Marriage of Carre CA4/1

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedJanuary 12, 2021
DocketD076813
StatusUnpublished

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COURT OF APPEAL FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION ONE

STATE OF CALIFORNIA

In re the Marriage of SUSAN and STEPHEN L. CARRÉ. D076813 SUSAN R. CARRÉ,

Appellant, (Super. Ct. No. DN160594)

v.

STEPHEN L. CARRÉ,

Respondent.

APPEAL from an order of the Superior Court of San Diego County, James A. Mangione, Judge. Affirmed.

Susan R. Carré, in pro. per., for Appellant. Stephen L. Carré, in pro. per., for Respondent. Pettit Kohn Ingrassia Lutz & Dolin, Douglas A. Pettit and Matthew C. Smith, for Minors’ Counsel Heather Milligan. The family court on December 6, 2018, appointed attorney Heather Milligan as counsel for teenage minors B.C. (born 2003) and S.C. (2005) because of the “high conflict child custody” dispute between their parents, appellant Susan R. Carré and her former husband respondent Stephen L. Carré. On September 20, 2019, after interviewing minors in camera with the

parties’ consent, the court at an unreported1 hearing denied Susan’s separate motions for full legal custody of minors and to dismiss attorney Milligan as minor’s counsel. On appeal, Susan, appearing in propria persona as she did in the family court, claims the court abused its discretion in denying her motions. Specifically, Susan claims the court failed to recognize the abuse of minors by Stephen and therefore did not consider their best interest in denying her full legal custody. She also claims the court erred in refusing to dismiss minor’s counsel, despite her showing of “good cause” for such dismissal. As we explain, we reject Susan’s claims and affirm the court’s order. FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL OVERVIEW Susan and Stephen have been engaged in an ongoing family court matter for about a decade. As relevant to this appeal, the court at a December 6, 2018 hearing denied for lack of evidence Susan’s request for a domestic violence restraining order, which request she had filed on November 14 on behalf of herself and minors. At this hearing the court also appointed attorney Milligan as minor’s counsel, explaining as follows its reason for doing so: “The incidents and conduct described [in the request for restraining order] relate to C/V [i.e., custody and visitation] issues . . . in which the children have been placed directly in the middle of the parent’s high-conflict. The Court has concerns about allegations re father’s conduct and behaviors toward mother and the children—as well as the impact on the children—but that on this evidence,

1 Unless otherwise indicated, all of the hearings in this case were unreported. 2 the burden of proof has not been met. The Court also has concerns that the DVTRO [i.e., domestic violence temporary restraining order] process may have proceeded as leverage for C/V orders. The Court finds appropriate C/V orders exist and a pending evidentiary hearing remains on calendar.” (Italics added.) Susan’s request for a domestic violence restraining order was precipitated by her October 23, 2018 ex parte application for an emergency order regarding custody. Susan claimed it was necessary for her to assume full temporary custody over minors until they could be interviewed by Family Court Services (FCS). Susan based her request on an incident that occurred in September between S.C. and her father. According to Susan, in this incident S.C. messaged her mother stating she wanted to come home early from a visit. When Stephen saw S.C.’s message, Susan alleged he had an “outburst,” cursed and yelled at S.C., and caused S.C. to become fearful and believe he might “hurt” her. Susan claimed a change in custody was also needed based on another incident that occurred in early October when Stephen and his wife unexpectedly showed up at a football game where S.C. was cheering. According to Susan, S.C. “has never felt comfortable with her own father watching her cheer, has described it as ‘creepy,’ and has said she feels as though he is judgmentally glaring at her.” (Emphasis omitted.) At halftime, Susan contacted Stephen, telling him he was making S.C. uncomfortable and suggesting he apologize to S.C. for the September incident. According to Susan, Stephen replied, “that’s B.S.” and “I don’t need to apologize for SHIT.” Susan in her October 23 ex parte application added that in May 2018, S.C. awakened in a panic, telling her mother that she was having suicidal thoughts. About a week later, Susan received a call from S.C.’s school

3 counselor after other students expressed concern S.C. might “hurt herself.” Susan claimed both S.C. and B.C. have had “thoughts of suicide and personal bouts of anger in the home,” which she further claimed “coincided with episodes of neglect and mental abuse by [Stephen].” After S.C.’s disclosure about suicide, she started seeing a family therapist. According to Susan, B.C. also started counseling in 2016 after she too had discussed suicide. Although Stephen wanted to take his daughters to counseling, Susan claimed that minors “begged” her not to force them to attend counseling with their father and stepmother, which Susan concluded was a “disturbing red flag about the maltreatment” of minors by Stephen and his wife. The ex parte application also described other incidents to support Susan’s claim it was in minors’ best interest that she have full temporary custody. Susan also alleged that for “several years” B.C. had “beg[ged]” her to request full custody over her and her sister. The court on October 24 kept the status quo as to custody and set the matter for hearing on November 15. On October 24 Susan filed a request for order seeking among other relief a change in child support and asking the court to order Stephen to attend anger management classes. The day before the November 15 hearing, Susan filed her request for a domestic violence restraining order, as noted. Susan’s request for a restraining order generally relied on the same set of facts—with the exception of some additional e-mail correspondence between Susan and

4 Stephen,2 and text messages between B.C. and Stephen3 —that she used to support her October 23 ex parte request for full temporary custody of minors. Less than a month after the court denied her request for a domestic violence restraining order, Susan renewed that request, again on behalf of herself and minors, based on an incident that took place on December 23. Susan claimed Stephen, while hugging and saying goodbye to S.C., allegedly ran his hand down his daughter’s back and touched her “butt,” causing S.C. to be “creeped” out and leading S.C. to suffer severe “mental/emotional” injury. Susan also claimed B.C. complained of being touched “inappropriately” by her father. (Emphasis omitted.) In connection with her request for a restraining order, Susan renewed her request for full custody of minors. Susan also reported the December 23 incident to child welfare services (CWS) and law enforcement. The court on December 28 granted Susan a temporary restraining order, provisionally awarded her full legal and physical custody of minors, and denied Stephen visitation. The court set the matter for a full hearing on

2 The e-mail correspondence is dated November 10, 2018. The correspondence shows a series of vitriolic e-mails beginning with an incident that occurred that day at one of B.C.’s games, which led Susan to call law enforcement. The back-and-forth e-mails also detail myriad incidents of alleged abuse by both parties over the course of years.

3 The text messages show Stephen apologizing to B.C.

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