Knibb v. Knibb

94 N.J. Eq. 747
CourtSupreme Court of New Jersey
DecidedJune 15, 1923
StatusPublished

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Knibb v. Knibb, 94 N.J. Eq. 747 (N.J. 1923).

Opinion

The opinion of the court was' delivered by

Minturn, J.

When the parties to this suit were married on October 6th, 1919, in New York City, by a civil magistrate, the civil and moral necessity for the marriage was urgently apparent to both. Ror some time they had been engaged, and their indiscretion during that period made marriage at the call of defendant a matter of duty, upon the part of the petitioner. The marriage having been performed, the petitioner was ready to assume cohabitation and the domestic relations and the incidents which attend the relationship of husband and wife. But at that moment the father-in-law and not the mother-in-law intervened, as the hete noir, and declared to petitioner at the wedding meal: “You know that you are not to live with my daughter unless you agree to another marriage by our faith—by the Catholic faith.” The defendant assented to that situation, and on more than one occasion during conversations with petitioner, in which he sought her for the purpose of inducing her with their child to assume her place as his wife in his household, she took the same stand. His witnesses testify to. the same result as a sequence of their visits; and thus time ran its course for the statutory period, when the petitioner, feeling that he [749]*749should have either his wife or his liberty, filed this petition for divorce upon the ground of his wife’s continued and obstinate desertion.

The learned advisory master advised against the decree, upon the ground of non-corroboration as well as upon the ground that the request of the defendant for a remarriage in her faith was not unreasonable.

Our examination of the ease satisfies us that the essential jurisdictional facts are amply supported by the corroborative proof contained in the record. ' It is not essential under our cases that specific corroborating witnesses be produced to support the petitioner’s allegations, for as was stated by Judge Vroom, speaking for this court in Foote v. Foote, 71 N. J. Eq. 273: It is sufficient “if the circumstances as shown by the expressions and conduct of the defendant, together with the letters of the parties, corroborate the testimony of complainant.” The mental attitude of the defendant in support of the petitioner’s contention is indicated by her letter to the petitioner, written about June 6th, 1921, and received by him at Roanoke, Virginia: “It will,” she says, “take only a couple of minutes to be married by a priest. We won’t have to be talking about religion.” This admission would seem per se to be sufficiently corroborative of the truth of the petitioner’s insistence that a religious chasm only separated them from the marital duty of cohabitation. This admission is fortified by two visits made to defendant by the petitioner’s friend, Mr. Bradner, who saw her in the autumn of 1921. The father, as on the marriage day, again intervened and maintained his original attitude that this daughter could not live with petitioner without the performance of the religious ceremony of 'her church. If this testimony were in conflict with' the defendant’s consistent attitude, as expressed in her letter, and expressed again upon a later visit by Mr. Bradner when he saw defendant’s father, it might be properly treated as hearsay and not legally corroborative. But upon a subsequent visit Mr. Bradner saw the defendant personally, and as a friend of her husband entreated her to assume her legal relationship as the petition[750]*750er’s wife in his own household. She, 'however, repeated her father’s view of the situation, and insisted as a condition to compliance upon a marriage in accordance with her religious views. Throughout the record is the petitioner thus corroborated by the substantive and circumstantial testimony in the case. Nor can we overlook the fact, in this connection, that although the defendant Was within easy access of the trial court, she was neither present nor-represented by counsel, and while that fact per se does not supply the requisite jurisdictional proof, it may be noticed as a corroborating factor, however slight, where the substantive proofs presented lend credence to the correctness of the claim of the petitioner concerning the mental attitude of the defendant.

In such a situation, where it becomes manifest that entreaties and supplications will be of no avail, the duty imposed upon the husband of maldng consistent overtures to the wife to return to him is not a condition precedent to the institution of the suit. We dealt with that question in Hall v. Hall, 60 N. J. Eq. 470, where the present chief-justice, speaking for the court, said: “Where it is manifest from the circumstances under which the desertion took place, or from her temper and disposition, or from any other fact in the case, that honest efforts on the husband’s part to terminate the separation would be unavailing, or if successful in bringing the desertion to an end, would be so only temporarily, the duty of maldng it does not exist.”

One question only remains, and that probably the most important in the case. Does the duty imposed by law upon the husband, and to which we have referred, of seeking the wife and making reasonable overtures for her return cast upon him also the duty of acceding to demands by her which he cannot conscientiously fulfill?

The learned advisory master thought that the petitioner should have acceded to the wishes of the defendant, and submitted to the performance of the religious ceremony demanded by her, as sine qua non to her assumption of the duties of a wife. This conclusion involves the assumption that the petitioner’s religious views and scruples were not [751]*751as important and sacred to Mm in foro conscientice as were those of the defendant to her. The relative religious importance of these views manifestly we cannot attempt to determine, since one’s religious views are entirely a matter for the individual conscience, and not for the courts to pass upon, unless the views, reduced to action, are of such, character as to contravene the law of the land. Indeed, the defendant recognizes this fundamental personal right when in her letter she frankly informs the petitioner: “If you do what your conscience tells you, you can’t help but be happy, and the same with me.” He was a Baptist by choice, and his early training and religious environment hadjfashioned his mind to believe only in the teachings and tenets of that communion. She was a Catholic, and to her from early training and environment her faith was the correct summation of all religious thought and ceremony. To him, as a dissenter from the early established church, marriage in essence was as under the Roman law, a civil contract, subject to all the vicissitudes and infirmities of a civil obligation, in which the fundamental maxim was a concensus et non concúbitos facit matrimonium. To her, marriage was a contract plus a sacrament, which, in its origin was a contract established by the founder of the Christian dispensation, the bond of which, in the absence of fundamental canonical defects, could be dissolved only by death.

According to the ordinances of her faith, no one but a duly ordained priest of the church could administer -the sacrament to members of her communion, and hence her frequently expressed desire to ¡have the contract of the civil law elevated religiously to the status of a sacrament by the only person capable of administering it, thus imposing upon both parties to the contract, in foro conscientice, an indissoluble union, terminable only by death.

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