dorothy, born April 23, 1968; James, born June 4, 1974; and John, born August 8, 1976.

*59 During the dissolution proceedings, there were a number of allegations that father had physically abused mother and Joseph, that he had sexually abused Dorothy, and that both parents and all four children needed therapy for various abuse-related and emotional problems. A guardian ad litem was appointed for the minor children. The parties entered into a stipulation several months before entry of the dissolution decree. The purpose of the stipulation was to develop “a long-range plan which will enable the minor children to have a relationship with each of their parents and with their siblings which is healthy and free from abusive conduct and which will provide treatment and therapy for all parties necessary to accomplish that goal.” The terms of this stipulation were incorporated in substance into the dissolution decree.

The decree granted mother “the legal and physical custody” of John and James, subject to a number of provisions and conditions. Father was granted legal and physical custody of Joseph, also subject to provisions and conditions. Dorothy was to be placed in foster care. The decree did not specify her legal and physical custody.

The decree required that mother sign a voluntary agreement placing John and James in foster care for the school year 1982-83 and requiring that they participate in treatment and therapy. Under the terms of the decree, Dr. Sandra Hewitt, a child psychologist originally called as a witness for father in the July 1982 hearing, was to take responsibility for coordinating the various aspects of treatment. The parties stipulated to her authority to recommend a treatment plan and implement it. In addition, visitation of mother and father with John and James was to occur pursuant to Dr. Hewitt’s recommendation. The decree further provided that:

Return of John and James Young to the physical custody of the Petitioner, Alyda Young, and continuing visitation by both parties with all minor children shall be upon the successful completion or progress as determined by Dr. Sandra Hewitt of the following conditions:
i. John and James Young’s participation in individual and joint therapy:
ii. Alyda Young’s participation in:
a. An out-patient day treatment program to address the specific goals:
(1) To remain verbally on task;
(2) To listen;
(3) To deal with positive and negative feedback.
b. Participation in therapy with her sons, John and James, as directed by Dr. Sandra Hewitt and participation in therapy with Dorothy and Joseph as required by their treating facility or therapist.
iii. Participation by Douglas Young in weekly therapy sessions with his son, Joseph, participation in a group for sex offenders under the direction of William Seals at the Center for Behavior Therapy and participation in therapy with his sons, John and James.

The decree also provided that the parties should appear in approximately six months “for a review of the parties’-and the minor children’s participation in treatment and therapy.” That review hearing commenced on May 31, 1983, was continued several times, and was completed in March of 1984.

Numerous experts testified. The testimony was addressed almost exclusively to the emotional problems of mother and the minor children, John and James, who had been in therapy since early 1983. John’s therapist, Dr. David Morris, a clinical child psychologist, testified that John was immature, had difficulty “following through,” had poor social skills, and had a “real icky feeling about himself.” Morris detected an “anxious” attachment and an “unhealthy symbiotic relationship” between John and mother, but testified that this did not mean that the relationship should necessarily be interrupted. James’ therapist, Dr. Glenn Hirsch, also a clinical child psychologist, testified that James had trouble trusting people, accepting authority, and had a short attention span. He found James to be a moderately emotionally disturbed child who exhibited violent behavior.

*60 Hirsch and Morris worked with mother on a “parent training package” designed by Hirsch to teach mother to have positive interaction with her children and set firm limits on them. Both therapists found her initially uncooperative and difficult to work with. Mother and her therapist, Marcia Hamilton, testified that mother had learning disabilities that accounted for her trouble with the package. After several sessions, Hirsch met with mother and Hamilton and explained the package and its rules to mother. A structure was set up within which mother could discuss problems she was having. Morris testified that after the session, mother “whizzed right through” the program. He anticipated she could complete the program in a minimum of five months. Hirsch testified that after the structure was set up, there was a “clear-cut improvement in her behavior.” Mother repeatedly stated that she was prepared to work with the therapists and attributed her previous problems to difficulties in communicating and a misunderstanding of the therapists’ goals. Hirsch testified that he had serious concerns about whether mother would be cooperative with therapists treating James while father seemed more cooperative and had a greater capacity to work on his weaker areas.

Morris recommended placement of John with father “55/45.” He based his recommendation on mother’s lack of cooperation and inability to see John’s problems because of her own, and on his opinion that mother could not discipline John when he was emotionally upset. Morris testified that mother was concerned with John’s welfare and that John had a strong need for nurturance, which mother could provide. He admitted he had “no idea” whether father could provide the nurturing that he determined John needs. He stated that he did not know a lot about father, and that his opinion was based largely on a negative opinion of mother’s abilities. Morris had between 20 and 25 sessions with John and also met with him a few times together with James and mother. Morris had only one session with father and never saw him interact with John.

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