Lin v. Lin

834 S.W.2d 224, 1992 Mo. App. LEXIS 1053, 1992 WL 136522
CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedJune 19, 1992
DocketNo. 17822
StatusPublished
Cited by7 cases

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Lin v. Lin, 834 S.W.2d 224, 1992 Mo. App. LEXIS 1053, 1992 WL 136522 (Mo. Ct. App. 1992).

Opinion

PARRISH, Judge.

Appellant Her-Mei Lin filed a pleading denominated “Motion to Set Aside Decree of Dissolution of Marriage and Property Settlement Agreement.” It was treated as an independent action in equity to set aside a judgment in a dissolution of marriage case. The part of the dissolution action that was the focus of appellant’s challenges was the disposition of property that occurred by reason of the dissolution court’s approval of a written separation agreement that the parties had entered into in accordance with § 452.325, RSMo 1986. The trial court denied the action to set aside the judgment.1 This court affirms.

Appellant and respondent were married August 28, 1974, in Taiwan. Both were natives of Taiwan. Respondent, a physician, was engaged in a medical practice in Springfield, Missouri. He returned to Springfield from Taiwan shortly after the marriage. Appellant did not accompany her husband to Springfield. Her arrival in the United States was delayed by “paperwork” that had to be completed in order for her to enter the country. She arrived in Springfield in February 1975.

At the time of the marriage, appellant was 25 years old. Respondent was 36. She was a college graduate; he a medical doctor. They “dated” or “courted” for two weeks before being married. Their parents “helped arrange” their marriage after a “matchmaker” had begun arranging it. Appellant explained the wedding arrangements by her answers to the following questions:

Q. Tell the Court how you met Dr. Lin?
A. It was arranged by matchmaker.
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Q. Could you explain that further? What’s a matchmaker?
A. He went back to Taiwan, and he tell his parents, and his parents want him to bring a bride back to the United States because he say he was kind of lonesome. He already — He was 36. He needed to have a woman in the house to cook and raise up the kids for him.
Q. All right. Tell us what the matchmaker does to obtain a wife for someone looking for a wife in Taiwan.
A. He wanted to have someone from a good family and rich so can help his business, too.
Q. Well, how did you get acquainted with Dr. Lin, then?
A. It’s by matchmaker.
Q. Okay. Who was the matchmaker?
A. A lady. Just a lady.
Q. Is the — Is the job of a matchmaker to know who the eligible girls are for potential husbands?
A. Yeah, they usually have some information. I don’t know how to explain that. They just — They just help people, whoever — like a friend.

The marriage was dissolved August 20, 1986, by the Circuit Court of Greene County, Missouri. There were three children. Appellant and respondent were awarded joint custody of the children. Respondent was required to pay child support to appel[226]*226lant during the months when she had physical custody of the children. Respondent was ordered to pay the sum of $19,800 to appellant, payable in monthly installments of $550 each for three years. These awards were in accordance with a separation agreement that the parties had executed. Appellant also received the family home, furniture, and a Chevrolet van. Respondent received the assets from his medical practice, bank accounts, an automobile and other property. The value of the property that was distributed to respondent was substantially greater than the value of the property that was distributed to appellant.

Appellant was not represented by an attorney in the dissolution action. The separation agreement of the parties acknowledged that respondent was represented by an attorney but that appellant was not. It stated:

Wife acknowledges that she does not rely upon any advice or representations from the attorney for husband, realizing that said attorney may only counsel and represent husband and does not and cannot represent wife in connection with the preparation of this agreement, and each of the parties mutually agree that they have fully read and examined this agreement in its entirety and fully understand same,....

At the trial of this case, appellant testified that she had sought legal advice from an attorney in 1985. She saw him only one time. She told the attorney who she consulted that her husband wanted “to get [a] divorce.” She testified that she did not “file for divorce” because she was afraid. When asked why she was afraid, she answered, “I don’t know.”

A diary that appellant testified she had maintained contained an entry dated September 26, 1985. Appellant was asked to read from that entry. She read:

What shall I do? If the agreement use one lawyer, and he wouldn’t tell me all the truth, whatever I suppose to have; but if — if I try to file and use Mr. Moon [the attorney appellant had previously consulted], then I would — I would mess it up and — I mess up everything, and I can’t do it.

Appellant maintained several diaries. She testified that she had written in them every day. Three diaries were presented at the trial of this case. Appellant was asked if she had destroyed other diaries. She answered, “Yes.” She testified that her diaries were truthful; that she had not changed any entries “at any time after the divorce.”

Respondent found appellant’s diaries pri- or to the time when he filed the dissolution of marriage action. The diaries told of sexual relations that appellant had with other men during the marriage. Appellant testified that respondent told her if she got an attorney and fought the divorce, he would “publish [her] diary”; that she would “lose the children for sure.” He told her that he would pay money in the settlement of their divorce — she did not remember how much. However, he told her that if she fought the divorce, she would get nothing.

Entries from appellant’s diaries were read into evidence at trial. A May 20, 1983, entry was read. It included the statement, “I began to wonder how in the world I can live with this man.” Another entry said, “I’m also thinking that, together with Chi-Chi [respondent], it is very boring. I feel I already have no love toward him. My relationship — My relation with him is just like my relation with my parents before.” The diary included the assessment, “But I can tolerate this until the day I become independent."

An entry dated May 25,1983, referred to two other men for whom appellant expressed love. It stated, with regard to respondent, “I already have no love for Chi-Chi.” Respondent’s attorney read from the same entry, “If today he, Chi-Chi, suddenly announced he loved another woman and wanted to leave me, I’d be very glad.” He then asked appellant, “Did you write that.” She answered, “Yes, I did.”

An entry that appellant admitted writing September 5, 1983, said, “This Chi-Chi, the more I look at him the more I feel disgusted. I hate him to death”; and, “Yesterday [227]*227and today, all for a paper bag we quarrel. He is simply an old man. I’m really mad at him. The more we’re together, the more it becomes nonsense. He doesn’t understand how to love his wife. I hate him.”

Appellant’s brief raises two points on appeal.

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