K v. v. K.A.S.

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided March 25, 2025·No. A-3995-23·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-3995-23

K.V.,1 Plaintiff-Appellant,

v. K.A.S.,

Defendant-Respondent.

Argued March 11, 2025 – Decided March 25, 2025 Before Judges Gilson, Firko, and Bishop-Thompson.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Camden County, Docket No. FV-04-3221-24.

John Pendergast argued the cause for appellant (South Jersey Legal Services, Inc., attorneys; John Pendergast, Cheryl Turk Waraas, and Kenneth M. Goldman, on the brief).

Tess A. Berkowitz argued the cause for respondent (Law Office of Christopher St. John, attorneys;

1 We use initials to protect the confidentiality of the parties. R. 1:38-3(c)(12).

Christopher St. John, of counsel and on the brief; Tess A. Berkowitz, on the brief).

PER CURIAM Plaintiff K.V. appeals from an August 6, 2024 order dismissing her application for a final restraining order (FRO) against her former paramour, defendant K.A.S., pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. The judge found that plaintiff established the predicate act of assault under prong one of Silver,2 but she had failed to demonstrate an FRO was required because she was not in immediate danger nor was the FRO necessary to prevent further abuse under prong two.

Because the judge did not make the requisite findings and did not apply the two-prong test in Silver, we reverse and remand for a new trial before a different judge.

I.

The parties dated for two months. During that timeframe, defendant moved into plaintiff's apartment. The alleged incident occurred on April 9, 2024. One week prior, plaintiff underwent surgery on her right shoulder , and her right arm was in a sling.

2 Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112, 125-27 (App. Div. 2006).

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According to plaintiff, on the day of the alleged incident, defendant became angry about her need for shoulder surgery and because she did not seek his permission to undergo the procedure. Plaintiff explained that her shoulder would fully dislocate "sporadically throughout [the] day." The argument began at approximately 10:30 p.m. and lasted forty-five minutes. Defendant "screamed" in plaintiff's face that she was "stupid." Defendant had been drinking heavily that day and consumed a half bottle of vodka. Plaintiff yelled at defendant to leave her alone, but he punched the doorway to their bedroom "four times." He approached plaintiff and yelled close to her face.

The argument escalated and became physical. Plaintiff alleged defendant pushed her to the floor on top of a box of perfumes, and she fell on top of her recently operated right shoulder. Plaintiff told defendant to get off of her, but instead, he kneeled on her legs using his right leg, wrapped his left arm around her throat in a choke hold, and then choked her. Plaintiff sustained extensive bruising on her legs. Plaintiff alleged she could not breathe and scratched defendant's left arm until he bled, to "[g]et [him] the f[**]k off of [her]," and tried to push herself up. Plaintiff estimated defendant weighed 182 pounds.

Plaintiff claimed defendant picked her up by the neck "still in a choke hold" and threw her on to the bed face down. After plaintiff grabbed, squeezed,

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and twisted defendant's genitals, he released her throat from the choke hold. Plaintiff left the bedroom, got her phone, and attempted to call 9-1-1, but defendant took the phone and "hung up" the call prior to the call connecting. Plaintiff stated that defendant stepped in between her and the door and would not allow her to leave or seek medical treatment. Plaintiff testified that defendant would not let her out of his sight for "roughly, nine days." The only time she left was to pay part of the rent.

Plaintiff mentioned to defendant that she was going to hang out with a friend and asked him if he was "okay with that." In response, defendant told plaintiff it was "stupid and childish for [her] to even tell him that." According to plaintiff, defendant said if he had any "inkling" that she was cheating on him, he would "shove" a gun "up the other guy's ass and shoot him and make [her] watch and then shoot [her]."

Eight days later, on April 17, 2024, plaintiff applied for and obtained a temporary restraining order (TRO) against defendant alleging the predicate acts of assault, terroristic threats, and "any other crime involving risk of death or serious bodily injury." The amended TRO alleged defendant committed "aggravated assault" by knowingly or recklessly "obstructing the breathing or blood circulation of [plaintiff]" and that he threatened to "kill" plaintiff

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"specifically by telling [her] if she was cheating on him he would shoot her and the person she is cheating [with.]" Separately, defendant was charged with criminal aggravated assault the same day.

At the ensuing two-day trial, both parties were represented by counsel.

Plaintiff testified that she waited eight days to obtain a TRO against defendant because she could not operate her manual transmission car and shift gears due to her right shoulder surgery. Plaintiff testified a friend had to drive her to the police station to apply for the TRO. The police photographed bruises on plaintiff's legs, which were moved into evidence.

The TRO granted defendant possession of plaintiff's apartment. Plaintiff testified she did not want to return to her apartment because she did not want defendant to know where she lived. Plaintiff stated that defendant mentioned that if she took any legal action against him, "he would physically harm . . . or kill" her. Plaintiff testified she would not feel safe without an FRO based on defendant's threat to harm or kill her after the assault had taken place.

On cross-examination, plaintiff testified that she worked with defendant until she obtained the TRO against him. Plaintiff stated she was evaluated by her surgeon the day after the assault and told the surgeon about the assault and that she felt unsafe at home. Plaintiff explained that defendant was concerned

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about finances and her vehicle being uninsured. Plaintiff acknowledged that prior to the April 9, 2024 incident, defendant had never placed his hands on her or threatened her.

Defense counsel showed plaintiff screenshots of text messages through Facebook messenger between her and her best friend stating, "we just got into a physical fight," and "[h]e tried to say I beat him up." The text messages were read to plaintiff stating, "[defendant] is tore up more than I am," and "[h]e put me in a choke hold." Plaintiff indicated she wanted to talk to her friend when they were alone. The friend offered to drive up to plaintiff. Plaintiff confirmed that her friend encouraged her to call the police and leave. Plaintiff testified that defendant had previously kicked her friend out of the apartment and threatened to "start stuff."

Nurse L.F.R. testified as an expert witness on behalf of plaintiff on strangulation and smothering. L.F.R. is a forensic nurse examiner who works with the Salem and Cumberland Counties' Prosecutors' Offices on the BREATHE3 team, which responds to cases involving non-fatal strangulation.

3 BREATHE is an acronym for "Breathing/Blood Flow Restriction Event: Advocacy, Treatment, Help, and Empowerment." Attorney General Law Enforcement Directive No. 2023-03 mandates that County Prosecutors create

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L.F.R. testified that the BREATHE team is comprised of a forensic nurse, law enforcement, and an advocate. L.F.R. explained that BREATHE was established by Attorney General Law Enforcement Directive 2023-03, which became effective on August 21, 2023.

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