J.D.H. v. A.M.H.

123 So. 3d 979, 2013 WL 1277084, 2013 Ala. Civ. App. LEXIS 75
CourtCourt of Civil Appeals of Alabama
DecidedMarch 29, 2013
Docket2110017
StatusPublished
Cited by1 cases

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J.D.H. v. A.M.H., 123 So. 3d 979, 2013 WL 1277084, 2013 Ala. Civ. App. LEXIS 75 (Ala. Ct. App. 2013).

Opinion

On Application for Rehearing

PITTMAN, Judge.

This court’s opinion of January 18, 2013, is withdrawn, and the following is substituted therefor.

J.D.H. (“the husband”) appeals from a judgment of the Winston Circuit Court divorcing him from A.M.H. (“the wife”), awarding custody of the parties’ two minor children, dividing the marital assets, and awarding the wife an attorney fee. We affirm in part, reverse in part, and remand with instructions.

The parties married in March 2005. The wife, then a 17-year-old high-school senior, was pregnant with the husband’s child, and the husband, then a 23-year-old high-school graduate, was employed as a real-estate agent. Soon after the marriage, the wife experienced a miscarriage, graduated from high school, and embarked on an elementary-education curriculum at a nearby university. At some point during the marriage the husband was employed by a company owned by his father, but he left that employment in 2007 and returned to the real-estate field. The husband insisted on paying the wife’s college expenses, despite her stating that she had been offered scholarships in high school and could probably obtain a scholarship to the university she was attending.

Initially, the parties lived in a small house owned by the husband. In June 2006, the husband’s parents deeded the parties a four-acre parcel of land near the parents’ home in Double Springs, and the parties built a 4-bedroom, 4,000-square-foot house on the parcel. The wife gave birth to two children: a son, born in August 2007, and a daughter, born in December 2008.

On July 5, 2009, the wife left the marital residence with the two children and went to a domestic-abuse shelter. Four days later, she filed a complaint alleging that the husband had committed acts of physical violence on her and seeking a divorce and pendente lite custody of the children, as well as child support, spousal support, and the use of the marital residence. The husband answered and counterclaimed, seeking a divorce and pendente lite custody of the children on the ground that the wife was exhibiting erratic behavior that threatened the safety of the children. On July 29, 2009, the trial court entered an ex parte order granting the husband immediate temporary custody of the children and stating that it would set the matter for a hearing at the request of either party. Two days later, in response to a motion by the wife, the trial court withdrew its July 29 order and set the pendente lite issues for a hearing. Following that hearing, the trial court entered a pendente lite order on August 17, 2009, granting the parties joint legal custody, the wife sole physical custody, and the husband alternating weekend visitation with the children. The husband was ordered to pay $135 per week in pen-dente lite child support and to maintain health-insurance coverage for the wife and children.

On December 7, 2009, the husband moved to modify the pendente lite order, [982]*982alleging (a) that he had just graduated from the Sheriffs Academy, that he had begun employment as a sheriffs deputy, and that his work schedule did not permit him to exercise alternating weekend visitation; and (b) that the wife had relocated the children from Marion County, where she had been living in her deceased grandmother’s house, to Cullman County, where she was cohabiting with a paramour.

At the time of the January 13, 2010, hearing on the husband’s motion to modify, the husband had resigned his position as a sheriffs deputy. He explained that the sheriff had advised him that he was not suited to “just serving papers” and would probably be happier if he sought employment with a municipality where he could have a more active law-enforcement role. The husband had taken a job at a realty company, where he was working on a commission basis; he had not yet earned any commissions. The wife was a student-teacher in college and expected to graduate in May 2010. The wife acknowledged that, in late August 2009, she had met D.H., a recently divorced man, and had moved into his home after having known him only a few weeks. She stated that on weekday mornings she typically took the parties’ son to a day-care center at 6:45 a.m. and then drove 45 minutes to another city, where her student-teaching post was located and where she left the parties’ daughter at the home of a babysitter who was D.H.’s 22-year-old niece. The wife also acknowledged that she had not informed the husband of her and the children’s whereabouts when she had moved.

Following the hearing, the trial court entered an amended pendente lite order, awarding the parties joint physical custody of the children, rotating weekly, with each party bearing the responsibility to support the children during his or her custodial period. That arrangement continued for the next 15 months. A final hearing was held over four days — March 11 and 25 and April 6 and 26, 2011.

By the time the trial began in March 2011, the wife had completed her degree requirements and was employed as a science teacher at a middle school where she also served as a girls’ basketball coach and assistant softball coach. She had moved out of D.H.’s house and was living in her deceased grandmother’s house in Haley-ville. The husband was again employed as a law-enforcement officer, this time as a patrol officer for a nearby municipality where he worked 12-hour shifts 3 times a week and earned $13.50 per hour. Both parties depended upon the children’s retired grandparents (the wife relying on her father, the husband on his mother and, to a lesser extent, his father) to assist with child care. Before the April 2012 hearings, the husband had resigned his law-enforcement position and had gone to work in another of his father’s three business enterprises so that, he said, he could have a more flexible schedule and be able to pick up the children at their preschools and spend more time with them in the afternoons.

The husband testified that, before the parties separated, the wife had committed adultery with at least three men, including one of her former high-school teachers. The husband presented evidence demonstrating that, during the two years that the case was pending, the wife had moved five times and had cohabited with two different men. The wife denied the husband’s accusation of pre-separation adultery and stated that she had not had sexual relations with anyone but the husband before she had filed the complaint for a divorce. She described the husband as a person who alternates between being charming and being controlling, and as being possessive, [983]*983jealous, insecure, and prone to “raging fits.”

The wife testified that she had seen the husband’s first “raging fit” six months after the parties were married. The wife was packing in preparation for the parties’ move to their newly constructed house in Double Springs when the husband came home very angry. He began throwing things, kicking furniture, punching walls, and breaking pictures. The wife was frightened, and she telephoned the husband’s parents, who soon arrived with a bag containing pills; they instructed the wife to see that the husband swallowed a pill. As the husband took the pill, he told the wife: “If you want to, divorce me now. I have to take this to keep me calm.” After that episode, the wife said, the husband had been very apologetic: he had bought her a dozen roses the following day and a Cadillac CTS automobile the following week.

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