Lew v. Di Giacomo CA4/1

California Court of Appeal·Decided July 29, 2026·No. D086030·Unpublished

Opinion

Filed 7/29/26 Lew v. Di Giacomo CA4/1 NOT TO BE PUBLISHED IN OFFICIAL REPORTS California Rules of Court, rule 8.1115(a), prohibits courts and parties from citing or relying on opinions not certified for publication or ordered published, except as specified by rule 8.1115(b). This opinion has not been certified for publication or ordered published for purposes of rule 8.1115.

COURT OF APPEAL, FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION ONE

STATE OF CALIFORNIA

JAMES LEW, D086030

Appellant, (Super. Ct. No.: 24HR010931C)

v.

LEONARDO ENRIQUE DI GIACOMO,

Respondent.

APPEAL from an order of the Superior Court of San Diego County, Rebecca Zipp and Blair Soper, Judges. Affirmed.

James Lew, in pro. per., for Appellant. No appearance for Respondent. James Lew appeals the denial of his second of two applications for a civil harassment restraining order (CHRO) against Leonardo Enrique Di Giacomo, and of his motions for sanctions against Di Giacomo and Di

Giacomo’s counsel. He contends the trial court erred in denying his

application.1 Finding no error, we affirm.

I. BACKGROUND

This case arises in the context of a contentious relationship between Di Giacomo and a woman who is his former girlfriend and the mother of his child. The relationship ended in August 2023. The following month, the former girlfriend learned she was pregnant. She and Di Giacomo argued about her desire to give birth at home instead of at a hospital. And, in March 2024, the child was delivered by a midwife in the girlfriend’s apartment.

Until some time prior to the child’s birth, Di Giacomo had what appears to have been a friendly relationship with the girlfriend’s neighbor, Lew: “Oftentimes I would go . . . walking [my girlfriend’s] dog and [Mr. Lew] would join . . . . [¶] The last two times that I saw him before my child was born, he bought me a coffee, and the last time I bought him a coffee.”

But on the afternoon of the day the child was born, matters took a turn.

A. The Day of the Child’s Birth In Di Giacomo’s telling:

“The day of the birth, I knocked on the door [to my former girlfriend’s apartment]. . . . We had [had] good, friendly communication the day before. . . . So I was bringing food to her. [Her sister answered the door, and] her dog ran out . . . almost . . . into the street. I tried to get the dog while I’m holding [the] food. [¶] And [Mr. Lew] comes out on the balcony, . . . he decides to be a vigilante, and he starts cursing me out constantly. [¶] So I left. [Then] I came back. I wanted to confront him because I didn’t know

1 Di Giacomo did not file a respondent’s brief. Thus we resolve this appeal based on a review of the record, Lew’s opening brief, and oral argument. (In re Marriage of Everard (2020) 47 Cal.App.5th 109, 111, fn. 1.) Our review of the record has included 32 exhibits (lettered A through FF) accompanying Lew’s motion to augment the record, which we grant.

where he was coming from, given that we had [had a] friendly relationship before. . . . I didn’t know where all this violence was coming from, so I wanted to confront him and then I left.”

In Lew’s telling:

“DiGiacomo was harassing . . . [the] member[s] of an athome birthing team while the mother of his child . . . was in labor. [The mother and her sister] are both neighbors and friends of mine, from [whom] I’d been hearing the many ways [in which Di Giacomo had been] harassing her over her birth plan and threatening litigation after having been an absent-if-not-antagonistic financial non-contributor throughout her pregnancy.

“Sensing he was taking advantage of an all-female presence and their non-confrontational disposition in light of the situation, I called out to [the sister] and asked if he was there bothering them. After getting nonverbal confirmation . . . from [her] that he was antagonizing the situation, . . . I shouted out at him that ‘nobody that lives here wants your deadbeat loser-ass here, you’re trespassing, get the f**k out of here’, the latter part chanted repeatedly until he left out of embarrassment over the attention being called to him out on the street.

“Minutes later, he returned and knocked at my door, scoffing at me (in Spanish) for thinking I’m such a tough guy and challenging me to come outside and get my ass beat before trying to forcibly open my security door. When his efforts at forced entry and to get a rise out of me failed, he called me ‘marica’—a Spanish slur roughly translating to ‘pussy’ and/or ‘faggot’ depending on context—and hit the security door one more time as I closed the front door on him.”

Three days later, in what he describes as an “attempt to make amends,” Di Giacomo sent Lew a bouquet of flowers with a note saying: “Jimmie. I Am Really Sorry! I Have Nothing Against You.” Thereafter, Di

Giacomo initiated paternity and child custody proceedings against the child’s mother. B. The Paternity and Child Custody Proceedings The paternity and child custody proceedings resulted, in October 2024, in a ruling acknowledging Di Giacomo as the child’s father and granting him parenting time with the child. In remarks accompanying that ruling, the family court commissioner expressed empathy for the “feelings of helplessness . . . [and] frustration [of] both parties,” she reproached Di Giacomo for having gone “a little bit too far by showing up uninvited” to the former girlfriend’s apartment on the day of the child’s birth after having been told his presence was not wanted, she said it was important for “the tension to be brought down,” and, toward this end, she urged the mother to try to help moderate the behavior of “the support people that you have.” C. The Two Rounds of Cross-Applications for CHROs Between Lew and Di Giacomo One of the people endeavoring to be supportive to the mother was Lew.

During the approximately six-month period that began on the date of the birth and that culminated in the family court hearing discussed ante, tensions between him and Di Giacomo intensified to the point that the two men filed not one but two rounds of cross-applications for CHROs against one another.

1. Round One (Case No. 24HR001463C), July 2024 – August 2024

The first round of CHRO applications was initiated by Di Giacomo. In July 2024, he filed an application in which he alleged: that, on the day of the birth, Lew had “curse[d] me out and stated that he would beat me up”; and that, “on an ongoing basis” thereafter, Lew and Lew’s roommate would “follow me around the neighborhood, cursing me out and saying they would

give me a beating.”2 The following month, Lew filed a cross-application for a

CHRO against Di Giacomo.3 And, following an evidentiary hearing that same month, the trial court (Judge Zipp) denied both applications without prejudice.

2. Round Two (Case No. 24HR010931C), October 2024 – January 2025

The second round of CHRO applications was initiated by Lew. It commenced with the September 13, 2024, filing by Lew of the application that launched the present case.

a. Lew’s September 2024 Application for a CHRO Against Di Giacomo

In a pair of declarations he filed as part of his application in the present case, Lew stated: that, on two different days, Di Giacomo had taunted him by mockingly blowing kisses in his direction; that, on occasions when the two had found themselves walking towards one another in the neighborhood in which they both resided, Di Giacomo had not altered course; and that, on one such occasion, Di Giacomo had petted Lew’s emotional support dog.

According to one of these declarations, the first “smug kissing taunt[]”

occurred during August 2024 outside the courtroom in which the evidentiary hearing for the first round of CHRO applications had just occurred, and the second such incident occurred about three weeks later:

“While returning home from a walk up the street, I heard the sound of two kisses being blown as I passed Good Omen, a local coffee shop. I initially assumed them to be

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