Marriage of Middleton

Colorado Court of Appeals·Decided December 4, 2025·No. 24CA2191·Unpublished

Opinion

24CA2191 Marriage of Middleton 12-04-2025 COLORADO COURT OF APPEALS

Court of Appeals No. 24CA2191 El Paso County District Court No. 16DR340 Honorable Amanda J. Phillips, Judge

In re the Marriage of Amy Diane Middleton, Appellee, and Austin Miles Middleton, Appellant.

ORDER AFFIRMED

Division VI

Opinion by JUDGE GOMEZ

Welling and Sullivan, JJ., concur

NOT PUBLISHED PURSUANT TO C.A.R. 35(e)

Announced December 4, 2025

The Law Office of Andrew Bryant, LLC, Catherine H. Ford, Colorado Springs, Colorado, for Appellee

Austin Miles Middleton, Pro Se

¶1 In this post-dissolution of marriage proceeding involving Austin Miles Middleton (father) and Amy Diane Middleton (mother), father appeals the district court’s order modifying parental responsibilities concerning their child. We affirm.

I. Background

¶2 After nearly three years of marriage and the birth of a son, mother filed a petition for dissolution in 2016. In the permanent orders, the district court approved the parties’ stipulations concerning decision-making responsibility and parenting time. Under those stipulations, the parties shared decision-making responsibility, except that mother had the final say regarding religion, and mother was the child’s primary residential parent.

¶3 In 2020, during proceedings on a motion mother had filed to modify parenting time, a child and family investigator (CFI) credited mother’s allegations that father had committed numerous acts of domestic violence during the marriage. Father admitted to the CFI only that he had recently shoved mother and said that he didn’t think it was a “big deal.” The CFI requested, and the court agreed, that father could receive equal parenting time after completing a

domestic violence evaluation. Father did so. The court didn’t modify the allocation of decision-making during those proceedings.

¶4 Three years later, mother filed the underlying motion to modify decision-making responsibility and parenting time. The district court held an evidentiary hearing on mother’s motion, after which it made the following findings:

• Father committed acts of domestic violence against mother during the marriage.

• Father failed to take any responsibility for his actions, thereby denying the reality of the abuse and its continuing effects on mother and the child. “[T]he underlying problem [was] domestic violence and [f]ather simply being unwilling to relinquish control.”

• A supplemental parental responsibilities evaluator (PRE)

testified that she observed father’s ongoing controlling behavior in the parties’ online communications. And mother testified that she still struggled to be in the same room with father.

• The child was “suffering from emotional dysregulation due to the incredibly problematic relationship that [the

parties] have and their inability to get past their dislike for each other.”

• The PRE testified that the child’s behaviors were consistent with exposure to domestic violence and that the parties “cannot do things cooperatively together,”

which was causing the child to experience “distress” and was “emotionally endangering his development.”

• Despite years of warnings that their behavior was harming the child, the parties had made no meaningful or lasting changes. They were incapable of change; could not encourage the sharing of love, affection, and contact between the child and the other party; and could not place the child’s needs above their own.

• Mother objected to joint decision-making responsibility.

¶5 The district court determined that the ongoing impact of father’s domestic violence made the current joint decision-making responsibility arrangement and equal parenting schedule contrary to the child’s best interests and placed the child in danger. The court named mother as the child’s sole decision-maker and primary parent and granted father three weekends of parenting time per

month during the school year and equal parenting time during the summer.

¶6 Father filed a motion for reconsideration under C.R.C.P. 59, which the district court denied.

¶7 On appeal, father contends that the district court erred by modifying decision-making responsibility and parenting time. We address — and reject — each contention in turn.

II. Standard of Review

¶8 A district court has broad discretion when modifying decision- making responsibility and parenting time, and “we exercise every presumption in favor of upholding its decisions.” In re Marriage of Wenciker, 2022 COA 74, ¶ 26. A court abuses its discretion when it acts in a manifestly arbitrary, unfair, or unreasonable manner, or when it misapplies the law. In re Marriage of Pawelec, 2024 COA 107, ¶ 45.

¶9 However, we review the district court’s factual findings for clear error, meaning that we will not disturb the findings unless they lack any support in the record. Van Gundy v. Van Gundy, 2012 COA 194, ¶ 12.

III. Discussion

A. Decision-Making Responsibility

¶ 10 Father argues that the district court was aware of his domestic violence by 2020 — three years before mother filed the underlying motion to modify — and, thus, that there are no new circumstances to support a modification of decision-making responsibility under section 14-10-131(2), C.R.S. 2025. We discern no error.

¶ 11 Section 14-10-131(2) allows a district court to modify decision- making responsibility if it finds, based on facts that have arisen since or were unknown to the court at the time of the prior order, that (1) a change has occurred in the circumstances of the child or the party to whom decision-making responsibility was allocated and (2) the modification is necessary to serve the child’s best interests. In re Marriage of Humphries, 2024 COA 92M, ¶ 17.

¶ 12 When, as here, a party requests a change in decision-making based on endangerment of the child, the district court must retain the existing order unless the order endangers the child’s physical health or significantly impairs the child’s emotional development and the advantage of a change outweighs the harm likely to result to the child. § 14-10-131(2)(c); Humphries, ¶ 20.

¶ 13 Additionally, when a party has committed domestic violence, it is not in the child’s best interests to allocate joint decision-making responsibility over the abused party’s objection unless the court finds credible evidence of the parties’ ability “to make decisions cooperatively in the best interest of the child” and “in a manner that is safe for the abused party and the child.” § 14-10-124(1.5)(b), (4)(a)(II)(A), C.R.S. 2025.

¶ 14 Here, in making its decision, the district court didn’t rely solely on father’s history of domestic violence during the marriage. Instead, the court emphasized new and continuing facts showing that the child was endangered by the lingering effects of father’s abuse. See § 14-10-131(2). In particular, the court found, with record support, that mother and the child both continued to experience trauma from father’s domestic violence; father’s coercive control persisted in the parties’ interactions; the parties were unable to make decisions cooperatively in the child’s best interests; and mother objected to joint decision-making responsibility.

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