L.M. VS. A.M. (FM-04-1330-18, CAMDEN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedApril 30, 2021
DocketA-1703-19
StatusUnpublished

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-1703-19

L.M.,

Plaintiff-Appellant,

v.

A.M.,

Defendant-Respondent. ________________________

Argued January 26, 2021 – Decided April 30, 2021

Before Judges Gilson, Moynihan, and Gummer.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Camden County, Docket No. FM-04-1330-18.

Kourtney A. Borchers argued the cause for appellant (Weinberger Divorce & Family Law Group, LLC, attorneys; Kourtney A. Borchers, on the brief).

Carolyn G. Labin argued the cause for respondent (Klineburger and Nussey, attorneys; D. Ryan Nussey and Carolyn G. Labin, on the brief).

PER CURIAM In this appeal of post-judgment matrimonial orders, plaintiff L.M. (Lucy)1

argues the denial of her application to relocate to Pennsylvania with the parties'

then twelve-year-old child was erroneous because, among other reasons, the trial

judge erred in his interview of their child, improperly focused on Lucy's

stipulation that she would not move without their child, and did not correctly

analyze the best interests of the child pursuant to Bisbing v. Bisbing, 230 N.J.

309 (2017). She also appeals an order awarding defendant A.M. (Adam) counsel

fees and costs incurred in connection with her motion for reconsideration and an

order granting Adam additional parenting time. We affirm the orders denying

the relocation motion and granting additional parenting time and reverse the

counsel fee award.

I.

Lucy and Adam were married in 2004 and had one daughter, R.M. (Ruth),

who was born in 2007. The parties separated in 2012 and divorced in 2018.

Their final judgment of divorce incorporated their settlement agreement. They

agreed to share joint legal custody of Ruth, with Lucy being the parent of

primary residence and Adam being the parent of alternate residence, having

1 We use fictitious names for ease of reading and to protect the identities of the parties. R. 1:38-3(d)(13). A-1703-19 2 parenting time every other weekend. Adam, at times, also would see Ruth

during the week. That arrangement had been in place since their separation in

2012.

In October 2018, Lucy met Joan in person after having communicated

with her online since April. Lucy and Joan became engaged in December 2018

and married in April 2019. About two months later, Lucy filed a motion to

relocate with Ruth to Pennsylvania, where Joan and her seven-year-old daughter

lived, over three hours from where Adam lived in New Jersey. Adam filed a

motion for primary residential custody and to establish new parenting plans

depending on whether Lucy relocated with Ruth. Adam planned to continue to

live in New Jersey with his fiancé Charlene and her eight-year-old son, less than

twenty minutes from where Ruth lived with Lucy.

At oral argument on the parties' motions, counsel for both parties stated

their agreement that the judge should interview Ruth and conduct a plenary

hearing. The judge gave counsel an opportunity to submit ten questions before

the interview.

Ruth was almost twelve on the day of the interview. After explaining that

his "job" was to act in her best interests and giving her an opportunity to ask

him questions, the judge began the interview by asking Ruth to tell him about

A-1703-19 3 herself. The first thing Ruth said was that she played field hockey and other

sports. She talked about her extensive involvement in multiple sports and

spending time with friends. When he asked her if she knew why she was meeting

with him, Ruth answered, "[b]ecause you're trying to figure out where I'm going

to live."

The judge inquired about her living arrangements in New Jersey and in

Pennsylvania. He asked Ruth, "do you get along with [Joan]?" She answered,

"[n]o." The judge requested that Ruth "[t]ell me about that."

[RUTH]: Like I never liked her, ever, like but my mom said that she thought I didn’t like her -- I meant she thought I liked her in the beginning, but I just thought that it wouldn’t last because all of her other girlfriends didn’t so I just like assumed, so I didn’t want to like hurt her feelings I guess by telling her I didn’t like her.

THE [JUDGE]: Okay. And why -- what about her don’t you like?

[RUTH]: She’s like really like awkward and she never talks, like ever. Like she doesn’t even really talk to my mom and she’s just like awkward and she’s like really like smart -- she tries to be smart and make like smart comments. Like my mom -- out of coming out of like Wawa or something, like she made me hold the door for her and she was like first time -- like first time I’ve seen you do something nice for me or something.

The judge asked her about her relationship with Adam's fiancé Charlene.

A-1703-19 4 [RUTH]: Um, I don’t know, they’re like really nice and I kind of -- I kind of like having them around better cause I feel like -- I don’t know, they’re just like -- they make things easier I feel like. I don’t know. And like [Charlene's son's] someone to like hang out with and stuff because I really like him.

The judge asked her which parent she talks to more when she has

problems. She answered, "I don't really talk to . . . either of them." He asked

her which parent she would call first if she were hurt. She responded,

"[p]robably my mom." She began to cry after that response. When the

questioning resumed, she told the judge she would call her mom if she were hurt

because she lived with her. She stated both parents attended her sports events

and described the activities she liked to do with each parent.

The judge asked Ruth if she understood that she would have to change

schools whether she moved with her mother to Pennsylvania or moved to live

with her father in New Jersey. Ruth believed she could stay at her school if she

lived with her father. The judge explained that she likely would not be able to

stay at the same school if she lived with her father because he lived in a different

school district. Having explained that to her, he asked if she had a preference

about where to attend school.

THE [JUDGE]: Now, I guess one of the -- I have to ask this, I know that you love both your parents, but where

A-1703-19 5 do you want to go to school, in Pennsylvania or in New Jersey?

[RUTH]: New Jersey.

THE [JUDGE]: Why?

[RUTH]: Because if I go to New Jersey I can still play for my club team --

The portion of the interview about which Lucy now objects began just

after that exchange.

THE [JUDGE]: And, I mean, in picking between living with your dad and your mom, is it equal? I mean, do you prefer living with your mom? Do you prefer living with your dad?

[RUTH]: Like --

THE [JUDGE]: The problem is with the fact that you're -- you don't get along with [Joan] --

[RUTH]: Yeah.

THE [JUDGE]: -- so what you're saying is that if it was just your mom and you had to move to Pennsylvania, you'd want to live with her? No?

[RUTH]: Maybe. Yeah, probably. I don't know.

THE [JUDGE]: So -- so what I'm hearing is, even though you didn't quite say it this way --

[RUTH]: Ah-huh.

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