Kellogg v. Kellogg

122 Misc. 734
CourtNew York Supreme Court
DecidedMarch 15, 1924
StatusPublished
Cited by7 cases

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Bluebook
Kellogg v. Kellogg, 122 Misc. 734 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 1924).

Opinion

Smith, J.

The plaintiff seeks to have her marriage with the defendant annulled on the ground that at the time thereof she was under eighteen years of age.

The facts and circumstances surrounding this marriage are such that although without a 'doubt a decree of annulment should be granted, an examination of the law affecting the making and dissolution of marriage contracts and of the state of society which makes possible such conditions as existed in this case may not be without value.

The plaintiff was born on the 5th day of May, 1906, and was, therefore, about fifteen years and seven months old at the time of the marriage; the defendant was twenty-one years old. The plaintiff had been a student at the vocational high school in Syracuse, N. Y., but shortly before the marriage had ceased going to school and was at the time living with her mother; the defendant was a junior in Syracuse University; the parties first met on Sunday, the 12th of December, 1921; they were married on the fifteenth day of December following by a justice of the peace in the city of Syracuse and lived together from Thursday until Saturday at the Onondaga Hotel as man and wife, when the defendant practically abandoned plaintiff.

The marriage license was obtained from the city clerk of the city of Syracuse; the plaintiff was a Catholic and the defendant was a Protestant; they sought a Catholic clergyman, who refused to perform the marriage ceremony, whereupon they went to a justice of the peace in the city of Syracuse who performed it for them. The mother of the plaintiff learning in some way of the issuance of the marriage license, made an effort to prevent the marriage but was unable to find her daughter in time.

The parties lived at the Onondaga Hotel as man and wife for about three days, when the defendant left the plaintiff at the hotel, saying he was going home to tell his parents of the marriage; the defendant did not return but his uncle and a lawyer came from his home in Castile, N. Y., and the plaintiff went with them to the residence of the uncle, but not to the home of defendant’s parents; the plaintiff stayed with the uncle and the defendant with his parents; there was no cohabitation between the parties after defendant left the plaintiff in Syracuse. After a little while the uncle brought the plaintiff back to Syracuse to her mother’s, since which time the plaintiff has not seen her husband. The defendant left the state of New York, and at the time the action was brought was living in Oregon. Some little correspondence was kept up between the parties until the spring of 1922. On September 8, 1922, a child of the marriage was born; the plaintiff’s mother has [736]*736formally adopted the child and she and her husband are taking care of it. The defendant has contributed practically nothing to the support of the plaintiff or the child, but his parents have made some contribution from time to time; they seem to have acted with due appreciation of the seriousness of the situation and of the wrong their son has done. It is apparent that the defendant has abandoned the plaintiff. On the 29th day of June, 1922, the defendant wrote the plaintiff that he never loved her but only felt sorry for her.

The facts in this case constitute a tragedy in the life of this plaintiff, and yet this case is but one of many which this court is called upon to consider with increasing frequency; in fact actions for annulment of marriage on the ground of non-age of parties account for a large proportion of the matrimonial problems presented to the court. The prayer in these actions is now addressed to the discretion of the court; this imposes upon the court a grave responsibility; the occasions for the exercise of such discretion could in my opinion by proper legislation and the co-operation of those authorizéd to perform the marriage ceremony, be largely reduced. So frequent are these appeals to the court that it may not be amiss to examine some of the conditions which afford the opportunity for hasty or premature marriages, and to examine the law with respect to its requirements precedent to a marriage.

It is useless to give lip service to the importance of the marriage contract and of the marriage state in its relation to the very structure and maintenance of society, to dwell upon the sanctity of the home, the sacredness of the marriage contract, when our laws, our faulty execution of them and the conduct of individuals with relation to the marital relation constitute a belial of that very importance and sacredness. The home constitutes the very basis of our social structure, and no one can witness the impairment of the sanctity of the marriage relationship without anxiety as to the solidity of the social structure.

Let us, therefore, examine into the present state of the law with respect to marriage, particularly as to the age of consent and the safeguards set up to protect society.

The marriage contract differs from all others; it is swi generis; it formerly was considered a religious contract and the ceremony sacramental in character, and as such the relationship was in England largely under the jurisdiction of the Ecclesiastical Courts. Our statutes, however, provide that marriage is a civil as distinguished from a religious contract and yet recognizes the right of duly authorized clergymen to perform the marriage ceremony. The churches, while generally recognizing that marriage is a civil [737]*737contract, and that the clergy derives its power to perform the marriage ceremony from the law, still in large measure look upon the marriage ceremony as a religious sacrament, and treat the bonds of matrimony as holy bonds. In a great majority of cases parties are married with religious ceremony.

The Catholic church especially casts about the marriage ceremony a protection, far greater than and in addition to that provided by law, which goes far to protect its members from the consequences of illegal, ill-considered and hasty marriages. My understanding is that even where a proposed marriage is proper, so far as all appearances are concerned, the Catholic church requires what is called the publishing of the bans or public announcement on three successive Sundays in the open church of the proposed marriage, duiing which time an investigation may be, and I understand is made, as to whether any reason exists why the marriage should not be solemnized. This case offers an illustration. The Catholic clergyman when appealed to refused to marry these parties. They were in a hurry, so they go to a justice of the peace.

In many cases presented to the court it appears that ministers of the gospel, acting under and relying upon the authority of the marriage license, marry parties who are unknown to them at the time of the marriage. It is true that some ministers in some denominations absolutely refuse to solemnize a marriage contract unless they know at least one of the contracting parties, and in some instances a minister will refuse to solemnize the marriage contract unless at least one of the parties is of his parish; but such cannot be said to be the general rule. There is here a great opportunity by voluntary act to put a check upon hasty and ill-advised marriages by the voluntary action of churches and ministers themselves. If the church still adheres to the proposition that the marriage ceremony is a religious sacrament, it cannot be too much to suggest that it cast about it every reasonable safeguard within its power.

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