Marriage of Heard v. Heard

353 N.W.2d 157, 1984 Minn. App. LEXIS 3333
CourtCourt of Appeals of Minnesota
DecidedJuly 17, 1984
DocketC3-83-1528
StatusPublished
Cited by22 cases

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Marriage of Heard v. Heard, 353 N.W.2d 157, 1984 Minn. App. LEXIS 3333 (Mich. Ct. App. 1984).

Opinion

OPINION

CRIPPEN, Judge.

This appeal involves a child custody dispute.

Appellant Judith Marie Heard appeals from Amended Findings of Fact, Conclusions of Law, Order for Judgment and Order Denying her Motion for a New Trial entered in a dissolution action on August 31, 1983.

In the original Findings of Fact, Conclusions of Law and Order for Judgment entered on July 27, 1983, the trial court awarded appellant and respondent Jerry Lee Heard joint legal and divided physical custody of the parties’ two sons and concluded that each party should pay their own attorney fees. In her post-judgment motion Judy Heard contested findings and conclusions on joint legal and divided physical custody, and she requested an amended conclusion ordering her husband to pay $1,500 for her attorney’s fees. Her requests for amendments were denied as was her request for a new trial.

On appeal, appellant contends that:

1. The trial court abused its discretion in applying the statutory standards for joint custody;
2. The trial court erred in denying the new trial; and
3. The trial court abused its discretion in failing to grant her request for attorney fees.

Appellant requests sole custody of the children, with liberal visitation, and further requests that if she is awarded custody that this court should order the respondent to pay child support. (The trial court con- *159 eluded that since the parents would have physical custody an equal amount of time, no child support would be awarded unless future circumstances required it.)

We affirm in part, and reverse and remand on issues of child custody and child support.

FACTS

Jerry and Judith Heard were married on October 8, 1965. Two children were born of this marriage; Troy was born July 10, 1973, and Travis was born August 13, 1975.

In February 1982, the parties separated from each other and Jerry allowed Judy to occupy the home and become the primary custodial parent. The parties agreed on a visitation schedule.

On February 7, 1982, respondent filed for dissolution of the marriage and requested permanent custody of the minor children. Appellant filed an answer and counter-petition, asking for sole temporary and permanent custody of the minor children, subject to reasonable visitation as well as legal fees, maintenance and support.

On April 28, 1982, the parties went to court, mainly because of a disagreement over the church attendance of the children. The trial court granted temporary custody to appellant subject to reasonable visitation and ordered respondent to pay housing expenses, educational expenses of the boys, and temporary maintenance. The court ordered visitation on alternate Sundays and also concluded that attendance at church should be at the sole discretion of the parent in charge of the children on a given Sunday.

The parties returned to court again on December 23, 1982 on motion and affidavit of the appellant for a restraining order against the respondent. In the affidavit, appellant alleged that the respondent brought the boys back from visitation and the two began discussing Thanksgiving visitation. She states that respondent then began an angry confrontation with her; engaged in name-calling and repeated vulgar statements to and about her in the presence of the children. Further, she alleged that respondent has engaged in other similar incidents and she is fearful when he exhibits extreme rage. At the restraining order hearing, Mr. Heard was not permitted to give oral testimony. A letter written by his attorney in response to the restraining order motion was read into the record, however. The letter stated that Jerry admitted to blowing up and was willing to sign a stipulation to stay away from the home. According to Jerry, he was upset because Judy had given some of his shotgun shells to her boyfriend’s son and the children had already gone to bed at the time of the incident. The trial court issued an order restraining the respondent from annoying or abusing appellant or the children and from entering the house unless invited.

The trial on child custody occurred on April 27, 1983. Both parties reaffirmed that they wanted sole custody. Overall, thé testimony shows that both parties love and sincerely care about the children; can adequately discipline the children, and both take parenting seriously and can arrange their jobs in a flexible manner or arrange for babysitters. Judith testified that she has been the primary caretaker of the children since birth, though Jerry, testifying specifically about when the children were young, stated that Judy stayed home with both kids until they were one and that after that they shared child care to some extent to accommodate work shifts.

The testimony shows, however, that the parties do have trouble communicating with one another. Judith, referring to Jerry, states “he has made any communication with him extremely difficult.” And, Jerry, addressing the breakdown of the marriage relationship states, “I guess you could call it a complete lack of communication. We were not able to talk to work out any kinds of problems whatsoever.” This communication problem has come up in relation to the children. For instance, Jerry testified that at times he has been prevented from freely communicating with the kids by *160 phone. Jerry Heard testified that he attempted to discuss the telephone problem with Mrs. Heard, and that on one occasion he got very abusive. Judith testified that generally the boys can call their father anytime and he can call them.

The trial judge interviewed both children on the question of custody, but they expressed no preference.

A Home Study was conducted by the Pipestone Family Service Center. A defect of this study was that the social worker did not talk to the children nor personally observe them with their father. Among the salient findings of the study are:

1. Judy describes Jerry as impulsive and he does not deny this. In his opinion a “good spouse” should live with and accept the decisions made by head of the household. Judy has been unable to be totally submissive and on occasion, when challenged, Jerry has responded by either verbal or physical abuse.
2. Judy is capable of behaving hysterically, however, this is not intended to be misconstrued to mean that she is mentally or emotionally unstable ... Dr. Talley states that in his opinion neither Judy or Jerry are mentally ill, rather reflect a sick marriage.
3. Despite the adversary nature of the divorced parents relationship, alternative weekend visitation has worked out well.
4. Judy and Jerry love the boys and are capable of caring for them.
5. It was suggested that emotionally Travis probably could not handle being separated from his mother at this time.
6. Joint legal custody is most agreeable to Jerry.
7. Judy does not believe that joint custody will work for she and Jerry and fears that she cannot count on Jerry to respect her rights.

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