K.K. v. D.W. Jr.

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided March 21, 2024·No. A-3575-20/A-1963-21·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-3575-20

A-1963-21

K.K., Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. D.W. Jr.,

Defendant-Appellant.

D.W. Jr., Plaintiff-Appellant,

v. K.A.K.,

Defendant-Respondent.

Submitted March 4, 2024 – Decided March 21, 2024 Before Judges Mawla and Chase.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Monmouth County, Docket Nos. FV-13-0959-21 and FV-13-0337-22.

D.W. Jr., appellant pro se.

Law Offices of Curt J. Geisler, attorneys for respondent (Curt J. Geisler and Amy E. Lefkowitz, on the briefs).

PER CURIAM These consolidated appeals stem from allegations of domestic violence between the same parties. In A-3575-20, defendant D.W. Jr. ("D.W.")1 appeals from the court's entry of a final restraining order ("FRO") against him, obtained by plaintiff K.A.K. ("K.K.") In A-1963-21, D.W. appeals from the dismissal of his temporary restraining order ("TRO") against K.K entered three days later. We affirm in both matters.

I.

The facts were adduced at the FRO hearings in A-3570-20 and the motions in A-1963-21. On January 25, 2021, K.K. applied for and received a TRO in Monmouth County against D.W. K.K. reported a prior history of domestic violence between the couple, including an incident where D.W. grabbed K.K.

1 The parties' initials are used to protect confidentiality, pursuant to Rule 1:38-3(d)(9)-(10). Additionally, because they switch from plaintiff to defendant and vice versa we use their initials throughout the opinion.

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by the hair and forced her into a wall. K.K.'s grandparents, S.M. and R.M., were included in the TRO. K.K. then amended the TRO to add further details about claims of domestic violence and previous acts of domestic violence.

In February 2021, before the FRO hearing commenced, the court quashed a subpoena D.W. had issued to Matthew B. Abrams, an attorney who represented R.M. in an estate planning matter, because Abrams was not present at any meeting with D.W. Further, D.W. stated he intended at trial to call F.D., K.K.'s ex-boyfriend, to testify about the truthfulness of K.K.'s allegations against D.W. The court barred F.D. from appearing because his testimony would be irrelevant and speculative.

At the FRO hearings, K.K. presented testimony from five witnesses and testified on her own behalf. D.W. presented testimony from ten witnesses, testified on his own behalf, and played surreptitious recordings he made of phone calls with K.K.

K.K. first testified to her history with D.W. She testified she works in New York City but lived with her grandparents in Freehold during the COVID- 19 pandemic while maintaining her New York City apartment. While in Freehold, she became interested in helping with the property and investigated setting up solar panels. She found D.W.'s solar panel installation business on

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Google. Although she spoke with D.W.'s father on the phone, D.W. met with her and S.M.

Later, K.K. invited D.W. to dinner with the intention of proposing he perform per diem electrical work for her family, but she thought they had a personal connection after the dinner concluded. They started casually dating in August 2020. Early in their relationship, D.W. disclosed he had been incarcerated. By September 2020, K.K. tried to end the relationship because she thought it was progressing too quickly. She returned to her apartment in New York City and recalled D.W. calling her and texting her often. She informed him she was only interested in a friendship, which did not reduce the number of times he called or texted her. She explained at times he would be very nice to her, but at other times he would become angry and "take stuff out" on her. At one point, he accused her of spending time with ex-boyfriends.

In October 2020, to compensate him for helping with electrical work at her grandparents' home, K.K. obtained sod for free and helped place it in D.W.'s yard at his home in Jackson. While she was helping place the sod in his yard, D.W. became angry at K.K., threw tools out of his car, and backed his car into hers.

Also in October 2020, D.W. revealed to K.K. that he disclosed her

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sensitive personal family matters about an inheritance to an attorney he knew. He provided K.K. with the name of the attorney and instructed her to call him. K.K. became uncomfortable and alarmed by D.W.'s intrusion into her family life, but he claimed his intention was only to help her. She repeatedly asked D.W. to stop disclosing information about her family's interpersonal relationships. Later, she discovered D.W. was recording their phone conversations without her permission.

Also in October 2020, D.W. showed up at her grandparents' home without permission, which K.K. had already explained to him he should never do as it would cause her grandmother distress. Meanwhile, D.W. told K.K. he was alone and sad, which caused her to feel guilty and invite him to dinner occasionally. K.K. described D.W.'s behavior as "weird" because he acted like he did not have to leave her grandparents' home when he was asked to.

K.K. recalled, in mid-October, D.W. slapped her after they were intimate at his home in Jackson. Afterwards, K.K. lightly slapped him back. However, the altercation ended when D.W. hit K.K. "so hard, [she] knew not to keep playing the slap-back game" with him. Immediately after he hit her, he grabbed her hair and forced her head to face upwards towards the ceiling. D.W.'s actions caused her to drop a towel she had wrapped around her body.

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On Halloween that year, D.W. asked K.K. to put out candy for the trick-

or-treaters at his home in Jackson. Despite being busy, she did so. When she arrived with the candy she purchased, she also decorated the home. When D.W. learned K.K. could not stay for the evening, he became angry and punched the decorations off the porch. After she left, she felt guilty she did not stay with him that evening.

By November 2020, K.K. was still trying to end the relationship but also felt bad for D.W. because he claimed he had medical problems. When she would stop calling him, he would call relentlessly to apologize and be "really nice" only to become extremely angry with her again shortly afterwards. When K.K. repeatedly told D.W. he needed anger management and therapy, D.W. sent her a text message suggesting he was going to harm himself.

Subsequently, there was a portion of November and December 2020 where K.K. did not see D.W. However, they still communicated on the phone. While she understood he wanted to be her boyfriend, she was not interested in being that serious with him and told him so.

In early December 2020, D.W. texted K.K. to claim he was suffering from an unspecified emergency and for her to call him immediately. Upon calling, K.K. discovered D.W. did not have an emergency, but rather only wanted to

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talk. As the days passed, he continued to pressure her to call him through repeated text messages and phone calls. K.K. invited D.W. to spend Christmas Eve with her because he claimed he was alone and did not have a place to go.

On December 27, 2020, K.K. called D.W. to tell him about a cat she helped find a home for, and, in response, D.W. accused her of using him. During that call he stated he no longer wanted to see her, which K.K. testified made her feel happy and relieved. However, the next day, D.W. started calling and texting her repeatedly about restarting their romantic relationship. She did not respond.

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