L.L. v. J.L. CA4/3

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedAugust 21, 2025
DocketG064080
StatusUnpublished

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Filed 8/21/25 L.L. v. J.L. CA4/3

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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA

FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION THREE

L.L.,

Plaintiff and Appellant, G064080

v. (Super. Ct. No. 22P000531)

J.L., OPINION

Defendant and Respondent.

Appeal from orders of the Superior Court of Orange County, Stephen T. Hicklin, Judge. Affirmed. L.L., in pro. per., for Plaintiff and Appellant. No appearance by Defendant and Respondent. This case comes to us following a bench trial on appellant L.L.’s petition for a restraining order against respondent J.L., her long-time 1 domestic partner. Appellant contends the trial court abused its discretion in denying her petition and her motion for a new trial. She also challenges the court’s decision to twice sanction her during the course of those proceedings. We affirm in all respects. FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND Although the parties were never married, they lived together for 11 years and had four children before separating in May 2022. The following month, appellant petitioned to establish paternity and requested orders regarding custody and support. The parties agreed that pending resolution of those matters, appellant would have primary custody of the children at the family residence, and respondent would be allowed to visit the children there twice a week. The parties also came to a temporary agreement on child support. Despite their ability to work out those issues, however, the case quickly devolved into a contentious dispute. In August 2022, respondent filed an ex parte request for a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) against appellant, which was denied. Then appellant turned around and filed the same request against respondent the following month. That request also was denied. But as the case proceeded, appellant filed a second DVRO petition in July 2023, based on respondent’s alleged harassment, intimidation and threats. The basis for the suit was twofold. First, appellant believed J.L.’s employer, Kaiser, had failed to take sufficient action in response to her allegation that respondent

1 At trial, both parties were represented by counsel, but in this appeal, appellant is representing herself, and respondent has not appeared or filed a responsive brief.

2 2 was using Kaiser’s equipment for his personal use. Second, appellant was upset that respondent and Kaiser seemed to be ignoring her repeated demands to remove her from respondent’s health care plan. In the lawsuit, appellant also accused respondent and his coworkers of spreading false rumors about her. The record does not reveal what became of that lawsuit. In response to the DVRO petition, respondent denied all allegations of domestic violence. His attorney also filed a motion for $5,000 in sanctions against appellant, on the grounds appellant’s petition was frivolous and appellant had substantially increased respondent’s attorney’s fees and costs by continuously ignoring the parties’ temporary agreements and refusing to engage in reasonable efforts to resolve their disputes. In November 2023, appellant filed a declaration accusing respondent of failing to fulfill his child support obligations. She further alleged: “Respondent and his attorney thrive on their continued attacks on me. The lies and retaliation from [r]espondent [are] unbelievable and no one should have to go through what I have been through.” During a subsequent status conference, Judge Yolanda V. Torres informed the parties the trial on appellant’s DVRO petition would take place first, with a separate trial on the underlying custody and support issues to follow. The DVRO trial commenced before Judge Stephen T. Hicklin on December 18, 2023. That day, appellant took the stand and accused respondent of a broad array of harassment and abuse. Phone Incident: Appellant testified that on her birthday in 2019, respondent got upset and grabbed her phone from her. She tried to get it

2 The equipment in question was some laptop computers that respondent had brought home for the parties’ children to use.

3 back, but he would not give it to her. The next morning, respondent stomped around the house slamming doors. Appellant suspected he was angry because he thought she was being unfaithful. Bike Incident: In May 2020, appellant and respondent were at a neighborhood party with their children. At one point, respondent took their then four-year-old son La.L. for a ride on a child’s bike. When they returned to the party, La.L. was crying, and his foot was swollen and bleeding. La.L. reached out to appellant for comfort, but respondent held onto him and pushed appellant to the ground when she tried to take the boy. After that, respondent wanted to drive the family home, but thinking he was drunk, appellant drove the children home herself. Christmas Party Incident: In December 2021, the parties were at a bar celebrating the holidays with friends when respondent grabbed appellant by the arm and took her outside. Appellant did not want to leave the party, but respondent called for an Uber to take them home. When the driver arrived, respondent made appellant get in his car, but she promptly exited the other side of the vehicle and returned to the party, and respondent ended up going home by himself. Road Rage: A few weeks later, respondent was driving appellant and the children on the freeway when another car cut in front of them. Respondent reacted angrily by swearing at the driver and tailgating him at high speed. Appellant had to ask respondent several times before he finally slowed down and resumed his normal driving. Appellant testified such road rage incidents were not uncommon while she was living with respondent. She tried to talk to him about his aggressive driving, but he was unreceptive, and she did not press the issue because he was ill-tempered and would often yell at her and their children.

4 According to appellant, respondent also had a lot of anxiety and would “disengage” and “disappear” at times. At one point, he did attend some anger management classes to develop better coping skills. But, in appellant’s view, the classes only helped for a short time before respondent returned to his old ways. Kitchen Incident: One day in March 2022, respondent kicked appellant in the back while they were playing around in their kitchen with La.L. Respondent initially shrugged off the incident as a joke, but when he saw appellant was in pain, he admitted kicking her “‘pretty hard.’” Drone Incident: Appellant also described other incidents that allegedly occurred following her separation from respondent in 2022. She testified that one day in September of that year, she heard a loud drone buzzing around her house, which frightened her. Using a tracking device on one of her children’s tablet computers, appellant discovered respondent was at a nearby high school at the time. She suspected he was flying the drone, but she never asked him about it because she was too afraid. Flattened Tires: Appellant also suspected respondent punctured two of the tires on her car while it was parked at the family home in April 2023. Upon discovering the flats, appellant called AAA for assistance, only to learn she was no longer covered on the account she shared with respondent. The car sat in her driveway with two flat tires for several weeks, but respondent never said anything about that when he came over to the house to visit the children.

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