Kevin Weinzapfel v. Melissa Weinzapfel

CourtIndiana Court of Appeals
DecidedDecember 30, 2025
Docket25A-DR-01102
StatusPublished

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Kevin Weinzapfel v. Melissa Weinzapfel, (Ind. Ct. App. 2025).

Opinion

FILED Dec 30 2025, 9:06 am

CLERK Indiana Supreme Court Court of Appeals and Tax Court

IN THE

Court of Appeals of Indiana In re: the Marriage of: Kevin Weinzapfel, Appellant-Respondent

v.

Melissa Weinzapfel, Appellee-Petitioner

December 30, 2025 Court of Appeals Case No. 25A-DR-1102 Appeal from the Vanderburgh Superior Court The Honorable Mary Margaret Lloyd, Judge Trial Court Cause No. 82D05-1507-DR-905

Opinion by Judge May Chief Judge Altice and Judge Foley concur.

May, Judge.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Opinion 25A-DR-1102 | December 30, 2025 Page 1 of 17 [1] Kevin Weinzapfel (“Father”) appeals the trial court’s order modifying his child

support obligation and requiring him to pay a portion of the post-secondary

educational expenses for his adult son, Caden Weinzapfel (“Caden”). 1 He

presents multiple issues for our review, which we reorganize and restate as:

1. Whether the trial court erred when it credited Father for ninety-eight parenting time overnights with Caden, N.W., and C.W. (“Children”);

2. Whether the trial court erred when it found that Caden did not repudiate his relationship with Father; and

3. Whether the trial court abused its discretion when it assigned the Child of Disabled Veteran Award (the “CDV Benefit”) to Caden’s portion of his post-secondary education expenses.

We affirm in part, reverse in part, and remand.

Facts and Procedural History [2] Father and Melissa Weinzapfel (“Mother”) (collectively, “Parents”) are the

parents of Caden, born December 2005; N.W., born February 2008; and C.W.,

born September 2010. Parents divorced on September 19, 2016. In the

dissolution order (the “2016 Dissolution Order”), the trial court ordered Parents

to exercise joint legal custody and 50/50 physical custody. The marital debt at

the time of the 2016 Dissolution order was approximately $72,000. The trial

1 “Caden” is also spelled “Cayden” in several places in the record. (See, e.g., Appellant’s App. Vol. II at 84.) We will use the spelling indicated in the trial court’s order.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Opinion 25A-DR-1102 | December 30, 2025 Page 2 of 17 court ordered Father to pay $72.50 per week in child support, which was lower

than recommended by the Indiana Child Support Guidelines. It explained that

“[b]ecause he is paying the vast majority of the [marital] debts, [Father’s] child

support obligation . . . is established at a lower level, as a deviation, which the

Court finds just and proper given his assumption of the majority of marital

debt.” (Appellant’s App. Vol. II at 10.) The trial court modified Father’s child

support obligation in November 2017 (the “2017 Modification Order”) when it

approved the parties’ agreement to lower the amount to $60 per week.

[3] Starting in April 2023, the parties filed several competing motions for

modification of child custody and related matters. On December 13, 2023, the

trial court issued an order finding, in part, that Parents were not effectively co-

parenting and directing Parents and Children to attend therapy with Jarred 2

Kelley “until the family’s treatment goals are met.” (Id. at 78.)

[4] During the 2023-2024 school year, Caden was a senior in high school. He

discussed college plans with Parents, who had access to a website tracking his

college applications. Father added schools to the list and Caden included

Father’s email for information related to his applications. Father also provided

information needed for Caden to complete documents required for financial

aid.

2 “Jarred” is also spelled “Jared” elsewhere in this order. (See Appellant’s App. Vol. II at 78.)

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Opinion 25A-DR-1102 | December 30, 2025 Page 3 of 17 [5] Caden turned eighteen years old in December 2023. In February 2024, Father

and Caden had an altercation involving Caden’s girlfriend. Shortly thereafter,

Caden sent Father a text message stating that he did not “believe you [Father]

have the right to ever speak to any woman especially my girlfriend, in the

manner you did. I’m not sure yet if or when I’ll come back.” (Ex. Vol. II at

118.) Father responded by denying inappropriate conduct, telling Caden he

had “issues with respect,” and instructing him to make an appointment with

family therapist Kelley. (Id.) From February 2024 to May 2024, Caden did not

communicate with Father and stopped attending parenting time with Father.

[6] On May 8, 2024, Mother filed a petition to modify child support and a request

for a post-secondary education order, asking the trial court to, in part, require

Parents to complete a post-secondary worksheet to determine the distribution of

costs for Caden’s post-secondary education. On May 23, 2024, Caden sent

Father a text message and invited Father to his graduation ceremony, stating, “I

would really like you to come.” (Appellant’s App. Vol. II at 97.) Father

attended Caden’s graduation ceremony. On June 15, 2024, Caden sent a text

message asking Father if he had Father’s Day plans, and Caden visited Father

later that evening.

[7] In the summer of 2024, Caden enrolled in Indiana University-Indianapolis.

Caden sent Father information about his college orientation and Mother sent

Caden’s “current enrollment verification certificate” to Father via Our Family

Wizard. (Tr. Vol. II at 52.) On August 2, 2024, Caden sent a text message to

Father to wish him a happy birthday and stated, “I love ya[.]” (Ex. Vol. II at

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Opinion 25A-DR-1102 | December 30, 2025 Page 4 of 17 122) (errors in original). Father responded, “I love you too” and asked Caden

about college orientation. (Id.)

[8] On September 3, 2024, Caden sent Father a text message to ask if he could visit

Father for the weekend. Father did not respond for over twenty-four hours,

then declined and suggested they engage in therapy first. Father testified he

knew their court date was approaching and had consulted his attorney about

“repudiation.” (Appellant’s App. Vol. II at 97.) Father did not invite Caden to

Thanksgiving, Christmas, or a family vacation in Florida.

[9] On January 14, 2025, Father filed a motion to emancipate Caden. The next

day, he filed an “Amended Motion to Emancipate [Caden] and Show

Repudiation.” (Id. at 93.) In that motion, he alleged Caden “has not had a

relationship with [Father] since this Court’s last order [in December 2023]. . .

Father was not consulted or contacted concerning attendance at Indiana

University or costs.” (Id.)

[10] On February 28, 2025, the trial court held a hearing on Mother’s May 2024

motion and Father’s January 2025 motion. Regarding child support, as part of

his child support worksheet, Father requested the trial court credit him for 183

overnights for the purposes of calculating child support. In Mother’s child

support worksheet, she asked that the trial court credit Father for 184

overnights. At the time of the hearing, Father had paid approximately $24,951

of the $72,000 in marital debt. The remaining $47,049 consisted of Father’s

student loan, which had been in forbearance since July 2024.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Opinion 25A-DR-1102 | December 30, 2025 Page 5 of 17 [11] As indicated on Mother’s post-secondary education expenses worksheet,

Caden’s total annual costs for his tuition and related expenses at Indiana

University-Indianapolis were $28,447. She told the trial court that Caden

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