J.P. v. E.M.
Opinion
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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-1609-24
J.P.,1 Plaintiff-Respondent,
v. E.M.,2
Defendant-Appellant.
Submitted January 6, 2026 – Decided February 2, 2026 Before Judges Sumners and Augostini.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Union County, Docket No. FV-20-0609-25.
Freeman & Patel, LLC, attorneys for appellant (Jarred S. Freeman, on the brief).
1 We use initials to protect the confidentiality of these parties and the proceedings. R. 1:38-3(d)(10). 2 The Final Restraining Order (FRO) refers to defendant by the initials "M.E." which inverts his first and last name. Therefore, we refer to defendant by the correct initials "E.M."
Berse Law, LLC, attorneys for respondent (Samuel J.
Berse, on the brief).
PER CURIAM Defendant E.M. appeals from the FRO entered against him under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. After considering the record in light of the parties' arguments and applicable law, we affirm the FRO.
I.
We discern the following facts from the trial record. Plaintiff J.P. and defendant were in a relationship that ended in 2013. They have a sixteen-year- old son together.
On October 2, 2024, plaintiff filed a domestic violence complaint and obtained a temporary restraining order (TRO) against defendant, alleging the predicate act of harassment on two separate dates. Plaintiff asserted that while she was in Puerto Rico, defendant sent offensive text messages threatening to leave their son outside of his home. Thirteen days earlier, plaintiff alleged that defendant repeatedly called her in the early morning hours demanding she pick him up or else their son would hate her for not helping him. After acquiescing
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and picking him up, plaintiff alleged that defendant grabbed her arm repeatedly during the drive.
Plaintiff's complaint detailed a history of domestic violence from November 2016 to July 2024. Plaintiff alleged prior acts of domestic violence that included physical violence, repeated threats to stop child support payments, name-calling and other vulgar and degrading communications, attempts to monitor her whereabouts, and instances of showing up uninvited at plaintiff's home.
At the FRO hearing on January 9, 2025, both parties testified. Plaintiff admitted several exhibits into evidence. Plaintiff stated that she needed an FRO because she no longer:
want[ed] to live in fear [] that every time [she] didn't oblige to one of [defendant's] demands [she would]
either. . . get insulted, degraded, or he[] [would] show up at [her] house and do something to [her] . . . [or]
curse [her], or use [their] son . . . and manipulate him to have [their] son turn into who he was physically to [her].
Plaintiff explained that after seventeen years of being "physically, emotionally, [and] psychologically abused," she wanted it to be done and to be left alone. Plaintiff added that it took her ten years after their relationship ended to "work up the courage" to request an order of protection.
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Plaintiff admitted into evidence a photograph of her bruise and "busted lip," which were caused by defendant physically attacking her in 2016.3 She also admitted two screenshots of her call log from repeated calls defendant made to her on September 4, 2022, between three and four in the morning, as part of the prior history, and from September 14, 2024, beginning around 5:30 a.m.— both times while plaintiff was asleep. Plaintiff admitted an audio recording of one of defendant's messages from the early morning hours of September 4, 2024. Lastly, plaintiff produced a December 4, 2019 email from defendant in response to her request not to call her phone. Defendant stated:
[l]ook you fat, ugly pig, no one gives a fuck about you or is calling you. You obviously saw that it was a mistake, so get a fucking life. 4
Defendant denied harassing plaintiff and claimed that he was "not trying to hurt her." Defendant admitted "say[ing] certain things that [he] shouldn't," have and claimed they were "just words [he] was saying." He testified that all communications between them were about their son. Defendant asserted that
3 Defendant did not provide any of the trial exhibits in his appendix.
4 Plaintiff was permitted to read this email into the record.
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the parties mutually harassed one another and both had called the police on the other.
The court found both parties credible and underscored that this case had "to be looked at through the lens of a long history of domestic violence and a cycle of domestic violence." The court found that defendant admitted saying most of the statements plaintiff alleged, such as "you fat, c-u-n-t, and . . . f-ing bitch, f both of you." He further admitted making threats to cut off child support as leverage against plaintiff. The court found that defendant made calls to plaintiff at extremely inconvenient times on September 14, 2024, and in the past. In terms of his intent in making these communications, the court found that they were made for no other reason than to harass plaintiff. The court did not credit defendant's claim that these communications were always regarding their son; instead, it found that defendant had no other purpose for making those statements other than to alarm or annoy plaintiff.
Having found plaintiff had proven the predicate act of harassment by a preponderance of the evidence, the court held that an FRO was necessary to prevent future acts of domestic violence. The court found a history of domestic violence that included physical violence and ongoing harassing communications. The court determined that plaintiff needed to be protected
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from future harassing communications from defendant and thus granted her request for the FRO.
On appeal, defendant contends the evidence adduced at trial fails to support the issuance of an FRO. He further argues the matter should have been transferred to another county because, he alleges, plaintiff is a Union County judiciary employee.
II.
A.
Our review of an FRO is limited. C.C. v. J.A.H., 463 N.J. Super. 419, 428 (App. Div. 2020). "We accord substantial deference to Family Part judges, who routinely hear domestic violence cases and are 'specially trained to detect the difference between domestic violence and more ordinary differences that arise between couples.'" Ibid. (quoting J.D. v. M.D.F., 207 N.J. 458, 482 (2011)). "Deference is especially appropriate [in bench trials] 'when the evidence is largely testimonial and involves questions of credibility.'" Cesare v. Cesare, 154 N.J. 394, 412 (1998) (quoting In re Return of Weapons to J.W.D., 149 N.J. 108, 117 (1997)). Therefore, we will not overturn a judge's factual findings unless we are "convinced that they are so manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent with the competent, relevant and reasonably credible evidence as to
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offend the interest of justice." Cesare, 154 N.J. at 412 (quoting Rova Farms Resort, Inc. v. Investors Ins. Co. of America, 65 N.J. 474, 484 (1974)). However, we accord no deference to the trial court's legal conclusions and review these legal conclusions de novo. Thieme v. Aucoin-Thieme, 227 N.J. 269, 383 (2016) (citing D.W. v. R.W., 212 N.J. 232, 245-46 (2012)).
In deciding whether to grant an FRO, a trial court must engage in a two-
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