J.R.M.-J., By and Through Her Next Friend, S.J., and S.J., Individually v. R.T.M.

CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedSeptember 12, 2023
DocketED111017
StatusPublished

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Opinion

In the Missouri Court of Appeals Eastern District DIVISION FOUR

J.R.M.-J., BY AND THROUGH HER ) No. ED111017 NEXT FRIEND, S.J., and S.J., ) INDIVIDUALLY, ) ) Respondents, ) Appeal from the Circuit Court ) of St. Louis County v. ) Cause No. 16SL-DR01741-02 ) R.T.M., ) Honorable Margaret T. Donnelly ) Appellant. ) Filed: September 12, 2023

R.T.M (“Mother”) appeals the circuit court’s judgment awarding S.J. (“Father”) sole

physical and legal custody of J.R.M.-J. (“Child”). Mother also challenges the circuit court’s

award of attorney’s fees. The judgment of the circuit court is affirmed.

Factual and Procedural Background

In 2017, the circuit court entered an amended paternity judgment granting Father and

Mother joint physical custody of Child and awarding Father sole legal custody. In 2019, Mother

made a hotline call to Children’s Division, alleging that Father had sexually abused Child.

Children’s Division investigated and closed the case as unsubstantiated. In 2020, Father filed a

motion to modify the paternity judgment, requesting that Mother only be allowed supervised

visitation with Child. Father alleged that unsupervised visitation would endanger Child’s physical health and impair Child’s emotional development because Mother made false sexual

abuse allegations against Father, refused to cooperate with the Children’s Division investigation

of the abuse claim, and frequently violated terms of the 2017 judgment. Mother filed a counter

motion to modify, requesting sole legal and physical custody of Child and additional child

support. Mother alleged a substantial change of circumstances due to Father’s investigation for

abuse, his frequent travel resulting in Child being left in the care of older siblings, and Father’s

attempts to alienate Child’s affections.

At a settlement conference with the court in January 2021, Father complained that

Mother repeatedly failed to transfer custody at the location required by the 2017 judgment. The

circuit court subsequently issued an order reiterating that custody exchanges must take place at

the location mandated by the 2017 judgment.

In February 2021, Father filed his first amended motion to modify the paternity

judgment. The only material change between Father’s amended motion and his previous 2020

motion was the addition of a request for amended child support. Father subsequently filed a

motion to enforce the 2017 judgment and the 2021 order, and he requested sanctions against

Mother.

The circuit court held a trial over three separate days in July and September 2021. The

circuit court considered testimony from both Mother and Father related to the sexual abuse

hotline call. Mother explained her motivation for placing the call and Father testified that there

was no legitimate basis for the call. Additionally, the circuit court considered the report of the

Children’s Division caseworker, who did not find sexual abuse had occurred. The circuit court

reviewed Child’s medical records which included visits Mother initiated for minimal issues such

as a cough and superficial abrasion. The medical records also indicate Child’s pediatrician

2 instructed Mother not to ask leading questions about Child’s body. The circuit court considered

Child’s school attendance record and the head of Child’s school testified that Child was often

tardy when in Mother’s care. Finally, psychological evaluations of both Mother and Father were

admitted into evidence.

The circuit court entered a judgment of modification granting Father sole legal and

physical custody of Child and eliminating Father’s obligation to pay child support. The circuit

court found that Mother was responsible for Child’s tardiness at school on 43 occasions in a

single school year. The circuit court specifically noted “Mother’s lack of appreciation for the

importance of having [Child] at school on time and her unwillingness to accept any

responsibility for the tardiness.” The court also found that “Mother abuse[d] …. the health care

system by exaggerating the health conditions of the child, refusing to listen to and follow the

instructions of the health care providers and attempting to use the complaints to accuse Father of

poor care or abuse.” The circuit court stated that Mother’s “interference makes it harder for

coordinated care and is part of Mother’s abuse of the health care system to serve her own needs.”

Additionally, the circuit court found that Mother’s actions regarding the 2019 Children’s

Division hotline call “demonstrated [Mother’s] poor judgment as a parent and her hostility

toward Father.” Mother failed to schedule a child advocacy center interview as directed by

Children’s Division and instead returned the child to Father’s custody. As a result of Mother’s

failure to cooperate, Child was placed in foster care for six weeks.

In the August 2022 judgment of modification, the circuit court found that Mother

repeatedly violated the 2017 judgment by arriving late for exchanges and refusing to bring Child

to the mandated exchange location even after the court’s order. Additionally, the circuit court

noted that Mother refused to communicate with Father through the communication application

3 required by the judgment and had fifty unopened messages in the application. The circuit court

concluded that Father should be granted sole legal and physical custody of the child. The circuit

court granted Mother visitation and adjusted the visitation schedule to allow Mother one evening

each week and every other weekend with Child. In addition to granting Father custody, the

circuit court found that the modified custodial schedule did not justify Father paying child

support to Mother and terminated Father’s child support obligation. Finally, because Mother

“disobeyed” court orders and “contributed to more protracted litigation” the circuit court

awarded Father attorney’s fees and denied Mother’s request that Father pay her attorney’s fees.

In September 2022, Father filed a motion to amend the August 2022 judgment. In the

motion, Father claimed that Mother failed repeatedly to appear on time to exchange Child after

the August 2022 judgment was entered and requested the assistance of law enforcement in

transferring custody. Other than the request for law enforcement assistance with custody

transfers, Father requested no other changes to the August 2022 judgment. Mother filed a motion

to amend the August 2022 judgment to grant her sole legal and physical custody, or in the

alternative, for new trial. Mother claimed the August judgment was based on outdated evidence

and the circuit court did not consider the relationship between Child and her half-sibling. On

October 28, 2022, the circuit court heard the motions and modified the judgment, sustaining

Father’s motion to modify and overruling Mother’s. The circuit court added a provision requiring

law enforcement to assist with custody transfers but made no other substantive changes to the

August 2022 judgment. Mother appeals.

Standard of Review

This Court will affirm the circuit court’s judgment unless there is no substantial evidence

to support it, it is against the weight of the evidence, or it erroneously declares or applies the law.

4 Murphy v. Carron, 536 S.W.2d 30, 32 (Mo. banc 1976). The circuit court’s judgment is

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