Jay v. Jay

CourtSupreme Court of North Carolina
DecidedMarch 20, 2026
Docket97A25
StatusPublished
AuthorJustice Allison Riggs

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Jay v. Jay, (N.C. 2026).

Opinion

IN THE SUPREME COURT OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. 97A25

Filed 20 March 2026

YANLI JAY

v. GARY WAYNE JAY

Appeal pursuant to N.C.G.S. § 7A-30(2) (2023) from a divided panel of the

Court of Appeals, 298 N.C. App. 50 (2025), affirming an order entered on 17 August

2023 by Judge James T. Hill in District Court, Durham County. This matter was

calendared for argument in the Supreme Court on 18 September 2025 but determined

on the record and briefs without oral argument pursuant to Rule 30(f) of the North

Carolina Rules of Appellate Procedure.

No brief filed for plaintiff-appellee.

Matthew C. Suczynski for defendant-appellant.

RIGGS, Justice.

It is well-established that trial courts sitting without a jury are required to

make appropriately detailed findings. See Coble v. Coble, 300 N.C. 708, 712 (1980);

N.C.G.S. § 1A-1, Rule 52(a) (2025). Meeting that requirement ensures that trial

courts substantively address litigants’ issues and allows for meaningful appellate

review. Coble, 300 N.C. at 712. In this appeal from a domestic violence protective

order, Gary Wayne Jay (Mr. Jay) challenges the sufficiency of the trial court’s JAY V. JAY

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incorporation-by-reference approach to factfinding. The Court of Appeals held that

there was competent evidence to support the trial court’s findings of fact and order

because the trial court relied on the written statement Yanli Jay (Mrs. Jay) attached

to her initial complaint and because it considered both parties’ testimony at trial. Jay

v. Jay, 298 N.C. App. 50, 55 (2025). Based on the dissent below, Mr. Jay’s appeal to

this Court centers on the form of the findings. The dissenting judge reasoned that

the trial court failed to specifically find the necessary facts under Rule 52 because it

referred to Mrs. Jay’s written statement of allegations as its findings rather than

explicitly documenting the facts itself. Id. at 63 (Carpenter, J., dissenting).

The trial court was able to assess the credibility of Mrs. Jay’s written

statement through hearing the parties’ testimony. Therefore, we hold that the trial

court’s factfinding in this matter complied with Rule 52 and we affirm the Court of

Appeals’ judgment holding that there was competent evidence to support the trial

court’s findings of fact and order.

I. Factual and Procedural Background

Mr. Jay and Mrs. Jay were married on 15 April 2016 and separated around

August 2022. On 7 June 2023, Mrs. Jay filed an unverified complaint and motion for

a domestic violence protective order (DVPO) against Mr. Jay in the District Court,

Durham County. In a written statement accompanying her complaint, Mrs. Jay

alleged various instances of sexual abuse and other allegations against Mr. Jay that

had occurred in the months leading up to the filing of her complaint and motion.

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On the same date Mrs. Jay filed her complaint, the trial court granted Mrs.

Jay an ex parte DVPO effective until 14 June 2023. In the additional findings section

of the ex parte DVPO, the judge handwrote “violent sexual contact. Repeatedly

isolated [Mrs. Jay]. English not her [first] language. [Mr. Jay] has caused physical

injury to [Mrs. Jay].”

After several continuances, the trial court held a hearing on 17 August 2023 to

consider Mrs. Jay’s motion for a one-year DVPO. Mrs. Jay testified that on 28 March

2023, she expressed her unwillingness to engage in sexual intercourse with Mr. Jay.

She testified that Mr. Jay told her to take off her clothes, said he was going to have

sex with her, and that, “at the time, he was very violent.” Mrs. Jay testified that Mr.

Jay caused her serious injury.

Mrs. Jay also testified that on 9 May 2023, Mr. Jay called her to try to have

sex with her and that she refused him. Mrs. Jay stated that Mr. Jay texted her after

she did not answer his call. She testified that she ultimately told him “I can’t” and

that Mr. Jay responded by telling her, “This is my home. I can come back whenever I

can.”1 This prompted Mrs. Jay to contact her attorney and file for a protective order.

Mrs. Jay was also questioned about various allegations that she included in

the written statement submitted with her complaint. Mrs. Jay’s counsel asked Mrs.

Jay to expand on her written allegation that Mr. Jay told her the parties “would

1 Because the record reflects that the parties separated around August 2022, Mr. Jay

and Mrs. Jay were not living together at the time the 9 May 2023 incident occurred.

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become enemies.” Mrs. Jay testified that Mr. Jay told her they “would become

enemies” when she expressed that she wanted to go to court. She further testified

that his words made her feel afraid. Her counsel also asked her to expand on her

allegation that Mr. Jay called her “moron, stupid, idiot.” Mrs. Jay testified that Mr.

Jay rarely used her name and instead always called her an “idiot” and referred to her

with insults including “moron, bullshit, stupid, full of baloney.” Mrs. Jay also

testified that she felt physically and emotionally mistreated by Mr. Jay and provided

examples like having to massage Mr. Jay’s back every night and that Mr. Jay often

spoke to her with disrespect.

Mr. Jay also testified at the hearing. He stated that he had never sexually

assaulted or physically hurt Mrs. Jay. He testified that the “[l]ast two years of the

marriage were essentially nil.” Mr. Jay further testified that he had wanted to

resume their relationship, so he contacted Mrs. Jay in March 2023 and met with her

several times that year.

After hearing from both parties, the trial court found by the greater weight of

the evidence that Mrs. Jay had proven her case and therefore met the standard

required to grant the DVPO. The presiding judge noted on the record that he had a

copy of the written statement Mrs. Jay submitted with her complaint. He said he

“marked up” and “Xed out” the facts alleged in Mrs. Jay’s written statement, and that

he would include the marked-up copy as additional factual findings in the DVPO.

The trial court entered the one-year DVPO, effective until 17 August 2024. In

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the additional findings section of the DVPO, the trial court described Mr. Jay’s

conduct as follows: “Violent sexual contact. [Mr. Jay] has caused physical injury to

[Mrs. Jay]. Exhibit A is attached for further findings of fact by the court.” The judge

handwrote “Exhibit A” across the top of a copy of Mrs. Jay’s written statement, and

consistent with the judge’s statement on the record that he “marked up” and “Xed

out” sections of the statement, several lines and whole paragraphs were struck.

Based on the judge’s signature at the end of the DVPO, it appears that the judge

wrote his initials beside each line and paragraph he struck. The judge entered the

DVPO concluding that, based on the facts, Mr. Jay committed acts of domestic

violence against Mrs. Jay and there was danger of serious and immediate injury to

her. Shortly after the entry of the DVPO, Mr. Jay filed a Rule 60 motion to set the

DVPO aside. The trial court considered the motion on 15 September 2023 and denied

it. Mr. Jay filed a notice of appeal the same day.

On appeal, Mr. Jay argued that there was insufficient evidence to support the

findings of fact made by the trial court. Jay, 298 N.C. App. at 53.

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