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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-1487-19
L.C.,
Plaintiff-Respondent,
v.
R.M.,
Defendant-Appellant. ________________________
Argued February 22, 2021 – Decided September 15, 2021
Before Judges Messano, Hoffman and Smith.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Hunterdon County, Docket No. FV-10-0144-20.
David E. Shaver argued the cause for appellant (Broege, Neumann, Fischer & Shaver, LLC, attorneys; David E. Shaver, on the briefs).
Robert F. Rupinski argued the cause for respondent (Law Offices of Robert F. Rupinski, LLC, attorneys; Robert F. Rupinski, on the brief).
PER CURIAM After a trial, the court entered a final restraining order (FRO) against
defendant R.M. R.M. appeals, arguing the trial court erred in finding he
committed the predicate act of harassment and that plaintiff required the
protection of the court going forward. We affirm for the reasons set forth below.
Plaintiff L.C. and defendant had been in a dating relationship for more
than a year when plaintiff ended it in February 2019. Plaintiff and defendant
lived together during their relationship, and plaintiff worked weekends as a
dancer at a club. Defendant was a frequent patron, including on days plaintiff
worked there. In fact, the couple first met at the club.
After the break-up, defendant tried continuously to contact plaintiff via
text messages and social media. Plaintiff did not respond to any of his texts and
blocked him on Facebook. On August 10-11, 2019, defendant went to the club
where plaintiff worked. She was not at work on August 10, but she danced on
August 11 and collected tips from patrons, including defendant. Defendant
again went to the club on August 12 and watched plaintiff perform, once more
tipping her along with other customers. This time, however, he approached her
while she was circulating with customers during a break. Defendant attempted
to show her some family pictures and engage her in conversation. He told her,
among other things, "God is coming for you, Jezebel." Two club employees
A-1487-19 2 noticed that plaintiff appeared uncomfortable while talking to defendant at the
bar in the club, and they intervened on her behalf. Defendant left the
establishment without incident.
Shortly after this incident at the club, defendant reached out to the priest
at plaintiff's church and sent the priest an email regarding plaintiff. The email
indicated that an unnamed “church member” was suicidal, a self-mutilator, a
habitual liar, heavy drug user, engaged in amoral sexual practices, was
demonically possessed by "the spirit of Jezebel," was trying to take over the
church, and she needed "exorcism." Defendant offered to assist the priest with
the "exorcism." The email was opened by the priest, Reverend D.S., who
testified at the FRO trial. Rev. D.S. considered the email to be alarming and a
“threat." After some investigation, Rev. D.S. determined that plaintiff was the
“church member” referenced in the email, and he forwarded the email to her.
Upon reading it, plaintiff became alarmed and frightened by its content and also
by the escalation of defendant’s efforts to engage her.
On August 17, 2019, plaintiff obtained a temporary restraining order
(TRO), which not only barred defendant from contact with her, but also with
Rev. D.S. Plaintiff amended her complaint on September 13, 2019,
supplementing the history between the parties.
A-1487-19 3 The final restraining order trial took place on October 10, 2019. Multiple
witnesses testified, including the parties, Rev. D.S. and the two staffers from
plaintiff's club who intervened on August 12. At trial, defendant admitted that
he intended his statement, "God is coming for you, Jezebel," to provoke a
reaction from the plaintiff. The trial court found insufficient evidence to support
the predicate act of stalking alleged in plaintiff's amended complaint. However,
the trial court found the preponderance of credible evidence at trial showed that
defendant committed the predicate act of harassment pursuant to N.J.S.A.
2C:33-4(a). The court found that the totality of defendant's conduct, including
his three consecutive August visits to plaintiff's job, his “God is coming for you,
Jezebel" statement to plaintiff, and his "demonic possession" and "exorcism"
email were actions taken or statements “made in a manner likely to cause
annoyance or alarm” in violation of N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(a). The trial court next
found defendant's attempts to "cure" plaintiff from her "demonic possession" by
contacting her church, as well as the history between the parties to which
plaintiff testified, supported issuance of a restraining order to protect the
plaintiff. The judge entered the FRO.
Defendant appeals, arguing two main points: first, the trial court erred in
finding plaintiff showed sufficient evidence to satisfy prongs one and tw o of
A-1487-19 4 Silver1; and second, that his religious comments were free speech protected by
the United States and New Jersey Constitutions, and did not rise to the level of
harassment.
Our scope of review of Family Part orders is limited. Cesare v. Cesare,
154 N.J. 394, 411 (1998). We owe substantial deference to the Family Part's
findings of fact because of its special expertise in family matters. Id. at 413
(citations omitted). Deference is especially appropriate in bench trials when the
evidence is "largely testimonial and involves questions of credibility." Id. at
412 (citations omitted). A trial judge who observes witnesses and listens to their
testimony is in the best position to "make first-hand credibility judgments about
the witnesses who appear on the stand . . . ." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs.
v. E.P., 196 N.J. 88, 104 (2008). We will not disturb a trial court's factual
findings unless "they are so manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent with the
competent, relevant and reasonably credible evidence as to offend the interests
of justice." Cesare, 154 N.J. at 412 (quoting Rova Farms Resort, Inc. v. Invs.
Ins. Co. of Am., 65 N.J. 474, 484 (1974)). However, we do not accord such
deference to legal conclusions and review such conclusions de novo. Thieme v.
Aucoin-Thieme, 227 N.J. 269, 283 (2016).
1 Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112 (App. Div. 2006). A-1487-19 5 To determine whether the entry of an FRO is appropriate, the court must
first "determine whether the plaintiff has proven, by a preponderance of the
credible evidence, that one or more of the predicate acts set forth in N.J.S.A.
2C:25-19[(a)] has occurred." Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112, 125 (App.
Div. 2006). If the court finds the defendant committed a predicate act of
domestic violence, then the second inquiry "is whether the court should enter a
restraining order that provides protection for the victim." Id. at 126. While the
second inquiry "is most often perfunctory and self-evident, the guiding standard
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NOT FOR PUBLICATION WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION This opinion shall not "constitute precedent or be binding upon any court." Although it is posted on the internet, this opinion is binding only on the parties in the case and its use in other cases is limited. R. 1:36-3.
SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-1487-19
L.C.,
Plaintiff-Respondent,
v.
R.M.,
Defendant-Appellant. ________________________
Argued February 22, 2021 – Decided September 15, 2021
Before Judges Messano, Hoffman and Smith.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Hunterdon County, Docket No. FV-10-0144-20.
David E. Shaver argued the cause for appellant (Broege, Neumann, Fischer & Shaver, LLC, attorneys; David E. Shaver, on the briefs).
Robert F. Rupinski argued the cause for respondent (Law Offices of Robert F. Rupinski, LLC, attorneys; Robert F. Rupinski, on the brief).
PER CURIAM After a trial, the court entered a final restraining order (FRO) against
defendant R.M. R.M. appeals, arguing the trial court erred in finding he
committed the predicate act of harassment and that plaintiff required the
protection of the court going forward. We affirm for the reasons set forth below.
Plaintiff L.C. and defendant had been in a dating relationship for more
than a year when plaintiff ended it in February 2019. Plaintiff and defendant
lived together during their relationship, and plaintiff worked weekends as a
dancer at a club. Defendant was a frequent patron, including on days plaintiff
worked there. In fact, the couple first met at the club.
After the break-up, defendant tried continuously to contact plaintiff via
text messages and social media. Plaintiff did not respond to any of his texts and
blocked him on Facebook. On August 10-11, 2019, defendant went to the club
where plaintiff worked. She was not at work on August 10, but she danced on
August 11 and collected tips from patrons, including defendant. Defendant
again went to the club on August 12 and watched plaintiff perform, once more
tipping her along with other customers. This time, however, he approached her
while she was circulating with customers during a break. Defendant attempted
to show her some family pictures and engage her in conversation. He told her,
among other things, "God is coming for you, Jezebel." Two club employees
A-1487-19 2 noticed that plaintiff appeared uncomfortable while talking to defendant at the
bar in the club, and they intervened on her behalf. Defendant left the
establishment without incident.
Shortly after this incident at the club, defendant reached out to the priest
at plaintiff's church and sent the priest an email regarding plaintiff. The email
indicated that an unnamed “church member” was suicidal, a self-mutilator, a
habitual liar, heavy drug user, engaged in amoral sexual practices, was
demonically possessed by "the spirit of Jezebel," was trying to take over the
church, and she needed "exorcism." Defendant offered to assist the priest with
the "exorcism." The email was opened by the priest, Reverend D.S., who
testified at the FRO trial. Rev. D.S. considered the email to be alarming and a
“threat." After some investigation, Rev. D.S. determined that plaintiff was the
“church member” referenced in the email, and he forwarded the email to her.
Upon reading it, plaintiff became alarmed and frightened by its content and also
by the escalation of defendant’s efforts to engage her.
On August 17, 2019, plaintiff obtained a temporary restraining order
(TRO), which not only barred defendant from contact with her, but also with
Rev. D.S. Plaintiff amended her complaint on September 13, 2019,
supplementing the history between the parties.
A-1487-19 3 The final restraining order trial took place on October 10, 2019. Multiple
witnesses testified, including the parties, Rev. D.S. and the two staffers from
plaintiff's club who intervened on August 12. At trial, defendant admitted that
he intended his statement, "God is coming for you, Jezebel," to provoke a
reaction from the plaintiff. The trial court found insufficient evidence to support
the predicate act of stalking alleged in plaintiff's amended complaint. However,
the trial court found the preponderance of credible evidence at trial showed that
defendant committed the predicate act of harassment pursuant to N.J.S.A.
2C:33-4(a). The court found that the totality of defendant's conduct, including
his three consecutive August visits to plaintiff's job, his “God is coming for you,
Jezebel" statement to plaintiff, and his "demonic possession" and "exorcism"
email were actions taken or statements “made in a manner likely to cause
annoyance or alarm” in violation of N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(a). The trial court next
found defendant's attempts to "cure" plaintiff from her "demonic possession" by
contacting her church, as well as the history between the parties to which
plaintiff testified, supported issuance of a restraining order to protect the
plaintiff. The judge entered the FRO.
Defendant appeals, arguing two main points: first, the trial court erred in
finding plaintiff showed sufficient evidence to satisfy prongs one and tw o of
A-1487-19 4 Silver1; and second, that his religious comments were free speech protected by
the United States and New Jersey Constitutions, and did not rise to the level of
harassment.
Our scope of review of Family Part orders is limited. Cesare v. Cesare,
154 N.J. 394, 411 (1998). We owe substantial deference to the Family Part's
findings of fact because of its special expertise in family matters. Id. at 413
(citations omitted). Deference is especially appropriate in bench trials when the
evidence is "largely testimonial and involves questions of credibility." Id. at
412 (citations omitted). A trial judge who observes witnesses and listens to their
testimony is in the best position to "make first-hand credibility judgments about
the witnesses who appear on the stand . . . ." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs.
v. E.P., 196 N.J. 88, 104 (2008). We will not disturb a trial court's factual
findings unless "they are so manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent with the
competent, relevant and reasonably credible evidence as to offend the interests
of justice." Cesare, 154 N.J. at 412 (quoting Rova Farms Resort, Inc. v. Invs.
Ins. Co. of Am., 65 N.J. 474, 484 (1974)). However, we do not accord such
deference to legal conclusions and review such conclusions de novo. Thieme v.
Aucoin-Thieme, 227 N.J. 269, 283 (2016).
1 Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112 (App. Div. 2006). A-1487-19 5 To determine whether the entry of an FRO is appropriate, the court must
first "determine whether the plaintiff has proven, by a preponderance of the
credible evidence, that one or more of the predicate acts set forth in N.J.S.A.
2C:25-19[(a)] has occurred." Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112, 125 (App.
Div. 2006). If the court finds the defendant committed a predicate act of
domestic violence, then the second inquiry "is whether the court should enter a
restraining order that provides protection for the victim." Id. at 126. While the
second inquiry "is most often perfunctory and self-evident, the guiding standard
is whether a restraining order is necessary, upon an evaluation of the factors set
forth in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29[(a)](1) to -29[(a)](6), to protect the victim from an
immediate danger or to prevent further abuse." Id. at 127.
Defendant first makes a straightforward two-part argument against
issuance of the FRO, contending that the trial court erred in making findings to
support both prongs of Silver. We are not persuaded. There was sufficient
credible evidence in the record for the trial court to find that plaintiff established
by a preponderance of the evidence the predicate act of harassment and that a
restraining order was necessary for the plaintiff's protection. We see no reason
to disturb that finding. Cesare, 154 N.J. at 412.
A-1487-19 6 We turn to defendant's free speech argument. He argues that the conduct
the trial court determined to be harassment was protected free speech. We find
this argument has no merit.
The harassment statute has "been narrowly drawn so as not to impinge on
protected speech." N.G. v. J.P., 426 N.J. Super. 398, 418 (App. Div. 2012).
"Indeed, because the First Amendment to the United States Constitution permits
regulation of conduct, not mere expression[,] the speech punished by the
harassment statute must be uttered with the specific intention of harassing the
listener." Ibid. (citation omitted). "A restraining order premised on harassment
cannot be entered if based on a mere expression of opinion utilizing offensive
language." Ibid. (internal quotations omitted) (citation omitted).
The trial court found that defendant communicated directly with plaintiff
at the club, telling her, "God is coming for you, Jezebel." Defendant admitted
that he wanted to provoke a reaction from plaintiff with his words. He next
contacted her church in writing, accusing her of "demonic possession" and he
offered to participate in an exorcism of the plaintiff. The record in its ent irety
reveals that defendant's words and conduct fall within the scope of intended
regulation under the harassment statute. On this record, we conclude those
words are not protected speech. Any of defendant's remaining arguments not
A-1487-19 7 addressed in this opinion lack sufficient merit to warrant discussion. R. 2:11-
3(e)(1)(E).
Affirmed.
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