IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
No. 24-0376 Filed October 30, 2024
LOGAN WILLIAM BENSON, Plaintiff-Appellant,
vs.
STEVIE TAYLOR SULLENS, Defendant-Appellee. ________________________________________________________________
Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Lee (South) County, John M. Wright,
Judge.
A mother appeals the district court’s order placing physical care of the
parties’ child with the child’s father. AFFIRMED.
Dustin Ludemann of Farwell & Bruhn, Clinton, for appellant.
Katelyn Kurt of Whitfield & Eddy, P.L.C., Des Moines, for appellee.
Considered by Ahlers, P.J., and Chicchelly and Buller, JJ. 2
AHLERS, Presiding Judge.
Two capable parents disagree on which of them should have physical care
of their child, born in 2022. The district court placed the child in the physical care
of the father. The mother appeals.
I. Factual and Procedural Background
The mother and father never married, and their dating relationship ended
before the child was born. They live in separate towns about three hours apart.
Two months after the child was born, the parties agreed to an unofficial joint-
physical-care schedule. But because the child was breastfeeding, the father
agreed to only having the child every other weekend. When the child was
approximately three and one-half months old, the father noticed the child had not
been gaining weight and scheduled an appointment with a pediatrician in his area.
The examination revealed that, in the seven weeks since the child’s two-month
visit, the child had not gained weight and had dropped from the fortieth percentile
in weight to the ninth percentile. After completing the examination, the pediatrician
called the Iowa Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) to report the
undernourishment, and an investigation ensued.
Although the allegation of denial of critical care was not confirmed, while
HHS’s investigation was ongoing and the child was in the father’s care, an alarming
incident occurred. At a follow-up doctor’s visit scheduled by the father, the mother
came as well. As the father completed the paperwork for some recommended
blood testing, the mother grabbed the child and attempted to flee with him,
accompanied by the maternal grandmother who was waiting in the hallway. Police
intervened to return the child to the father. 3
Shortly after this incident, the father filed a motion seeking an emergency
injunction. Prior to a hearing on that motion, the mother agreed to place the child
in the father’s physical care, subject to the mother’s visitation every other weekend.
About three months later, the court ruled on an application regarding temporary
matters and granted the parents joint physical care until trial. Following the trial,
the court granted the parents joint legal custody of the child, placed physical care
of the child with the father, granted the mother visitation, and ordered the mother
to pay the father child support.
The mother appeals. She challenges only the district court’s physical-care
determination. She argues for joint physical care or, alternatively, that the child be
placed in her physical care. Both parties request appellate attorney fees.
II. Standard of Review and Legal Standards
Actions between unmarried parents regarding custody of, physical care of,
and visitation with their minor children are equitable proceedings, so our review is
de novo. Ruden v. Peach, 904 N.W.2d 410, 412 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017). With de
novo review, “[w]e review the entire record and decide anew the factual and legal
issues preserved and presented for review.” Hensch v. Mysak, 902 N.W.2d 822,
824 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017). Even with de novo review, deference is granted to the
district court, which means we give weight to the district court’s fact findings, and
we will affirm “unless the district court failed to do substantial equity.” Id.
As the mother and father never married each other, Iowa Code
chapter 600B governs this dispute over physical care of their child. See Iowa Code
§ 600B.40(1) (2022). We apply the same standards to determine physical care in
chapter 600B actions as we do in dissolution-of-marriage actions. Id. 4
§ 600B.40(2). When making a physical-care determination, the child’s best
interest serves as our ultimate guidepost. See In re Marriage of Fennelly, 737
N.W.2d 97, 101 (Iowa 2007). The goal in making a physical-care determination is
to place the child in the environment most likely to lead to the child’s best mental
and physical health as well as social maturity. In re Marriage of Hansen, 733
N.W.2d 683, 695 (Iowa 2007). We consider many factors when making a physical-
care determination. Id. at 696. Even though the factors for determining legal
custody listed in section 598.41(3) do not expressly apply to physical-care
determinations, we still apply them to those determinations. Id. We also consider
the factors spelled out in In re Marriage of Winter, 223 N.W.2d 165, 166–67 (Iowa
1974). Id.
III. Joint Physical Care
The mother argued to the district court—and argues to us—that the parents
should have joint physical care of the child. We recognize both parents are suitable
caregivers. So our decision is based on four key, although not exclusive, factors:
(1) stability and continuity of caregiving (sometimes referred to as “approximation”
of the historical caregiving arrangement); (2) the parents’ ability to communicate
with and show respect to each other; (3) the degree of conflict between the
parents; and (4) the degree to which parents agree about their approach to day-
to-day matters. Hansen, 733 N.W.2d at 696–99.
Here, the child is so young that there is no established track record of
historical caregiving, so the first factor does not provide much guidance. As to the
next two factors, while the parents have some ability to communicate and show
respect to each other, the difficulty communicating coupled with the degree of 5
conflict cuts against joint physical care. As to the fourth factor, the record reveals
that the parties do not see eye-to-eye on most things. They have disagreed on
such basic things as appropriate nicknames for the child, medical decisions, daily
routines, and future education plans. This track record of disagreement also cuts
against joint physical care. Finally, the significant physical distance between the
parents’ homes makes joint physical care unworkable. See Teggatz v. Ellingson,
No. 19-1816, 2020 WL 2065944, at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Apr. 29, 2020) (finding the
hour travel time between the parties’ homes was a “major obstacle” to joint physical
care).
For all these reasons, we agree with the district court’s decision not to grant
joint physical care. We must decide which parent can best serve as the child’s
physical-care provider.
IV. Physical-Care Determination
The mother contends that, since joint physical care is not ordered, the best
alternative is placing the child in her physical care. As both parents are suitable
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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
No. 24-0376 Filed October 30, 2024
LOGAN WILLIAM BENSON, Plaintiff-Appellant,
vs.
STEVIE TAYLOR SULLENS, Defendant-Appellee. ________________________________________________________________
Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Lee (South) County, John M. Wright,
Judge.
A mother appeals the district court’s order placing physical care of the
parties’ child with the child’s father. AFFIRMED.
Dustin Ludemann of Farwell & Bruhn, Clinton, for appellant.
Katelyn Kurt of Whitfield & Eddy, P.L.C., Des Moines, for appellee.
Considered by Ahlers, P.J., and Chicchelly and Buller, JJ. 2
AHLERS, Presiding Judge.
Two capable parents disagree on which of them should have physical care
of their child, born in 2022. The district court placed the child in the physical care
of the father. The mother appeals.
I. Factual and Procedural Background
The mother and father never married, and their dating relationship ended
before the child was born. They live in separate towns about three hours apart.
Two months after the child was born, the parties agreed to an unofficial joint-
physical-care schedule. But because the child was breastfeeding, the father
agreed to only having the child every other weekend. When the child was
approximately three and one-half months old, the father noticed the child had not
been gaining weight and scheduled an appointment with a pediatrician in his area.
The examination revealed that, in the seven weeks since the child’s two-month
visit, the child had not gained weight and had dropped from the fortieth percentile
in weight to the ninth percentile. After completing the examination, the pediatrician
called the Iowa Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) to report the
undernourishment, and an investigation ensued.
Although the allegation of denial of critical care was not confirmed, while
HHS’s investigation was ongoing and the child was in the father’s care, an alarming
incident occurred. At a follow-up doctor’s visit scheduled by the father, the mother
came as well. As the father completed the paperwork for some recommended
blood testing, the mother grabbed the child and attempted to flee with him,
accompanied by the maternal grandmother who was waiting in the hallway. Police
intervened to return the child to the father. 3
Shortly after this incident, the father filed a motion seeking an emergency
injunction. Prior to a hearing on that motion, the mother agreed to place the child
in the father’s physical care, subject to the mother’s visitation every other weekend.
About three months later, the court ruled on an application regarding temporary
matters and granted the parents joint physical care until trial. Following the trial,
the court granted the parents joint legal custody of the child, placed physical care
of the child with the father, granted the mother visitation, and ordered the mother
to pay the father child support.
The mother appeals. She challenges only the district court’s physical-care
determination. She argues for joint physical care or, alternatively, that the child be
placed in her physical care. Both parties request appellate attorney fees.
II. Standard of Review and Legal Standards
Actions between unmarried parents regarding custody of, physical care of,
and visitation with their minor children are equitable proceedings, so our review is
de novo. Ruden v. Peach, 904 N.W.2d 410, 412 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017). With de
novo review, “[w]e review the entire record and decide anew the factual and legal
issues preserved and presented for review.” Hensch v. Mysak, 902 N.W.2d 822,
824 (Iowa Ct. App. 2017). Even with de novo review, deference is granted to the
district court, which means we give weight to the district court’s fact findings, and
we will affirm “unless the district court failed to do substantial equity.” Id.
As the mother and father never married each other, Iowa Code
chapter 600B governs this dispute over physical care of their child. See Iowa Code
§ 600B.40(1) (2022). We apply the same standards to determine physical care in
chapter 600B actions as we do in dissolution-of-marriage actions. Id. 4
§ 600B.40(2). When making a physical-care determination, the child’s best
interest serves as our ultimate guidepost. See In re Marriage of Fennelly, 737
N.W.2d 97, 101 (Iowa 2007). The goal in making a physical-care determination is
to place the child in the environment most likely to lead to the child’s best mental
and physical health as well as social maturity. In re Marriage of Hansen, 733
N.W.2d 683, 695 (Iowa 2007). We consider many factors when making a physical-
care determination. Id. at 696. Even though the factors for determining legal
custody listed in section 598.41(3) do not expressly apply to physical-care
determinations, we still apply them to those determinations. Id. We also consider
the factors spelled out in In re Marriage of Winter, 223 N.W.2d 165, 166–67 (Iowa
1974). Id.
III. Joint Physical Care
The mother argued to the district court—and argues to us—that the parents
should have joint physical care of the child. We recognize both parents are suitable
caregivers. So our decision is based on four key, although not exclusive, factors:
(1) stability and continuity of caregiving (sometimes referred to as “approximation”
of the historical caregiving arrangement); (2) the parents’ ability to communicate
with and show respect to each other; (3) the degree of conflict between the
parents; and (4) the degree to which parents agree about their approach to day-
to-day matters. Hansen, 733 N.W.2d at 696–99.
Here, the child is so young that there is no established track record of
historical caregiving, so the first factor does not provide much guidance. As to the
next two factors, while the parents have some ability to communicate and show
respect to each other, the difficulty communicating coupled with the degree of 5
conflict cuts against joint physical care. As to the fourth factor, the record reveals
that the parties do not see eye-to-eye on most things. They have disagreed on
such basic things as appropriate nicknames for the child, medical decisions, daily
routines, and future education plans. This track record of disagreement also cuts
against joint physical care. Finally, the significant physical distance between the
parents’ homes makes joint physical care unworkable. See Teggatz v. Ellingson,
No. 19-1816, 2020 WL 2065944, at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Apr. 29, 2020) (finding the
hour travel time between the parties’ homes was a “major obstacle” to joint physical
care).
For all these reasons, we agree with the district court’s decision not to grant
joint physical care. We must decide which parent can best serve as the child’s
physical-care provider.
IV. Physical-Care Determination
The mother contends that, since joint physical care is not ordered, the best
alternative is placing the child in her physical care. As both parents are suitable
caregivers, the question becomes which parent can minister more effectively to
the long-range needs of the child. Hansen, 733 N.W.2d at 695.
Both parties spend a great deal of their appellate briefing discussing their
tumultuous relationship and little on focusing on the best interest of the child.
“Physical care issues are not to be resolved based upon perceived fairness to the
[parents], but primarily upon what is best for the child.” Id. So we return the focus
to which parent can best provide for the child.
We start with stability. See Winter, 223 N.W.2d at 166 (listing a parent’s
stability as one of the factors to consider in determining physical care). The father 6
provides a stable home and a routine for the child. He has a great deal of family
support to assist him. Because the father runs his business at his residence, he
is available during the workday to help meet the child’s needs even when being
watched primarily by family members. In comparison, the mother also has a
flexible work schedule as a nanny and can have the child with her at work on most
occasions. She does not have the same degree of family support as the father.
Both parents have demonstrated adequate stability.
Providing for the child’s medical and other needs cuts strongly in the father’s
favor. The parties take significantly different approaches to the child’s medical
needs. As to the underfeeding issue, we note that it was the father who recognized
the problem, proposed reasonable solutions such as using formula or donor milk
to supplement breastfeeding, and took action to fix it. The mother rejected the
father’s proposed solutions to the child’s detriment and took no corrective action
on her own, causing us to conclude the child is more apt to have his medical needs
met if the father has physical care. And beyond the underfeeding issue, the father
has been primarily, if not exclusively, responsible for scheduling and taking the
child to medical appointments. This includes taking the child for a medical visit as
recommended by the midwife who helped the mother deliver the baby at home, as
the mother failed to do so despite representing that she did. The father has also
taken the initiative to complete important paperwork for the child to obtain a birth
certificate and social security card. When the child’s medical insurance through
the mother lapsed, he quickly secured other insurance for the child. The father
has found a reliable pediatrician for the child in his area where he has taken the
child for both routine checkups and various ailments. When the father takes the 7
child to doctor visits, he calls the mother when the doctor comes in so the mother
can participate in the visit. The father’s actions in addressing the child’s medical
needs, and including the mother in those efforts, demonstrate a level of stability
and maturity that favors placing the child in his physical care.
We find it unnecessary to further parse the details of the various pros and
cons the parties bring to the table. We reiterate that both parents are suitable
caregivers who have established a loving relationship with the child. See Iowa
Code § 598.41(3)(a). But, given our conclusion that joint physical care is not a
workable option, it is necessary to place the child in the physical care of one parent.
We conclude, as did the district court, that the father is better able to effectively
meet the long-range needs of the child at this time. See Winter, 223 N.W.2d at
166 (“The issue is ultimately decided by determining under the whole record which
parent can minister more effectively to the long-range best interests of the [child].”
(quoting In re Marriage of Bowen, 219 N.W.2d 683, 687–88 (Iowa 1974))). As a
result, we affirm the district court’s decision to place the child in the father’s
physical care.
V. Appellate Attorney Fees
Each party requests an award of appellate attorney fees from the other.
Iowa Code section 600B.26 permits an award of appellate attorney fees to the
prevailing party in an action to determine custody or visitation under chapter 600B.
Worth v. Geinitz, No. 23-1080, 2024 WL 2316657, at *3 (Iowa Ct. App. May 22,
2024). Appellate attorney fees may be awarded to the prevailing party at our
discretion, but they are not awarded as a matter of right. Id. When considering a
request for attorney fees, we weigh the needs of the prevailing party, the other 8
party’s ability to pay, and whether the party was obligated to defend the district
court’s decision on appeal. Id.
As the mother is not the prevailing party, there is no statutory authority to
award her fees. As to the father’s claim for fees, he is the prevailing party, and he
was obligated to defend the district court’s decision on appeal. He is eligible to
receive an appellate-attorney-fee award. However, when considering the father’s
needs and the mother’s abilities to pay, we do not find an award of appellate
attorney fees to be equitable. For these reasons, we decline to award either party
appellate attorney fees.
AFFIRMED.