Marriage of Seng Xiong v. Vang

2017 WI App 73, 378 Wis. 2d 636
CourtCourt of Appeals of Wisconsin
DecidedOctober 24, 2017
DocketNo. 2016AP1281
StatusPublished
Cited by5 cases

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Marriage of Seng Xiong v. Vang, 2017 WI App 73, 378 Wis. 2d 636 (Wis. Ct. App. 2017).

Opinion

f 1.

STARK, R J.

Lang Vang appeals from a divorce judgment terminating his marriage to Seng Xiong. Vang argues the circuit court erred by granting a judgment of divorce because he and Xiong were never validly married. Vang alternatively argues that, even if the parties' marriage was valid, the circuit court erroneously exercised its discretion with respect to property division and maintenance.

¶ 2. We conclude that, under the facts of this case, the circuit court properly determined the parties had a legally recognizable putative marriage, pursuant to our prior decision in Xiong ex rel. Edmondson v. Xiong, 2002 WI App 110, 255 Wis. 2d 693, 648 N.W.2d 900. We further conclude the court properly exercised its discretion in dividing the parties' property and awarding maintenance to Xiong for an indefinite duration. We therefore affirm.

BACKGROUND

¶ 3. Xiong petitioned for divorce from Vang in May 2014. Her petition alleged the parties were married in September 1980 at Ban Vinai, a refugee camp in Thailand.1 Vang subsequently moved to dismiss Xiong's divorce petition, contending the parties were never legally married.

f 4. On January 23 and July 6, 2015, the circuit court held evidentiary hearings regarding the validity of the parties' marriage. During the hearings, Xiong testified that she and Vang were married on September 24, 1980, in a wedding ceremony performed by her uncle. She testified a separate "strings ceremony" was performed three days after the wedding.2 Xiong explained she did not want to marry Vang, but she was pressured or "forced" to do so by her family.3

f 5. A number of photographs were introduced into evidence during the July 6, 2015 hearing. Xiong testified one of those photographs—Exhibit 6—was taken in October 1980 and showed her and Vang wearing Hmong wedding clothing. Xiong testified Exhibits 7, 8, 37, 38, and 39 were photographs of the "strings ceremony" that took place three days after the wedding. Handwriting on the back of Exhibits 37, 38, and 39 indicated these photographs were taken on September 27, 1980, and depicted "Lang and Seng's wedding." Xiong identified this handwriting as Vang's. Xiong also testified that two other photographs, marked as Exhibit 40, showed her wearing wedding clothes four days after the marriage ceremony, when she and Vang went to visit her family.

¶ 6. Xiong testified she and Vang came to the United States together in 1983. Over the next five years, they had four children together. Xiong cared for the parties' children so that Vang could go to engineering school. Xiong testified she learned in 2005 that Vang had a "girlfriend," and she and Vang stopped living together in December 2008. When asked why she waited until 2014 to file for divorce, Xiong responded, "Because at the time my kids [were] in school, in college, and I don't want this ... to affect them. And then I—at the same time I was . . . having hope against hope that he still love us, his kids and me during that time."

¶ 7. Several of Xiong's family members corroborated her testimony that she and Vang were married in Thailand in September 1980. Xiong's uncle, Ga Cheng Xiong, testified he was the leader of the Xiong clan in the Ban Vinai refugee camp at that time and was involved in "marriage negotiations" leading up to Xiong and Vang's wedding. Ga Cheng Xiong confirmed that Xiong initially refused to marry Vang, and after two days of unsuccessful negotiations Vang approached Ga Cheng Xiong asking for help. Ga Cheng Xiong conceded that Xiong was ultimately coerced or "indirect [ly] forc[ed]" to marry Vang. He testified Vang paid four silver bars "for the dowry" and fifteen silver coins "for the fees." Ga Cheng Xiong subsequently performed a marriage ceremony between Xiong and Vang, in accordance with all Hmong marriage rituals, during which Vang agreed to be Xiong's husband. Ga Cheng Xiong confirmed that a separate "string ceremony" was performed three days later.

¶ 8. Ga Cheng Xiong's wife, Bao Vang, testified Vang and his relatives "came to [her] house and beg[ged] or ask[ed] [her] husband to go with them and to plea with [Xiong] so that maybe [Xiong] . . . would marry [Vang]." Bao Vang testified she cooked food for the subsequent wedding ceremony, which was performed by her husband. She heard her husband declare Vang and Xiong to be husband and wife during the ceremony.

¶ 9. Xiong's older brother, Nao Tou Xiong, testified he first met Vang when Vang approached Xiong's family seeking to marry her. Nao Tou Xiong testified the subsequent marriage negotiations lasted three days, and Xiong was ultimately forced to marry Vang. Nao Tou Xiong confirmed that Vang paid a bride price in order to marry Xiong, and a wedding ceremony was subsequently performed according to Hmong marriage traditions.

¶ 10. Nao Tou Xiong clarified that the Hmong do not have marriage certificates, and marriages are instead "recorded" in the oral tradition. He denied that "cohabitation ceremonies" are a part of traditional Hmong culture and testified there is "no acceptance for cohabitation in Hmong life, Hmong society." He further explained that sex outside of marriage is "not appropriate in the Hmong culture" and is viewed as disrespecting or dishonoring "the family,. . . the girl, and . . . the culture."

f 11. In addition to the testimony summarized above, Xiong introduced several documents at the evidentiary hearings that referred to Vang as her husband. For instance, Xiong introduced her United States immigration file, which included multiple documents listing Vang as her "husband" or "spouse." Xiong testified Vang filled out several of these documents. Xiong also introduced a quit claim deed, dated November 28, 2012, by which "LANG C. VANG and SENG XIONG, husband and wife," transferred property to two of their children.

f 12. Vang denied during his testimony at the evidentiary hearings that he and Xiong were ever married. He testified he and Xiong met in 1980, were "friend[s]," and went on a few dates. According to Vang, the Hmong elders in the Ban Vinai refugee camp felt that Vang and Xiong's relationship was "makfing] them lose face," so they forced Vang and Xiong to live together. Vang testified he did not want to live with Xiong, and she did not want to live with him. He further testified he never intended to become married to Xiong, and, to the best of his knowledge, she did not intend to become married to him.

¶ 13. Vang conceded a ceremony took place in September 1980 involving "dinners and food," but he testified it was merely a "cohabitation" ceremony, rather than a wedding. Vang denied that any "string ceremony" was performed. He further testified he never filed for a marriage license in Thailand, Laos, or the United States.

¶ 14. Vang acknowledged that he and Xiong ultimately immigrated to the United States together and lived together until 2005. However, he asserted that, after "liv[ing] together for that long with misery life," they mutually decided to separate. Vang testified he subsequently married his current wife, Patty Vang.

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