K.M.L. VS. R.J.L. (FM-15-1345-15, OCEAN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided October 8, 2020·No. A-4423-18T3·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-4423-18T3

K.M.L. (n/k/a K.M.Z.), Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. R.J.L.,

Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted September 16, 2020 – Decided October 8, 2020 Before Judges Geiger and Mitterhoff.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Ocean County, Docket No. FM-15-1345-15.

Stolfe Zeigler, attorneys for appellant (Abigale M.

Stolfe and Valerie W. Voreis, on the briefs).

Matthew R. Abatemarco, Esq., LLC, attorneys for respondent (Gregory B. Thomlison, on the brief).

PER CURIAM

In this divorce proceeding, defendant R.J.L.1 appeals from the custody, equitable division, debt allocation, child support, and counsel fee award aspects of an April 26, 2019 final judgment of divorce (FJOD) that was entered following a two-day default hearing conducted after defendant's answer and counterclaim were stricken. We affirm in part and vacate and remand in part.

We derive the following facts from the record. Plaintiff K.M.Z.

(formerly known as K.M.L.) and defendant were married in May 2007. Plaintiff is a Certified Public Accountant. Defendant is a ship/yacht captain who runs trips in Florida and the Caribbean during the winter and until June, then returns and runs trips in the Northeast.

In July 2010, the parties had their only child, C.L., who is autistic and suffers from Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Expressive Communication Disorder, unspecified Disturbance of Conduct, and Post- Traumatic Stress Disorder that require multiple medications and significant therapy. He attends a special needs school and receives treatment from several medical professionals.

1 We identify the parties and their son by initials to protect their privacy. R. 1:38-3(d)(3).

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Plaintiff left the marital home in January 2015 and obtained a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) against defendant under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act, N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35, which was later dismissed in favor of a January 28, 2015 civil restraints agreement. On May 7, 2015, plaintiff filed for divorce. Soon thereafter, defendant moved to Florida where the record indicates he still resides. Defendant did not file an answer in the divorce action, leading to the entry of a July 13, 2015 order of default against him. On September 29, 2015, the default was vacated after defendant entered an appearance. In October 2016, Defendant subsequently filed an answer and five-count counterclaim. 2 Meanwhile, in May 2015, plaintiff obtained a second domestic violence TRO against defendant that was also later dismissed in favor of civil restraints. In August 2015, plaintiff obtained a third domestic violence TRO against defendant which he later consented to converting to a final restraining order.

Following a status conference on May 10, 2018, the court entered an order that stated: "The defendant has failed to cooperate with the Custody Neutral Evaluation (CNA) . . . which was ordered more than one (1) year ago."

2 Counts one and three alleged causes of action for divorce. Count two alleged frivolous litigation. Count four alleged negligent passage of a venereal disease. Count five sought punitive damages.

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The order further stated: "If defendant intends on calling any type of expert with regard to custody [or] parental alienation, he is to hire such expert and provide a report to the [c]ourt and the [p]laintiff's attorney at least thirty (30) days prior to the trial date in August."

The court noted that its review of the file "does not indicate that the [d]efendant has complied with previous [o]rders with regard to either a psychological [or] psychiatric evaluation." The order also noted defendant was served in court with the requests for admission propounded by plaintiff and directed him to answer the requests within thirty days of the date of the order or they will be deemed admitted.

After several years of contentious litigation, a trial adjournment due to a conflicting surgery defendant scheduled, and a Division of Child Permanency and Placement investigation, the trial court conducted the final pre-trial conference and entered a July 9, 2018 order that scheduled trial for August 7 to August 8, 2018. It provided the date was set with the consent of both parties and "shall be considered a firm date. No request for an adjournment shall be entertained absent showing of exceptional circumstances." By this point, defendant had dismissed several attorneys and was proceeding pro se.

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The judge also directed the parties to submit a pre-trial memorandum "with legal analysis and documentation including pre-marked exhibits" at least seven days before trial. He included the following language in the order: "[a]ll expert reports and discovery to be used in the trial hav[e] already been produced except for the [CNA], which is still pending." The judge put the parties on notice that "[f]ailure to comply with this [o]rder may result in sanctions and dismissal of pleadings."

The trial date was again adjourned at defendant's request because he claimed he did not have sufficient funds to travel from Florida to New Jersey as a result of losing his job in early June 2018. During an additional August 3, 2018 conference, the court re-listed the trial for a peremptory date of October 22 to October 25, 2018, beginning at 9:00 a.m., and advised defendant that "should he choose not to appear, the court would entertain an application by [plaintiff] to strike the [d]efendant's pleadings and proceed by way of default." Defendant acknowledged under oath that he fully understood the court's position. The court reiterated that failure to comply with the July 9, 2018 order or this order "may result in sanctions and dismissal of pleadings."

Defendant did not appear on time for trial. After waiting thirty-five minutes, the court called defendant, who explained that he had "just gotten to

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New Jersey." Defendant informed the court that he would be arriving in thirty minutes and that he desired another adjournment to obtain an attorney.

Defendant arrived in court some forty minutes later. After briefly addressing the issue of retaining counsel, he went off on a tangent and made various accusations against plaintiff. In response, plaintiff moved to strike the defendant's pleadings and to proceed by way of default. Plaintiff noted that defendant "was aware that the trial dates were peremptory" and that the court had the power to strike defendant's pleadings if he was not ready to proceed with trial. Additionally, plaintiff noted defendant's failure to respond to plaintiff's requests for admissions—served on him three separate occasions— would lead to "a trial by ambush as [p]laintiff has no idea what [d]efendant will attempt to argue."

This led to the trial court entering an October 24, 2018 order striking defendant's pleadings, permitting plaintiff to file a notice of proposed final judgment pursuant to Rule 5:5-10, 3 and allowing the matter to proceed to default. The court then scheduled the default hearing for December 5, 2018.

3 Rule 5:5-10 provides that "[i]n those cases where equitable distribution, alimony, child support and other relief are sought and a default has been entered, the plaintiff shall file and serve . . . a Notice of Proposed Final Judgment" at least twenty days before the hearing that sets forth:

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