Marriage of Chafin v. Rude

391 N.W.2d 882, 1986 Minn. App. LEXIS 4608
CourtCourt of Appeals of Minnesota
DecidedAugust 5, 1986
DocketC6-85-2242
StatusPublished
Cited by2 cases

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Opinion

OPINION

CRIPPEN, Judge.

During dissolution proceedings in 1981, the parties entered into a stipulation for joint legal and physical custody of their one-year-old son. In March 1982 respondent Mark Rude moved for a change of custody. Appellant Cheryl Chafin did the same. The trial court awarded sole legal and physical custody to the mother in March 1983. The father again moved for a custody change in January 1985. The trial court granted the motion and Chafin appealed. We affirm.

FACTS

Appellant Cheryl Chafin and respondent Mark Rude were married in 1979. Their son Garrett was born in 1980. The parties separated in early 1981. Respondent charged Chafin with abuse and petitioned for an order for protection in February 1981, but soon thereafter withdrew it. The parties stipulated to joint legal and physical custody and the trial court adopted this agreement.

After the dissolution, however, the parties were unable to cooperate in the joint custody arrangement. In March 1982 Rude moved to modify custody to award him sole legal and physical custody of the child. Chafin did the same.

Following extensive litigation and an evi-dentiary hearing in January 1983, the court awarded sole legal and physical custody to appellant. At the hearing, respondent said that he had been Garrett’s primary caretaker practically since the child’s birth. Because appellant worked two jobs and later entered law school, Rude cared for the child during the day and arranged his work schedule around appellant and their son, working the late afternoon and evening shift. He noted that after the dissolution, the boy was in daycare during the daytime and that he cared for Garrett in the evening and at night.

Psychologist Gail Welling of the Ramsey County Community Human Services Department evaluated Chafin, Rude and the child pursuant to a 1982 court order. She recommended discontinuation of the joint custody arrangement because of the parties’ inability to cooperate with each other. However, she was unable to recommend which parent should have custody. She noted that both parents accuse one another of lying and of being a careless and neglectful parent. She found that Garrett has a positive relationship with each parent.

Family Court Officer Kathy Steen verified Wellings’ assessment that both parents have personal difficulties. She stated that Garrett might be harmed by his parents’ behavior and the fight over him if the *885 situation were not resolved. She also recommended against continuing joint custody. She wrote that although both parents possess positive and negative attributes, Mark Rude should be granted sole legal and physical custody of Garrett, with liberal visitation for appellant, and with little contact between the parents.

Dr. Michael Shea, a clinical psychologist, also evaluated the parties in 1982 at Rude’s request. He claimed that his recommendations would be in Garrett’s best interests, “however that might impact each parent.” Shea interviewed Garrett, Chafin, Rude, Chafin’s mother and Rude’s sister. He also reviewed educational and medical records, psychologial reports, and conducted his own psychological examinations.

In his report, Shea stated his opinion that Chafin believes Rude should have little or no place in Garrett’s life, despite contrary comments. He observed that it would be difficult for Chafin to encourage Garrett to have a good relationship with his father. He said that Chafin believes Rude’s mother would try to keep her son from her.

Shea recommended that Rude be granted sole legal and physical custody of his son and concluded that Rude has a high level of emotional stability and could willingly encourage a good relationship between Garrett and his mother. He found that although Chafin could provide an intellectually stimulating and emotionally supportive environment for Garrett, she had emotional problems.

In May 1983, the trial court amended the judgment and placed sole legal and physical custody with the child’s mother. The court ordered extensive-visitation for Rude, including one day and night each weekend, with alternating full weekends, and with “reasonable” evening visitation during the week.

The court supported this decision with findings that both parents are fit to have custody and that they both love their son. The trial court found that Chafin is an excellent mother and that Rude is an excellent father.

In 1983, the determining factor for the trial court seemed to be an identification of the party who would better facilitate visitation and encourage a relationship between Garrett and the noncustodial parent. The trial court found “that Petitioner [Cheryl Chafin] is the parent best suited to provide consistent access to the other parent for purposes of visitation and other parental activities.”

In the spring of 1984, after Rude returned Garrett to his mother from a visit, appellant noticed marks on her son’s back. She sought an order for protection for herself and Garrett under the domestic abuse statute. See Minn.Stat. § 518B.01 (1984). She said she feared the two red marks were burns inflicted by the boy’s father. According to the police report the child was distant, evasive and very hesitant to talk to the officers. The report states that the child first said he didn’t know how the spots got there but later said that Rude burned him with the lighted end of a match four times and then placed a blue plastic bag over him.

Respondent denied these charges. While the matter was under investigation and during pendency of the proceedings he was limited to short periods of supervised visitation with his son.

Dr. Jane McNaught, a court-appointed psychologist who examined Garrett, testified at the order for protection hearing. McNaught evidently questioned the child’s veracity and said she did not believe Rude burned his son. Respondent claims that at the conclusion of the hearing the family court referee asked if there was a request for custody change. The trial court issued an order prohibiting the parties from harassing one another, but the court made no jurisdictional finding that Rude had abused his son.

In February 1985, Rude asked for a change in custody, claiming that the child was being harmed by appellant’s efforts to sever the relationship with his father. He alleged both physical and psychological interference with visitation and requested an *886 evidentiary hearing which was held on September 10, 1985.

Dr. McNaught testified at this hearing that she did not believe Rude had abused his son in 1984. She based her opinion on four factors. First, she said the fact that the child spontaneously discussed specific details of the abuse was unusual. Second, in her next two meetings with the child he told her his report of the burn was make believe and asked McNaught, “[pjlease don’t tell mommy, she might get mad at me.” Third, Garrett seemed preoccupied with remembering his mother’s instructions not to “lovie up” to his father and fourth, he didn’t act like an abused child with his father.

McNaught concluded that Chafin had induced the abuse story and pressured Garrett to dislike his father. She testified that such conduct is potentially damaging to a relationship between Garrett and his father.

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