Jennifer Lesinski, V. Joseph Mienko

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided March 29, 2022·No. 55093-8·Published

Opinion

Filed Washington State Court of Appeals Division Two

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON March 29, 2022

DIVISION II In the Matter of the Marriage of No. 55093-8-II

JENNIFER CATHERINE LESINSKI, f/n/a MIENKO,

Respondent,

and PUBLISHED OPINION

JOSEPH ANTHONY MIENKO,

Appellant.

GLASGOW, J.—After Joseph Mienko and Jennifer Lesinski dissolved their marriage in

2013, the trial court entered a parenting plan requiring their two sons to spend summers with

Mienko in Washington and return to Lesinski in Michigan for the school year. In summer 2020,

their 13-year-old son JM decided he did not want to return to Michigan.

Lesinski secured a court order directing both parents to facilitate the transfer of JM back to

Lesinski’s care on August 16, 2020. Early that morning, Lesinski arrived to pick up JM, but JM

refused to leave his room in Mienko’s home, and neither Mienko, Lesinski, nor law enforcement

used physical force to attempt to move him. JM’s adult sister confronted Lesinski on JM’s behalf,

and Mienko tried to negotiate with Lesinski in front of JM.

In a hearing the next day, Mienko requested a writ of habeas corpus allowing law

enforcement to force JM to return to Lesinski, which Mienko thought would convince JM to

voluntarily go with Lesinski. The commissioner granted the writ. Upon having the writ explained No. 55093-8-II

to him, JM agreed to return to Michigan and was in Lesinski’s custody by the afternoon of August

17, 2020.

That same day the commissioner issued an order to show cause for contempt against

Mienko. After a hearing, the commissioner found contempt and imposed a civil fine and ordered

Mienko to pay attorney fees. A judge declined to revise the order finding contempt.

Mienko appeals. He argues that he complied with the court orders before the contempt

hearing, he was subjected to a punitive sanction, and he could not purge the contempt when he had

already returned JM to Lesinski. Lesinski seeks attorney fees on appeal.

We affirm the order to show cause and the contempt order because the sanctions were not

punitive and the orders were supported by substantial evidence. We deny Lesinski’s request for

attorney fees on appeal.

FACTS

In October 2013, a trial court entered a parenting plan for Lesinski and Mienko’s three

children, NM, JM, and EM. The parenting plan ordered that NM would live with Mienko in

Washington while JM and EM would reside with Lesinski in Michigan during the school year. In

the summers, JM and EM lived with Mienko from one week after the end of school until one week

before the new school year. Lesinski and Mienko would jointly make all major decisions regarding

the children. The parenting plan stated that the parties could arrange for additional parenting time

by mutual agreement.

In 2020, under the parenting plan, JM and EM should have returned to Michigan on August

24, but Mienko agreed to an earlier transfer date of August 16 so Lesinski could take a family

vacation with JM and EM. In July 2020, Mienko e-mailed Lesinski informing her that JM wanted

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to remain in Washington for the following school year, despite the parenting plan. Mienko

explained:

In facilitating [JM’s] return to you, the only tools I have are conversation or violence (i.e. physical coercion or intimidation). The only tool I intend to use is conversation. As such, there are limits to what I see as my reasonable facilitation of his return to you.

. . . I do not intend to restrain [JM] into your vehicle, nor do I intend to allow anyone else to do so.

. . . I do not intend to verbally or physically intimidate [JM] to coerce him into your vehicle, nor do I intend to allow anyone else to do so.

Since it seems unlikely that you and I will agree on [JM’s] precise future before August 16, my hope is that [JM] will comply with my efforts. Practically speaking; however, some portion of this is up to [JM].

Suppl. Clerk’s Papers (SCP) at 152 (boldface omitted).

On August 13, 2020, Lesinski filed a petition to change the parenting plan for JM and EM

to “limit [Mienko’s] parenting time and participation” to “protect the children.” SCP at 125.

Lesinski sought to shorten the children’s time with Mienko in the summer, requiring their return

to Michigan two weeks before the new school year. And she requested that she be named the sole

decision-maker regarding the children’s education. That same day, Lesinski also requested an

adequate cause decision for the proposed change to the parenting plan and an immediate restraining

order against Mienko. She argued that Mienko had “engaged in a scheme of parental alienation”

against her, “threatened to withhold” the children, and had told the children “they can decide where

they want to live.” SCP at 133. Lesinski also sought an order requiring Mienko to return JM and

EM to her at 6:00 a.m. on August 16, 2020, and for an order for “a civil standby,” where law

enforcement would supervise the transfer of the children. SCP at 134 (boldface omitted).

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Mienko appeared pro se at a hearing on these motions on August 14, 2020, telling the

commissioner that he did not “intend[,] in any way, to suggest that [the children] have any sort of

agency in this process” and had “never told [the children] that they can decide where they live.”

Verbatim Report of Proceedings (VRP) (Aug. 14, 2020) at 9. “I’ve made this clear to [JM], that

he’s going . . . that he needs to go.” Id.

In her ruling, Commissioner Terri Farmer stated:

THE COURT: I think -- thankfully, I don’t think you need much of an order here. I think I will draft an order just for the sake of your son, to some degree, because he’s a teenager, correct?

MR. MIENKO: Yes, Your Honor.

THE COURT: He doesn’t really have any choice. That’s what he need[s] to understand. Until the court order is changed, he has no choice.

I think that’s all this order is going to reflect, that he’s to return with his mom as planned on the 16th . . . . Both parents are to facilitate that.

I don’t think law enforcement is going to help anything. . . . [I]t will only get worse with law enforcement.

Id. at 11-12 (emphasis added). The commissioner’s written order instructed that Mienko “shall

return the children to [Lesinski] as planned on 8/16/20. The child does not have a choice in this

matter. They must follow the court order. Both parents shall facilitate the return of the children.”

Clerk’s Papers (CP) at 3. The commissioner crossed out language requiring the transfer to occur

by 6:00 a.m.

When Lesinski arrived at 6:00 a.m. on August 16, 2020, JM refused to leave his room to

get into Lesinski’s car. Mienko helped load JM’s belongings into Lesinski’s car, and Mienko

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invited her into JM’s room to try to convince JM to leave with her. Mienko let Lesinski talk alone

with JM.

NM, JM’s adult sister, confronted Lesinski on JM’s behalf, arguing that JM had the right

to decide where to live. When JM continued to refuse to leave his room, Lesinski called law

enforcement, but all of the adults, including the officer who arrived, were unwilling to physically

force JM into Lesinski’s car. Mienko pleaded and attempted to negotiate with Lesinski in front of

JM. Mienko asked Lesinski to leave JM in Washington until the parties could “‘talk to the Court

about this next week.’” CP at 21. Lesinski eventually left Mienko’s home without JM.

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