Marriage of: Murphy

2026 MT 48
Montana Supreme Court·Decided March 10, 2026·No. DA 25-0216·Published·Baker

Opinion

03/10/2026

DA 25-0216

Case Number: DA 25-0216

IN THE SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF MONTANA 2026 MT 48

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF:

MELISSA BARTKOWSKI, f/k/a MELISSA MURPHY,

Petitioner and Appellant, and GRAHAM MURPHY, Respondent and Appellee.

APPEAL FROM: District Court of the Fifth Judicial District, In and For the County of Madison, Cause No. DR-29-2022-1 Honorable Christopher D. Abbott, Presiding Judge

COUNSEL OF RECORD:

For Appellant:

Marybeth M. Sampsel, Measure Law, PC, Kalispell, Montana For Appellee:

Margaret Sullivan Rose, Bridger Law, Bozeman, Montana

Submitted on Briefs: January 28, 2026 Decided: March 10, 2026

Filed:

Clerk

Justice Beth Baker delivered the Opinion of the Court.

¶1 Melissa Bartkowski and Graham Murphy divorced in 2022 after approximately five years of marriage. They agreed to a parenting plan that provided for shared parenting of their daughter, A.M. In 2024, Melissa’s daughter from a previous marriage disclosed that Graham had sexually abused her in 2019. Melissa petitioned the court to modify the parenting plan to prohibit Graham from having unsupervised visitation with A.M. The District Court declined to do so, concluding that Melissa failed to provide sufficient evidence for it to find a change in A.M.’s circumstances as required by § 40-4-219(1), MCA. We address the following restated issues:

1. Did the District Court err when it concluded that there was insufficient evidence to find that Graham posed a threat to A.M.’s safety?

2. Did the District Court err when it presided over the hearing via two-way audio-video communication?

We affirm.

FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND

¶2 Melissa and Graham married in October 2017 and resided in Twin Bridges, Montana. Their daughter A.M. was born in 2018. Both spouses had children from prior marriages: A.R.M. and E.M., Melissa’s daughters; and B.M., Graham’s daughter.

¶3 In January 2022, Melissa and Graham filed a joint petition for dissolution of marriage in the Fifth Judicial District Court. The parties filed a proposed parenting plan with their petition. They agreed that A.M. would spend Sunday through Friday afternoons with Melissa and the remainder of the week with Graham, switching to Saturday through

Thursday with Melissa once A.M. started kindergarten. They also stipulated that A.M. would rotate between them for holidays. The arrangement mirrored Graham’s parenting schedule with B.M. so that the two girls could continue to spend time with one another. Graham agreed to pay Melissa $300 monthly in child support. The District Court adopted the parties’ proposed parenting plan and entered its final dissolution decree in May 2022.

¶4 After the divorce, E.M. and A.R.M. disclosed that Graham had allegedly made inappropriate sexual contact while still married to Melissa. A.R.M. alleged that Graham had sexually assaulted her in summer 2019. A.R.M. was ten years old at the time. Melissa filed a separate proceeding seeking an order of protection against Graham in August 2024. After a hearing, the District Court entered an order prohibiting Graham’s contact with A.R.M. for one year and with A.M. for thirty days.

¶5 In October 2024, Melissa filed an ex parte motion in the dissolution case, requesting that the court enter an emergency interim parenting plan pursuant to § 40-4-220, MCA. Melissa alleged that an immediate amendment of the plan was necessary because A.M.’s order of protection was about to expire and allowing Graham to have unsupervised contact with A.M. would pose a risk to her health and well-being. The District Court granted Melissa’s motion and permitted Graham four hours of supervised visitation with A.M. every Saturday, increasing to six hours weekly after two months. The parties agreed to maintain this status until a show cause hearing, when the court would determine whether to modify the original parenting plan.

¶6 The show cause hearing occurred on February 11, 2025, in Virginia City, Montana. The District Judge presided over the hearing remotely from Helena. Graham and Melissa testified, as did E.M.; Cynthia Beller, the visit supervisor; Dr. Robert Page, a psychologist; Stephanie Day, Graham’s girlfriend; and other acquaintances. A.R.M. did not testify because Melissa feared that A.R.M.’s appearance would be detrimental to her mental health.

¶7 In its findings of fact, conclusions of law, and order on motions, the District Court concluded that there was a change of circumstances to warrant minor amendments to the parenting plan but that Melissa failed to provide sufficient evidence for it to find that Graham had abused her daughters. The court modified the plan to change the location for child exchanges, ordered that A.M. engage in counseling with her current therapist unless the therapist determined that counseling was no longer necessary, and directed that neither party record or listen in on A.M.’s conversations with the other parent or use tracking devices without the other parent’s consent. The court vacated its order adopting the interim parenting plan and reinstated the original plan that permitted Graham unsupervised parenting of A.M.

STANDARDS OF REVIEW

¶8 When reviewing a district court’s ruling on a request to amend a parenting plan, we review its findings of fact for clear error and its conclusions of law for correctness. In re Whyte, 2012 MT 45, ¶ 14, 364 Mont. 219, 272 P.3d 102. A finding is clearly erroneous if it is not supported by substantial evidence, if the court misapprehended the effect of the

evidence, or if we are firmly convinced that the court made a mistake. In re C.J., 2016 MT 93, ¶ 12, 383 Mont. 197, 369 P.3d 1028. If the court’s findings “upon which the decision to amend are predicated are not clearly erroneous, then we will only overturn the district court if there is a clear abuse of discretion.” In re Whyte, ¶ 14 (citing In re D’Alton, 2009 MT 184, ¶ 7, 351 Mont. 51, 209 P.3d 251). A district court abuses its discretion when it “acts arbitrarily, without employment of conscientious judgment, or exceeds the bounds of reason resulting in substantial injustice.” In re C.J., ¶ 13 (citation omitted).

¶9 In general, we do not review alleged procedural errors if the complaining party failed to timely object in the district court. In re Parenting of F.L.F.L.K., 2025 MT 41, ¶ 15, 421 Mont. 1, 564 P.3d 844. Even if the party properly preserved the claim for appeal, we will not reverse on procedural grounds absent a showing of substantial prejudice. In re Parenting of F.L.F.L.K., ¶ 15.

DISCUSSION

¶10 1. Did the District Court err when it concluded that there was insufficient evidence to find that Graham posed a threat to A.M.’s safety?

¶11 The party seeking to amend a parenting plan under § 40-4-219, MCA, “carries a heavy burden of proof.” In re Marriage of Oehlke, 2002 MT 79, ¶ 17, 309 Mont. 254, 46 P.3d 49 (citations omitted). The court may amend or modify a parenting plan only if it finds (1) that the child’s circumstances have changed based on “facts that have arisen since the prior plan or that were unknown to the court at the time of the entry of the prior plan,” and (2) that modification is necessary to serve the child’s best interests. Section 40-4-219(1), MCA; Bessette v. Bessette, 2019 MT 35, ¶ 16, 394 Mont. 262, 434 P.3d 894.

A court may not modify an existing parenting arrangement without first finding changed circumstances. In re Marriage of Oehlke, ¶ 12 (citations omitted). When determining whether modification is necessary to serve the child’s best interests, the court must consider the factors set forth in § 40-4-212, MCA, including “physical abuse or threat of physical abuse” against the child. Sections 40-4-212(1)(f), -219(1)(a), MCA.

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