Marriage of A.M. and R.Y.

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedApril 30, 2025
DocketD084344
StatusPublished

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Opinion

Filed 4/30/25 CERTIFIED FOR PUBLICATION

COURT OF APPEAL, FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION ONE

STATE OF CALIFORNIA

In re the Marriage of A.M. and R.Y. D084344 A.M.,

Appellant, (Super. Ct. No. 23FL004284C)

v.

R.Y.,

Respondent.

APPEAL from an order of the Superior Court of San Diego County, Euketa Oliver, Judge. Reversed and remanded. Cage & Miles and John T. Sylvester for Appellant. Elissa Irene Gray and Jennafer Dorfman Wagner for Family Violence Appellate Project and Legal Aid Society of San Diego as Amici Curiae on behalf of Appellant. Stegmeier, Gelbart, Schwartz & Benavente, Eric J. Sather; Bickford Blado & Botros, and Andrew J. Botros for Respondent. A.M. appeals from an order denying a domestic violence temporary

restraining order (DVTRO)1 against her former husband R.Y. A.M. argues the trial court erred by denying her request because she made a facially adequate showing of abuse for a DVTRO pending a noticed hearing. We reverse the order denying the DVTRO and remand for further consideration of the issue. FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND The facts set forth below are based solely on the evidence submitted by A.M. in support of her request for a DVRO. R.Y. has not had an opportunity to contest any of these facts because the trial court denied the DVTRO and scheduled an evidentiary hearing the same day A.M.’s petition was filed— before R.Y. submitted an opposition. Although we must summarize the evidence as it was presented by A.M., we make no judgment regarding the truth of these facts. A.M. and R.Y. were married in April 2019 and separated in April 2023. Their daughter was born in August 2019. A.M. filed for divorce in April 2023. In December 2023, the parties signed a marital settlement agreement (MSA), which was incorporated into an uncontested judgment of dissolution filed in February 2024. The MSA

1 The Domestic Violence Protection Act (DVPA) authorizes short-term ex parte restraining orders pending a hearing (Fam. Code, §§ 6320–6327) and long-term restraining orders issued after notice and hearing (Fam. Code, §§ 6340–6347). We refer to the former as a DVTRO and the latter by its common designation as a permanent DVRO (domestic violence restraining order). A “permanent” DVRO is actually limited to an initial duration of no more than five years, subject to renewal for five or more years or permanently. (Fam. Code, § 6345, subd. (a).) All further undesignated references are to the Family Code. 2 gave A.M. sole legal and “primary physical custody”2 of their daughter, and it gave R.Y. weekend supervised visitation, with the days and duration of the weekend visits to be mutually agreed upon by the parties and confirmed at least two weeks in advance. R.Y.’s visits were to be supervised by A.M. or a third party of her choosing until their daughter was 13 years old. The MSA confirmed the parties’ separate property and divided their community property, with R.Y. agreeing to make an equalization payment to A.M. of $15 million. The MSA awarded to R.Y. as his sole and separate property a company called Filtrous Inc. (Filtrous) and another company, both of which were created during the marriage. R.Y. agreed that A.M. would remain an employee of these companies at a reasonable salary to facilitate her access to health insurance coverage for herself and their daughter. The MSA provided for no payment of spousal or child support and stated that A.M. “will be able to provide for the child according to the standard of living established during the marriage.” In May 2024, three months after entry of the stipulated judgment, A.M. filed a request for DVRO against R.Y. on behalf of herself and their daughter, who was then four years old. She sought an order enjoining abuse, no-contact and stay-away orders for herself and their daughter, an order removing R.Y.’s access to a Tesla vehicle, an order for R.Y. to pay for the cost of A.M.’s therapy, an order awarding A.M. child support, and an order awarding sole

2 “Though frequently employed, the term ‘primary physical custody’ has no legal meaning. [Citation.] It is not found in the Family Code. [Citation.] Under the Family Code, a parent may be awarded joint physical custody (Fam. Code, § 3004) or sole physical custody. (Fam. Code, § 3007 . . . )” (In re Marriage of Richardson (2002) 102 Cal.App.4th 941, 945, fn. 2.)

3 legal and physical custody of their daughter to A.M. with no visitation for R.Y. A.M.’s DVRO petition was accompanied by a 23-page declaration describing R.Y.’s alleged abuse. She asserted that R.Y. had subjected her to psychological, verbal, and emotional abuse and coercive control. After their daughter was born in 2019, R.Y. belittled her post-partum emotions and made her feel bad about herself. He shamed and guilted her into having sex even though she had frequent urinary tract infections; he demanded that she lie down in bed in a “compromising position” in front of their daughter and “force[d] affection” on her; he touched her vagina underneath the sheets or stuck his hands in her pants when their daughter was present; and he berated, belittled, and criticized her. In March 2023, R.Y. told A.M. she was depriving him of his sexual needs. He became angry and shouted at her. He made her feel so bad about not having sex that she felt forced to do so. She asked him to wear a condom, but he refused. After the parties’ April 2023 separation, R.Y. shouted at A.M. and berated her in front of their daughter, pressured her to give him a key to her residence, played “mind games” with their daughter, threatened to fight A.M. for custody to force her to split their assets evenly, continued to make her feel bad about her post-partum emotions, sent her multiple texts blaming and attacking her for the failure of the marriage, yelled at her about the division of assets and the custody arrangements in front of their daughter, pressured her into changing their financial agreement, and on several occasions was forcefully insistent on hugging A.M. or their daughter when they did not want to hug him.

4 After they signed the MSA, A.M. initially allowed R.Y. to stay at her residence for his supervised visits with their daughter. However, R.Y. yelled at A.M. in front of their daughter, which frightened them. A.M. would ask him to stop yelling, but he would not. R.Y. also exposed their daughter to his hostility about the custodial and financial settlement. On occasion, R.Y. would try to intimidate A.M. in front of their daughter by staring A.M. down. Their daughter would sense something was wrong and become uneasy. At the end of March 2024, A.M. told R.Y. he could no longer stay at her residence. A.M.’s declaration described other alleged abuse occurring in March and April 2024, after the judgment of dissolution. R.Y. bombarded her with texts about the division of the business property and continued to blame and shame her about the failure of their marriage. On one occasion, when R.Y. was at A.M.’s residence for a visit with their daughter, he yelled at A.M. about the MSA and then attempted to grab her. When she resisted and told him to stop, he continued to grab her and tried to hug her. He then grabbed her “by force” in front of their daughter. In a subsequent text exchange about the incident, A.M. said to him, “I clearly said stop.” He responded: “Sometimes you don’t mean what you say. It’s just a feminine thing. It’s the weather. I’m just learning this.” Two days later, R.Y. yelled at A.M. and called her “greedy, entitled, and not grateful” because of what she had requested in the divorce. With their daughter nearby, R.Y. threated to “fight” A.M. on custody. A.M. tried to remove herself, but R.Y. grabbed her and forced a hug. A few days after that, R.Y. tried to pressure A.M. to forego approximately $4 million he still owed her under the MSA.

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