Lisa Merie Conklin N/k/a Christensen v. Nicholas Frederick Conklin

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedNovember 9, 2015
Docket73933-6
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Marriage of No. 73933-6-1 LISA MERE CONKLIN, n/k/a/ CHRISTENSEN, DIVISION ONE

Respondent, UNPUBLISHED OPlNgJN 3 v. !

NICHOLAS FREDERICK CONKLIN, v£> c: Appellant. FILED: November 9, 2Q15 o-

Appelwick, J. — Conklin appeals the trial court's order modifying the

parenting plan for his son, D.C. Substantial evidence supports a finding that a

substantial change of circumstances in D.C.'s life had occurred. Substantial

evidence supports the changes in the residential schedule and the restrictions on

Conklin's role in D.C.'s life. The modified parenting plan is in the best interests of

D.C. We affirm.

FACTS

Lisa Christensen and Nicholas Conklin were married in February 2008.

They had a child together, D.C. Lisa and Nicholas1 separated in January 2009

1 We refer to the parties by their first names for clarity. No disrespect is intended. No. 73933-6-1/2

when D.C. was about one and a half years old. Lisa filed for dissolution after a

very short marriage. In June 2009, the parties obtained a temporary parenting

plan. D.C. resided with his mother a majority of the time under the temporary

parenting plan. The temporary parenting plan afforded Nicholas visitation with

D.C. every other weekend.

The temporary parenting plan was in effect until D.C. turned three. D.C. hit

all of the expected physical, emotional, and developmental milestones during this time. D.C. was a happy, healthy child with a pleasant demeanor, not showing

violent tendencies. And, D.C. was potty trained.

The permanent parenting plan went into effect December 30, 2010. The permanent parenting plan was a "50/50" parenting plan. D.C. was to spend one week with his mother and the nextwith hisfather. Major decisions regarding D.C.'s

education, nonemergency health care, and religious upbringing were to be made

jointly.

Despite the provision for joint decision making, Lisa and Nicholas were unable to reach a joint decision about which school D.C. should attend for kindergarten. The court had to resolve the dispute. D.C. began to exhibit behavioral problems. D.C. struggled behaviorally in daycare. D.C. was aggressive, he hid under tables in fear after getting in trouble, he threw toys, and he hit teachers and other kids. And, D.C.'s potty training reverted such that he was soiling himself frequently.

Lisa worked with D.C.'s school to try to improve D.C.'s behavior. Nicholas

would not assist in implementing any strategies to help improve D.C.'s behavior. No. 73933-6-1/3

Because of the disputes between Lisa and Nicholas, and because of D.C.'s bad

behavior, Lisa sought to begin coparent counseling with Nicholas. Nicholas did

not voluntarily engage in the coparenting process and dodged Lisa's attempts to

talk about going to counseling. Lisa asked the court to order coparent counseling.

On July 24, 2012, the court ordered that Lisa, Lisa's current husband, Nicholas,

and D.C. participate in coparent counseling to address D.C.'s behavioral issues,

to reduce conflict, and improve communications between the parties. They began

coparent counseling in November 2012 during D.C.'s kindergarten year.

D.C. was suspended several times in kindergarten for being violent to

children and destroying school property. Reports from his kindergarten teacher

were that D.C. was unable to recover from having a bad day, he hit kids on the

playground, he hit teachers, he took toys from other kids, and he continued to wet

himself. His kindergarten teacher concluded that D.C. was abnormal for a boy his

age.

Lisa tried many strategies to improve D.C.'s behavior. She had him tested

for ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder), took D.C. to appointments with

his primary care physician, took D.C. for behavioral assessment at Seattle

Children's Hospital, and attended parent-teacher conferences.

Nicholas continued to resist coparent counseling. Nicholas resisted all

potential strategies to improve D.C.'s behavior. Nicholas withheld information in

coparenting sessions. And, D.C.'s negative behavior continued. As a result, the

coparenting counselor, Dr. Alysa Ruddell, wrote a letter on April 30, 2013,

suggesting that D.C. should have more stability in his home life. She suggested No. 73933-6-1/4

that D.C. reside with only Lisa for six weeks, with only visits with Nicholas. She

also suggested that D.C. begin counseling with a child therapist. Nicholas

opposed the idea of D.C. beginning individual counseling.

In order to carry out Dr. Ruddell's recommendation, Lisa filed a petition for

modification of the parenting plan on May 17, 2013. The petition and attached

declaration stated that a 50/50 parenting plan was not appropriate because of

continuing conflict between the parties. It stated that Lisa tried to decrease the

conflict through coparent counseling, but Nicholas has resisted and undermined

the process. It further stated that D.C. was exhibiting disturbing and violent

behavior and that other interventions had already been attempted without success.

And, it highlighted Nicholas's refusal to allow D.C. to participate in individual

counseling. It also highlighted why D.C.'s home life would be more stable with Lisa than with Nicholas. Lisa requested that the court find adequate cause for

hearing the petition to modify the parenting plan.

After filing the petition for modification of the parenting plan, Lisa became

concerned that Nicholas had sexually abused D.C. On May 31, 2013, D.C. had a

very bad day at school. D.C. bit a child so hard, it made the other child bleed, and

he ran away when staff tried to talk to him. Later that day, at home, Lisa found

D.C. in the bathroom with his finger in his bottom covered with feces. Shortly

thereafter, Lisa asked D.C. why he had been angry at school. And, she asked

D.C. questions about whether Nicholas was sexually abusing him. D.C. made a

disclosure that Nicholas touched him with his penis. Lisa recorded D.C. making No. 73933-6-1/5

his statements. Later that night, Lisa contacted the police and called Child

Protective Services (CPS).

Lisa filed an ex parte restraining order against Nicholas on June 4, 2013.

She asked for a restraining order until Nicholas completed a forensic interview and

asked for an investigation by a Guardian Ad Litem (GAL). The trial court entered

a temporary restraining order that same day.

In the wake of D.C.'s initial alleged disclosure to his mother, both law

enforcement and CPS investigated the sexual abuse allegations. During an

interview through the Kent Police Department, D.C. stated that Nicholas had "touched his peter to my peter." And, D.C. defined "peter" as the "private part he

goes pee out of."

The Kent Police Department ultimately declined to prosecute, because it did

not have enough evidence. D.C. was five at the time and was unable to expand in more detail. And, Nicholas declined to take a polygraph test during the

investigation. CPS ultimately closed the case, because it was concerned that Lisa was coaching D.C. by asking him questions about potential sexual abuse and by recording D.C. making the statements. CPS noted that despite its closing the case, D.C.

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