Jeffrey A. Meyer v. Brandi R. Harris, N/K/A Brandi R. Norbert

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided June 10, 2015·No. 14-1483·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 14-1483

Filed June 10, 2015

JEFFREY A. MEYER, Petitioner-Appellant,

vs.

BRANDI R. HARRIS, n/k/a BRANDI R. NORBERT, Respondent-Appellee.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Pottawattamie County, Timothy O’Grady, Judge.

Jeffrey Meyer appeals a district court order modifying a dissolution decree to place physical care of the parties’ children with Brandi Norbert. AFFIRMED.

Drew H. Kouris, Council Bluffs, for appellant.

Stephen C. Ebke of Ebke Law Office, Council Bluffs, for appellee.

Heard by Danilson C.J., and Vaitheswaran and Doyle, JJ.

DOYLE, J.

Jeffrey Meyer appeals a district court order modifying a dissolution decree to place physical care of the parties’ children with Brandi Harris, n/k/a Brandi Norbert. Brandi requests appellate attorney fees. We affirm. I. Background Facts and Proceedings Jeffrey and Brandi are the parents of R.A.M., born in 1999, and C.M., born in 1997. Jeffrey and Brandi divorced in 2003. The family lived in Maine at that time. The parties exchanged physical care of the children on a weekly basis until 2007.

In 2007, Jeffrey moved to Iowa with the children. Brandi testified Jeffrey gave no notice of the move and she had to search for the children. Jeffrey testified he gave Brandi his Iowa address with two weeks’ notice. When Brandi located the children in Iowa, she removed them back to Maine without notice to Jeffrey. Jeffrey notified police, and an Amber Alert was issued for the children. When police located Brandi in Maine, the children were taken into custody and returned to Jeffrey.

Meanwhile, Brandi filed a “motion to amend divorce judgment” in Maine.

A hearing on the motion was held in May 2009. Brandi was living in the state of Washington; Jeffrey and the children were living in Iowa. Brandi had not seen the children in nearly two years. The Maine court entered an order providing that the children would remain in Jeffrey’s physical care and Iowa would be the children’s home state.1 The court ordered that Brandi have visitation with the

1 Specifically, the court’s order stated, “[P]ursuant to the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act, Maine has lost exclusive, continuing jurisdiction over

children in Washington for the month of July 2009, and for a week during the children’s Christmas vacation each year. Beginning in 2010, Brandi was to have visitation with the children for the months of June and July each summer. The court’s order further stated:

[Brandi] agrees and it is ORDERED that if she fails in a willful or material way to return the children to [Jeffrey] pursuant to the scheduled return on any visit, she is waiving any future visits by the children with her in her home state, wherever that may be.

In 2009 and 2010, Brandi had visitation with the children as set forth in the court’s order. At the end of the summer 2010 visit, Brandi did not return C.M. to Jeffrey at the scheduled time. Brandi testified she did not return C.M. because “he wanted to stay.” Jeffrey traveled to Washington and brought C.M. back to Iowa. Relying on the visitation-waiver provision set forth above, Jeffrey did not allow the children to go to Washington to see Brandi at Christmas of 2010 or at all during 2011. In March 2012, Jeffrey called Brandi and told her she “needed to take” C.M. According to Brandi, Jeffrey said C.M. was “out of control, that [Jeffrey] could no longer handle him in the household and that he needed to leave immediately, that it couldn’t wait until school was out.” Brandi made arrangements for C.M. to come to Washington “on the next plane.” C.M. has lived with Brandi since March 2012; C.M. has not seen Jeffrey and has barely spoken to Jeffrey since his move. Jeffrey’s testimony corroborated Brandi’s description of the events leading to C.M.’s move to Washington.

After C.M. went to live with Brandi in Washington, Jeffrey began to allow visitation with R.A.M. After her visit with Brandi in 2013, R.A.M. expressed a

any future proceedings in this matter. Future jurisdiction over the children shall be in the State of Iowa, provided that [Jeffrey] continues to reside in Iowa.”

desire to live with her mother and her brother. She expressed this desire to Brandi in person, by text, and by letter. R.A.M. expressed her desire to Jeffrey as well.

In October 2013, Brandi filed a petition for modification of the parties’

custody order regarding R.A.M. and C.M. Jeffrey requested R.A.M. to remain with him and C.M. to remain with Brandi.2 At the time of the hearing in July 2014, R.A.M. was fifteen years old. She was a “straight-A” student and active in extracurricular activities. R.A.M. was described as socially outgoing, goal-setting, fit, mature, healthy, and with a good attitude.

C.M. was seventeen years old. Prior to his move to Brandi’s, C.M. had been doing poorly in school, and he was stealing from and threatening the younger children in the household. Since his move to Washington in March 2012, C.M. was an “A and B student,” and he was participating in debate and volunteering at the Boys’ and Girls’ Club.

Brandi was thirty-seven years old and in good health, aside from a back injury. She was married to Patrick , and since 2008 had lived in a three-bedroom log cabin on an acreage located about two hours north of Seattle. C.M. and Brandi’s father also lived there. Brandi had not been employed since she sustained a back injury two years prior. She had experience in waitressing, nursing home care, and managing a camping resort.

2 Jeffrey also asked that Brandi be found in contempt for failing to pay child support. He does not appeal the district court’s resolution of that issue.

Jeffrey was forty-five years old and in good health. He was married to Julie, and had lived in the same home on an acreage for five years. Julie’s three children lived with them (two of whom were about to go to college), as well as Jeffrey and Julie’s two young children. Jeffrey had worked as a carpenter for fourteen years and also took care of the farm work on the family’s acreage.

In July 2014, following a hearing, the district court entered an order modifying the decree to place physical care of the parties’ children with Brandi, with visitation to Jeffrey every summer and one week over Christmas. Jeffrey was ordered to pay child support. Jeffrey filed a motion for new trial, which the court denied following a hearing. Jeffrey appeals, challenging the court’s order modifying physical care of R.A.M.3 Additional facts will be set forth below as relevant to Jeffrey’s contentions on appeal. II. Standard and Scope of Review This modification action was tried in equity and review is de novo. Iowa R.

App. P. 6.907; In re Marriage of Johnson, 781 N.W.2d 553, 554 (Iowa 2010). Although we are not bound by the findings of the district court, we give them deference because the district court was present to listen to and observe the parties and witnesses and evaluate the parties as custodians. In re Marriage of Zebecki, 389 N.W.2d 396, 398 (Iowa 1986); In re Marriage of Cupples, 531 N.W.2d 656, 657 (Iowa Ct. App. 1995); see also Iowa R .App. P. 6.904(3)(g).

The children’s best interest is the “controlling consideration.” In re Marriage of Leyda, 355 N.W.2d 862, 865 (Iowa 1984); see also In re Marriage of Weidner, 338 N.W.2d 351, 356 (Iowa 1983) (“first and foremost consideration”). Utilizing the best-interest standard “provides the flexibility necessary to consider unique custody issues

3 Jeffrey does not challenge the court’s order modifying physical care of C.M.

on a case-by-case basis.” In re Marriage of Hansen, 733 N.W.2d 683, 696 (Iowa 2007).

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