Marriage of B.K. and L.S. CA4/1

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedApril 16, 2021
DocketD077408
StatusUnpublished

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COURT OF APPEAL, FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION ONE

STATE OF CALIFORNIA

In re the Marriage of B.K. and L.S. D077408 B.K.,

Appellant, (Super. Ct. No. 17FL000940C)

v.

L.S.,

Respondent.

APPEAL from an order of the Superior Court of San Diego County, Lisa R. Rodriguez, Judge. Affirmed in part and remanded in part with directions. Rosemary Meagher-Leonard for Appellant. Bickford Blado & Botros and Andrew J. Botros for Respondent.

B.K. (Father) appeals from a family court order granting the request of L.S. (Mother), a Hungarian native, to move to Hungary with the parties’ two minor children, J.K. and K.K.1 The children, who are dual citizens of the United States and Hungary, were nine and seven years old at the time of the order. The court awarded Father with visitation rights and imposed

conditions, known as “Condon2 conditions,” to ensure enforcement of the child custody order once Mother moves to Hungary with the children. Father argues the court abused its discretion in allowing the international move because, according to Father, the court misapplied the relevant law on move-away requests and its findings are not supported by substantial evidence. Father also argues the court failed to impose adequate Condon conditions to protect his visitation rights with the children once they relocate, including by failing to require that Mother post a cash bond and file a stipulation in Hungary conceding to U.S. jurisdiction. Mother argues a bond was not required but she has no objection to a modified order requiring her to forfeit some child support to ensure enforcement of the court’s orders. Because some type of alternative financial sanction is typically imposed in international relocation cases and Mother has no objection to such an order here, we remand the cause to the family court to modify its order requiring Mother to forfeit some child support as an enforcement mechanism. In other respects, finding no abuse in permitting the children to move with Mother to Hungary, we affirm.

1 Pursuant to the California Rules of Court, rule 8.90, governing “Privacy in opinions,” we refer to the parties and children by first and last initials only.

2 In re Marriage of Condon (1998) 62 Cal.App.4th 533 (Condon).

2 FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND Mother immigrated from Hungary to the United States when she was thirty-nine years old. Soon after she arrived, she married Father in November 2009. In July 2010, their daughter J.K. was born in Florida. When J.K. was three months old, the young family moved to San Diego, California because of Father’s work. In December 2012, their son K.K. was born in San Diego. Before their eighth wedding anniversary, Mother and Father separated and, in early 2017, Father moved back to Florida while Mother and the children remained in San Diego. A stipulated judgment of dissolution of marriage was entered April 13, 2017. Pursuant to the judgment, the parties shared legal custody, Mother was awarded physical custody of the children in San Diego, and Father would have visitation that was approximately a 5 percent timeshare. Over the next several years, the parties would litigate child custody and visitation numerous times in court. Mother retained physical custody, but Father’s timeshare with the children increased to an approximate 25 percent timeshare. In October 2019, Mother, as a self-represented litigant, filed a request for order (RFO) seeking to move the children with her to Budapest, Hungary. Mother stated she received a job offer in Budapest as the reason for the move. Father opposed the move and sought sole physical custody to move the

3 children to Boynton Beach, Florida to live with him. At a contested

evidentiary hearing in January 2020, Mother and Father each testified.3 Mother has been the children’s primary caregiver since birth. She was the stay-at-home parent during the nearly eight-year marriage, while Father was not very involved in the children’s day-to-day life because of his work. When Father moved to Florida in early 2017, she had physical custody of the children. At the time of the hearing, Father “on an average” saw the children “probably every other month.” He exercised visitation with the children for “the big vacations” but did not know if he had “exercised the full 28 days that was allotted” to him each year. Father described his early relationship with the children as “[e]xtremely limited” and “constrained” because the children only spoke Hungarian and he does not. However, the parties agreed Father’s relationship with the children was improving as they had matured. Mother wanted to move to Hungary to pursue an executive job opportunity, which she believed would materially improve the children’s lives. The children, who have been immersed in Hungarian culture all their lives, speak Hungarian, eat Hungarian food, and have dual citizenship in the United States and Hungary. In San Diego, they attend a Hungarian American school, participate in an international school program, act in American-Hungarian bilingual musicals, and are members of the Hungarian Scout program. In Budapest the children would attend a private American school with other American children and they would be cared for by an

3 We summarize the evidence, as necessary to the disposition of the appeal, under the applicable standard of review discussed in part I., post. We view the evidence in the light most favorable to the prevailing party, giving it the benefit of every reasonable inference and resolving all conflicts in its favor. (In re Marriage of Brooks (2019) 33 Cal.App.5th 576, 588 (Brooks).)

4 American doctor. The children would have family, including maternal grandfather and cousins, in Hungary and Europe. They would also have existing friends because some of their Hungarian friends in San Diego were also moving to Hungary. Mother would encourage the children’s relationship with Father by facilitating communications and flying them to Florida, or wherever Father designated, for their summer breaks with Father. Based on Mother’s research, the flights between Florida and Hungary cost approximately $500 and while the duration depends on connections, flight time from Orlando or Miami is approximately six or seven hours. Mother acknowledged she had filed multiple RFOs seeking to obtain sole legal custody of the children in 2017 and 2018 and she had been sanctioned by the court in late 2017. When questioned by the court about her past litigiousness, Mother explained she was upset and “grieving” after the divorce. She felt “alone” in making all the decisions for the children because Father was not involved, and she believed it would be best for the children if she exercised sole legal custody. Over time she “accepted the situation” and learned to co-parent with Father. Father believes Mother is “opposed” to his relationship with the children and has repeatedly sought to take custody of the children. Father claimed Mother is moving to Hungary because it has a “more favorable legal system” where Mother will be able to wrest custody from him. Father does not believe the children would do well in Hungary; he emphasized that because the children are Hungarian-American, and not Hungarian natives, they would experience challenges in being accepted. Father believes the mere distance between Florida and Hungary would “severely” limit his ability to see the children because of the cost and travel

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