J.L. VS. J.J.L. (FV-11-0599-18, MERCER COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided January 31, 2020·No. A-0898-18T2·Unpublished

Opinion

RECORD IMPOUNDED

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-0898-18T2

J.L., Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. J.J.L.,

Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted January 6, 2020 – Decided January 31, 2020 Before Judges Geiger and Natali.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Mercer County, Docket No. FV-11-0599-18.

John William Hartmann, attorney for appellant.

Pellettieri Rabstein & Altman, attorneys for respondent (Lydia Fabbro Keephart, on the brief).

PER CURIAM

Defendant J.J.L.1 appeals from a final restraining order (FRO) granted to plaintiff J.L. pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. He argues that there was insufficient evidence to support the trial judge's findings of harassment or that plaintiff was in need of a FRO. Further, defendant maintains that because the trial judge improperly issued a FRO, his subsequent July 20, 2018 decision awarding attorneys' fees to plaintiff should be reversed. We disagree with defendant's contentions and affirm.

I.

The record from the FRO proceeding established the following facts.

Defendant, an automobile salesman and former law enforcement officer, resides in West Windsor. Defendant's wife passed away from cancer when their daughters, plaintiff and J.L. (Jaclyn), were children. When plaintiff began college, she moved out of defendant's home with the exception of occasional periods during school breaks. After graduation, she began full-time employment as an elementary school teacher while undertaking graduate studies.

1 We employ initials and pseudonyms to protect the privacy of the parties. R. 1:38-3(d)(10).

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Plaintiff testified that she serves as the primary caregiver for L.L. (Laura), her ninety-six-year-old paternal grandmother. Plaintiff stated she "spend[s] a lot of time" at Laura's house, "take[s] her to all of her doctor's appointments," goes grocery shopping, and "look[s] out for her well-being . . . ." Laura, according to plaintiff, "wants no relationship" with defendant.

Plaintiff last saw defendant in April 2017 after an incident at a restaurant also involving plaintiff's close friend M.C. (Mary). On that occasion, plaintiff noted that defendant "was drinking as usual" and asked for the whereabouts of Jaclyn. According to plaintiff, defendant and Jaclyn "[had] not spoken in four years, and [also] want[ed] no relationship with him."

Defendant also began "making inappropriate comments . . . about [their]

sexuality," noting that "even [if they] were lesbians [they] wouldn't tell him." As a result, plaintiff felt "[v]ery uncomfortable" and characterized the conversation as "an interrogation" because defendant "kept asking the same things[,] [a]nd he had this edge to him" throughout. Mary testified that during dinner, defendant referred to her and plaintiff as "a couple of carpet munchers."

Shortly thereafter, on Easter, plaintiff contacted defendant, but he did not answer his phone. That evening, defendant called back and left a voicemail for plaintiff detailing how he "almost killed" a motorcyclist the previous day, "tried

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to turn him into a freaking hood ornament," and attempted to "pull him off [the motorcycle] to break his neck and f--king kill him." Defendant also informed plaintiff that he "got in a fight at work with [his] boss" and that it "suck[ed]" celebrating Easter alone.

The following weekend, defendant left another voicemail expounding upon the encounter with the motorcyclist, among other topics. He explained that he tried to "run [the motorcyclist] into a telephone pole and kill him," and that when the motorcyclist gave him the middle finger, he left the vehicle "to go pull him off his motorcycle [and] take that finger off his hand." Given the nature of these voicemails and their temporal proximity to one another, plaintiff "was uncomfortable and unnerved because . . . [defendant] was . . . interrogating when [she] had seen him last. This aggression had come out. He had been drinking more. And now he [was] threatening to kill people."

In defendant's next voicemail, on April 29, 2017, he stated that he "body-

slammed a jerk off at work," a comment he characterized as a joke at trial, and claimed to be "on sick leave." Further, he told plaintiff not to "bother coming by to see" him, and to "[j]ust leave [him] alone." Defendant then ended the voicemail by saying "[l]ove you. Miss you. Wish you were still here. F--k it. I'm pissed." Unlike the previous two voicemails, plaintiff did not return that

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call because she "didn't want to be around [defendant] when he [was] being violent . . . and can't control himself in the workplace," and due to his prior voicemail regarding "problems on the road."

The following week, on May 6, 2017, defendant left another voicemail informing plaintiff that he was moving and that he wanted plaintiff and Jaclyn to "come over and clean all [their] stuff out of [the] house," insisting that they both contact him to "make appointments to go over and get [their] stuff." He stated that he was "getting rid of everything in [the] house[,] . . . selling it[,] [a]nd . . . moving." The next day, defendant called again, asking in another voicemail whether plaintiff received his previous message and whether he was "worthy of a call back."

According to plaintiff, the last time she spoke to defendant was May 7, 2017, when she returned the May 6, 2017 call. Plaintiff stated defendant told her she doesn't "do enough for him," and that she and Jaclyn "weren't seeing him enough" or "doing enough," despite that she was taking care of her then ninety- five-year-old grandmother. Defendant also asked if plaintiff knew he had

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cancer,2 and stated "[h]e would let [plaintiff] know" whether he was going to move.

Following that conversation, plaintiff stopped answering defendant's calls. On Father's Day 2017, plaintiff returned defendant's car to his home, but did not speak to him because she "had such unpleasant interactions with him . . . [a]nd [she] was scared" to visit defendant's house alone.

The following day, on Monday, June 19, 2017, defendant left numerous voicemails for plaintiff, often in rapid succession. Specifically, defendant left seven voicemails while plaintiff was at work and later at a colleague's retirement party. Defendant testified that he made these calls with the purpose of having plaintiff and Jaclyn remove belongings from his home.

In the voicemails, however, he included extraneous content including a reference to himself as plaintiff's "ex-father" and that she no longer had a father because she did not "call [him] on Father's Day." He also stated he no longer had daughters and that plaintiff and Jaclyn were "scumbags." Further, defendant said "f--k you" to plaintiff, referred to her as a "stinking piece of garbage," and called Jaclyn plaintiff's "dusty ass sister . . . ." Moreover, he stated that if

2 Plaintiff testified at trial that she did not know whether defendant did, in fact, have cancer.

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plaintiff did not remove her belongings from his house, "all the pictures of [her] mother" and all of her childhood possessions would be in a dumpster or at "the garbage dump." He also told plaintiff that he changed the locks so that she could not enter the house. That evening, defendant informed plaintiff that he was "going the dumpster route," that he hoped he didn't break one of plaintiff's childhood possessions by throwing it in the dumpster and told her to "[h]ave a nice life."

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