J.H. v. J.N.

CourtIndiana Court of Appeals
DecidedDecember 16, 2014
Docket29A02-1405-PO-329
StatusUnpublished

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J.H. v. J.N., (Ind. Ct. App. 2014).

Opinion

Pursuant to Ind. Appellate Rule 65(D), this Memorandum Decision shall not be regarded as precedent or cited before any Dec 16 2014, 9:51 am court except for the purpose of establishing the defense of res judicata, collateral estoppel, or the law of the case.

ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: ATTORNEY FOR APPELLEE:

MICHAEL N. RED CASANDRA L. RINGLESPAUGH Morse & Bickel, P.C. Hollingsworth & Zivitz, P.C. Indianapolis, Indiana Carmel, Indiana

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

J.H., ) ) Appellant-Petitioner, ) ) vs. ) No. 29A02-1405-PO-329 ) J.N., ) ) Appellee-Respondent. )

APPEAL FROM THE HAMILTON SUPERIOR COURT The Honorable Gail Z. Bardach, Judge Cause No. 29D06-1312-PO-11346

December 16, 2014

MEMORANDUM DECISION – NOT FOR PUBLICATION

BAKER, Judge J.H. appeals the trial court’s denial of his petition for an order of protection against

J.N., arguing that the trial court applied an incorrect legal standard. He also argues that

the trial court erred in denying his motion to dismiss and in awarding attorney’s fees to

J.N. We find that, while the trial court did apply an incorrect legal standard, the first part

of its analysis—finding that no act of stalking occurred—is determinative. However, we

conclude that the trial court erred in awarding attorney’s fees to J.N., and deny her

request for appellate attorney’s fees. Affirmed in part and reversed in part.

FACTS1

J.H. and J.N. became acquainted in 2006, when J.H. frequented the restaurant

owned by J.N. and her then-husband, Mario. Through his patronage of the restaurant,

J.H. became friendly with J.N. On approximately October 23, 2009, J.H. was at J.N.’s

restaurant and witnessed a physical altercation between J.N. and Mario, and J.H.

intervened to stop the fight. Following that incident, J.N. began contacting J.H.

At first, J.N. simply communicated her desire to be friends, telling J.H. via text, “I

appreciate what you have done getting Mario off me- for that u will be my hero! I

appreciate your communication. I would like to get to know you better as a friend…” Ex.

1 p. 62 (internal grammatical and spelling errors in original). However, even then it

appears that the communication was one-sided, as J.N. apologized for communicating too

1 We remind counsel for both parties that, in accordance with Appellate Rule of Procedure 46(A)(6), parties are required to state the facts “in accordance with the standard of review appropriate to the judgment or order being appealed.” 2 We use the pagination provided by the appellee when quoting from text messages, not the pagination that appears at the center of the page. Each exhibit has separate pagination. 2 often and stated that she thought she was being “put off.” Id. J.H. responded that he was

“all for being friends,” but he also told J.N. that he had “too many things going on,” and

mentioned that he did not spend time with many people. Id. at 7.

Throughout 2009 and 2010, it seems that J.H. and J.N. had a friendly relationship.

The two texted each other with some frequency, and it appears that they saw each other

in person in some capacity. In February 2011, J.N. told J.H. she was unhappy with the

state of their relationship:

I’ve been thinking about a lot going on in my life. And one is you. I invited you over because I cared about you. We finally met for drinks which was a lot of fun but you made it clear that you only wanted to “hang” that you are not looking to date. Which is fine for you but not for me because I would want more which you cannot give and I would become upset which would not be good. Ha! So with my feelings I have and with the situation the way it is I feel it is in both our interest not to “hang” out. And I think it best if you avoid my restaurant. I’ll always be your friend but I can’t see you because I will want mire. I’m sorry – i thought i could – but that is how I honestly feel.

Id. at 20 (internal grammatical and spelling errors in original). J.H. responded that he

was sorry that J.N. felt that way, but that “its cool.” Id. at 22 (internal grammatical and

spelling errors in original).

During that same text exchange, J.N. referred to a physical encounter between

herself and J.H.: “Was thinking in the spa today- most girls – the nice ones anyway –

sleep with men who they like and would like to date. No one likes to be a one night stand

. . . .” Id. (internal grammatical and spelling errors in original). J.H. told J.N. that he was

sorry she felt “taken advantage of,” but that he had never intended to begin a relationship.

3 Id. At this point, J.N. became angry. She asked J.H. why he flirted with her and why he

let her believe that he was interested in her. J.H. told J.N. he knew many women who

had one night stands and stated that, while he understood she was “disturbed by all this,”

he could not change it. Id. at 25. J.N. told him that he did lead her on and stated that he

was a “typical guy” and called him an “ass.” Id. at 26, 28. J.H. told J.N. that they had

“been through this 100 times and it hasn’t changed anything.” Id. at 27. At trial, J.H.

testified that he never had a sexual relationship with J.N.

In April 2011, J.N. asked J.H. if he would like to get together for drinks, but J.H.

would not commit to a time to see her. On April 19, 2011, J.N. told him, “[s]hould you

decide you want to see me – maybe an Indian’s game or a vacation – let me know. I’m a

great person who deserves to be with someone who values me. When you realize this let

me know. Maybe I’ll be around.” Id. at 32. J.H. told her that he had only been

interested in being friends and that he was not interested in dating her or other women at

the moment. J.N. responded that she understood, but that she wished things were

different and that she wanted to continue their connection and asked J.H., “you felt no

connection?” Id. at 35. J.H. told her that he was in physical therapy that day and

continued to be unresponsive. J.N. then stated “[y]ou know what- I’m done- I get it.

You have time for everyone else a/ I deserve more/ you take care – I’ll leave you alone / I

am done trying.” Id. at 36. (internal grammatical and spelling errors in original). It was

at this point that J.H. began to ask J.N. to leave him alone. He stated:

4 What are you done from? We agreed to be friends and that was it. I have never differed from that. This is exactly why I don’t do relationships . . . I am trying to be polite, but I DO not want a relationship outside of a friendship with ANYONE. Why do you think you deserve more from me?! I am who I am and I am going to stay that way. Sorry, but we have been thru this a million times. I don’t want to be pressured.

Id. at 37-38 (emphasis in original). He told her, “Can we just let this be, please? This is

getting invasive.” Id. J.N. told J.H. that she was sorry and that it was his loss and

thanked him for communicating with her. J.H. said “Ok.” Id. at 39.

That same day, J.N. continued to talk to J.H., and he was unresponsive except to

respond “ok.” J.N. then discovered that J.H. had removed her as a Facebook friend. She

became agitated stating, “Did you just delete me as a friend? So I am defriended because

I try to find out what is going on. Can you respond please / I am not trying to bother you.

Wow.” Id. at 41-42 (internal grammatical and spelling errors in original). To this, J.H.

responded, “No. Leave me alone. I am not playing this shit anymore. I don’t want to

talk. Nothing to talk about. I am probably going to get off facebook altogether.

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