Marriage of L.M. and E.M. CA4/1

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedSeptember 22, 2022
DocketD078565
StatusUnpublished

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COURT OF APPEAL, FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION ONE

STATE OF CALIFORNIA

In re the Marriage of L.M. and E.M. D078565 L.M.,

Respondent, (Super. Ct. No. 20FDV01251S) v.

E.M.,

Appellant.

APPEAL from an order of the Superior Court of San Diego County, Margo Lewis Hoy, retired Judge. Affirmed. E.M., in propria persona; Orozco Law Firm and Jose A. Orozco for Appellant. Antonyan Miranda, Anthony J. Boucek, Ilona Antonyan and Case Kamshad for Respondent. E.M.1 (Husband) and L.M. (Wife) were in the process of divorce in a separate proceeding when Wife filed and received a temporary restraining order against Husband. After a three-day contested hearing, the trial court issued a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) under the Domestic

Violence Prevention Act (Fam. Code, § 6200 et seq. (DVPA)2 against

Husband for a one-year period.3 On appeal, Husband claims the trial court abused its discretion in granting the DVRO by applying the wrong legal standard. Alternatively, he claims the DVRO is not supported by substantial evidence. We affirm the DVRO.

1 Pursuant to rule 8.90 of the California Rules of Court, we refer to the parties by first and last initials only.

2 All statutory references are to the Family Code.

3 Although the DVRO expired at midnight on November 19, 2021 and Wife asserts that Husband’s appeal is moot as a result, we exercise our discretion to decide the case on the merits. (See Environmental Charter High School v. Centinela Valley Union High School Dist. (2004) 122 Cal.App.4th 139, 144 [appellate court has discretion to resolve a moot appeal on the merits].) In so doing, we recognize that a domestic violence restraining order “is no ordinary injunction” and may have continuing collateral consequences. (Curcio v. Pels (2020) 47 Cal.App.5th 1, 13, fn. 6 (Curcio); Ritchie v. Konrad (2004) 115 Cal.App.4th 1275, 1291 [noting that, in a renewal of a protective order in a contested case, a court should consider various factors including the “ ‘burdens’ the protective order imposes on the restrained party,” which “can be very real” including potentially affecting a restrained person’s employment and, if children are involved, custody].)

2 FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND4 Overview Husband and Wife were married for almost 30 years. They had two children together, and Husband had a child from a prior relationship. All of their children are adults. Wife is very active and well-known in her community. According to Wife, their marriage had been rocky since about 2010. Husband and Wife opened a business together in 1989 (the Business). In early 2020, Husband asked Wife for financial records for the Business, as the couple were contemplating divorce and Wife was its bookkeeper. After repeatedly asking Wife for these records, Husband in early March 2020 accessed her computer twice and downloaded its contents without Wife’s permission. On March 26, Husband reviewed the contents of Wife’s computer and learned she had been having an affair (with a man named David) and

4 We grant Wife’s September 2, 2022 unopposed (1) request for judicial notice of the issuance of a “renewed” domestic violence restraining order based on the stipulation of the parties at an August 30, 2022 hearing (Renewed-DVRO) and (2) motion to augment the record with the August 30 hearing transcript. However, we note the record—as now augmented—does not show when Wife moved for renewal of the DVRO, as the original restraining order expired on November 19, 2021, and the Renewed-DVRO did not issue until August 30, 2022, or about nine months later. (See § 6345, subd. (a) [providing in relevant part that a restraining order “may be renewed . . . either for five years or permanently, without a showing of further abuse since the issuance of the original order, subject to termination or modification by further order of the court . . . . The request for renewal may be brought at any time within the three months before the expiration” of the original restraining order], italics added.) We offer no opinion regarding (1) the validity of the Renewed-DVRO, including whether it complies with section 6345, subdivision (a); and (2) whether Wife is entitled to an award of attorney fees in connection with this proceeding.

3 had already retained a divorce attorney. As particularly relevant to this appeal, Husband also found nude pictures of Wife, sexually explicit videos she had had taken of herself, and sexually explicit text messages she had exchanged with David (hereafter, Personal Information). Upon learning of Wife’s affair and seeing the sexually explicit materials, Husband was depressed and distraught. Later that day, Husband sent a series of text messages to a group of about 10 people (the Group), including Wife; her parents, brother, friends, and coworkers; and their children. In one of the messages, Husband wrote, “I have almost a hundred gigs of information up on the cloud under key. No one in my office has passwords or anything, but should anything happen to me, the information will be released.” He added, “There are hundreds of pictures that [Wife] has freely shared with [David] and other people. Nudes. She’s actually [a] pretty good photographer”; and, “You know me, I’m a stickler for the law. The pictures are taken with a phone paid for by [the Business] and they resided in a computer paid for by [the Business], so I’m pretty sure they belong to [the Business] and I can publish them.” In another message, Husband claimed Wife gave him a sexually transmitted disease (STD). He wrote, “The STD is actually quite disgusting as she got them from a gas station attendant who called, because he was worried about [Wife’s] well-being. She had gotten home and was so drunk she literally passed out in front of . . . a dresser”; and “[s]tories will continue;

there are lots.”5

5 At the contested hearing, Wife denied passing out drunk or giving Husband an STD. Wife also claimed Husband in the past threatened to disseminate untrue information about her if she threatened divorce.

4 On March 27, Wife obtained a temporary restraining order (TRO)6 against Husband and a hearing was scheduled for a permanent restraining

order.7 The TRO provided that Husband was not to disseminate the Personal Information and/or contact Wife. Wife subsequently claimed Husband violated the TRO at least four times by indirectly contacting her through family and friends. Husband denied the violations. On or about May 29, Husband filed his own request for a restraining order.

6 Wife testified at the contested hearing there were prior incidents of abuse by Husband that also supported issuance of a restraining order. Because the trial court did not rely on these other incidents in issuing the DVRO and the parties do not assert error as a result, we do not address them.

7 Neither Wife’s application for a TRO nor the TRO are included in the record. In fact, other than the August 30 hearing that was the subject of Wife’s September 2, 2022 augmentation request, the clerk’s transcript in this case is limited to 36 pages and includes only the DVRO issued on November 20, 2020; the trial court minutes from the same day; the Register of Actions, identifying the dates various documents were filed in the trial court through June 30, 2021 (i.e., more than three months before expiration of the DVRO); and the notice of appeal and designation of the record.

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