J.M. VS. M.M. M.M. VS. J.M. (FV-13-0221-19 AND FV-13-0218-19, MONMOUTH COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED) (CONSOLIDATED)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided September 4, 2019·No. A-0635-18T2/A-0636-18T2·Unpublished

Opinion

RECORD IMPOUNDED

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NOS. A-0635-18T2

A-0636-18T2

J.M., Plaintiff-Appellant,

v. M.M.,

Defendant-Respondent.

M.M., Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. J.M.,

Defendant-Appellant.

Argued August 27, 2019 – Decided September 4, 2019 Before Judges Gilson and Mawla.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Monmouth County, Docket Nos. FV-13-0221-19 and FV-13-0218-19.

Michael Jude Gunteski argued the cause for appellant J.M. (Law Offices Darren C. O'Toole, LLC, attorneys;

Carrie Ayn Smith, of counsel and on the briefs).

Jordan Spencer Gale argued the cause for M.M. (Gale Laughlin LLP, attorneys; Jordan Spencer Gale, on the brief).

PER CURIAM These are consolidated appeals. In A-0635-18, J.M. appeals from the dismissal of a temporary restraining order (TRO) he obtained against M.M. pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25- 17 to -35. In A-0636-18, J.M. challenges the entry of a final restraining order (FRO) in favor of M.M. We affirm.

We take the following facts from the record. The parties are married and have a young child. In 2013, each party obtained a TRO against the other, both of which were dismissed following a trial. They continued to experience marital difficulties afterwards, but reconciled until the events, which led them to obtain the mutual TROs addressed in these appeals.

On August 7, 2018, M.M. obtained a TRO. Her complaint alleged assault, claiming J.M. threw a clipboard at her during a verbal argument and injured her

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the evening of August 6. M.M.'s complaint alleged J.M. punched her in the back of the head and made statements causing her to fear for her life. M.M.'s complaint detailed a history of assault, verbal abuse, and harassment by J.M., including incidents in 2012, 2013 (two), and 2017 (two).

On August 8, 2018, J.M. obtained a TRO. His complaint alleged M.M.

had committed assault, harassment, and criminal coercion. Specifically, J.M. alleged that on August 2, 2018, M.M. had threatened to contact police and make false domestic violence allegations against him if he did not complete her immigration petition. His complaint also alleged she scratched J.M. during an argument, and during this and prior incidents, she stated "in my country we don't talk, we put the gun to the head, that's how we fix [matters]."

J.M.'s complaint also alleged that during an argument on August 6, 2018, M.M. hid business and personal documents that J.M. needed for a landlord/tenant proceeding he filed against a tenant. J.M. alleged M.M. "smashed [his] left thumb with a big metal spoon causing bleeding under the nail" during the argument. J.M. alleged M.M. repeated her threats to call the police with false domestic violence accusations if he did not complete her immigration petition and that she "repeatedly smacks [him] in the genitals causing pain."

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At the FRO hearing, M.M. adduced the testimony of Marlboro Township Police Officer Aaron Murdock, and the parties' upstairs neighbor and tenant F.S. Both parties also testified.

Officer Murdock testified he and another officer responded to the parties'

residence on August 7, due to the report of a verbal dispute. He stated police had responded to several calls to the residence during the preceding weeks. J.M. claimed the argument was because M.M. had allowed the family dog to escape the house.

When Officer Murdock spoke with M.M., he noticed a scratch on her back, which she said occurred from J.M. throwing a clipboard at her. She also explained J.M. had hit her in the back of the head earlier in the day while she was getting a drink for him from the refrigerator. The officer observed M.M. was crying and fearful of J.M.

F.S. resided upstairs from the parties and testified she overheard arguments between the parties on July 30, and August 7, 2018, which she characterized as "not settling and disturbing." She testified the arguments involved banging and were "one[-]sided" in that J.M. verbally assailed M.M. and called her a "cunt" with no response by M.M. A recording of the August 7

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argument was played for the trial judge and corroborated F.S.'s testimony. In it, J.M. screamed loudly at M.M. and called her a "jerk off" and a "stupid fuck."

M.M. testified J.M. called her "son of a bitch," "[m]other fucker," "[p]iece of shit," "[f]ucking cunt," and hit her with a clipboard in the right shoulder during an argument on August 6. A photo of her shoulder bearing what the judge described as a "linear red mark approximately one inch long" was adduced in evidence and corroborated her testimony. She also claimed J.M. threatened to kill her if she called the police.

According to M.M.'s testimony, the verbal and physical abuse continued when J.M. returned from work the evening of August 7. She testified that as she was retrieving a drink for J.M. from the refrigerator, he pulled her hair and hit her "very hard" in the back of the head with a closed fist. M.M. left the house with the dog in hopes J.M. would calm down and returned to find the police, who responded to a call from an upstairs neighbor.

M.M.'s testimony also detailed a history of domestic violence, including an incident in July 2017, where during an argument, J.M. had punched her with a closed fist. M.M.'s testimony was corroborated by a photograph of a bruise above her left breast adduced in evidence. M.M. also testified J.M. verbally abused her and injured her foot when he threw a flashlight at her during another

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incident in October 2017. She testified he threatened to kill her if she contacted the police. A photograph of M.M.'s injured foot was placed into evidence.

During his testimony, J.M. explained he and M.M. had been in court on August 6 to file an eviction complaint against F.S. He claimed after they returned from court, he was searching for documents relating to the tenancy matter and M.M. refused to help him. When J.M. found the documents and confronted M.M. with them, she claimed she never saw them and then struck his thumb with a spoon, which caused him to throw the clipboard and accidentally hit her. Afterwards, J.M. claimed the parties discussed M.M.'s immigration status and she threatened him with false police reports if he failed to "follow through" on her immigration petition. J.M.'s testimony repeated his allegations regarding the August 6 incident as set forth in his complaint.

J.M. also testified to an alleged history of domestic violence. Specifically, he claimed M.M. had scratched his face, arm, and chest two weeks prior to August 6, and she deleted photos he had taken of his injuries. J.M. claimed M.M. grabbed his genitals a few times per week and laughed at him when he told her to stop. He claimed M.M. wakes him up punching and shoving him. He testified she pushed and shoved him during an incident years prior, causing him to cut a finger, which required surgery. He claimed M.M. willfully damaged

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the parties' property by cutting a hallway carpet while moving an appliance and allowing the dog to urinate on rose bushes he purchased for her.

The trial judge made oral findings of fact, and issued a detailed written amplification pursuant to Rule 2:5-1(b). He concluded M.M. had testified credibly, and J.M.'s testimony had been inconsistent and lacked credibility. The judge rejected J.M.'s claims that M.M. sought to file false claims with the police against him. The judge noted "[s]he was not anxious to complain to the police[.]"

Regarding the August 7 incident, the judge concluded as follows:

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