JAMES WATKINS VS. AMANDA HOWARD (FM-02-14666-92, BERGEN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided October 21, 2019·No. A-5572-17T2·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-5572-17T2

JAMES WATKINS,

Plaintiff-Appellant/

Cross-Respondent,

v.

AMANDA HOWARD, f/k/a AMANDA WATKINS,

Defendant-Respondent/ Cross-Appellant.

Argued September 25, 2019 – Decided October 21, 2019 Before Judges Koblitz and Mawla.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Bergen County, Docket No. FM-02-14666-92.

Steven Resnick argued the cause for appellant/ crossrespondent (Ziegler, Zemsky & Resnick, attorneys;

Steven Resnick and Ruth Kim, on the briefs).

Paul Joseph Concannon argued the cause for respondent/cross-appellant (Dario Albert Metz &

Eyerman, LLC, attorneys; John E. Finnerty and Paul Joseph Concannon, on the briefs).

PER CURIAM Plaintiff James Watkins appeals from June 27 and 29, 2018 post-judgment orders, which denied his motion to terminate alimony and life insurance based upon cohabitation, for discovery and a plenary hearing. Defendant Amanda Howard cross-appeals from the June 27 order, which denied her request for counsel fees. We affirm on the appeal, but reverse and remand on the cross- appeal.

We take the following facts from the record. The parties married in 1968, and divorced in 1993. Two children were born of the marriage, who are emancipated. The Judgment of Divorce incorporated a property settlement agreement (PSA). Relevant to this appeal, paragraph nineteen of the PSA stated plaintiff would pay defendant $3000 per month in permanent alimony. It also stated the "alimony payments shall continue until the death of [defendant], death of [plaintiff], re-marriage of [defendant,] or the [defendant]'s entry into a relationship tantamount to marriage."

Five months after the judgment of divorce, plaintiff remarried and moved to Cape May County. Defendant remained in Bergen County. The parties'

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daughter lives with her family in Massachusetts, and their son resides with his family in Colorado.

Defendant began a dating relationship with K.C.1 in 1998, which continues to present day. In 2009, plaintiff sought a reduction or termination of alimony based upon his retirement, a financial change in circumstances occasioned by his wife's illness and defendant's increased earnings, and defendant's cohabitation with K.C.

Regarding the cohabitation, plaintiff alleged defendant and K.C. were spending four-to-five nights per week at each other's residence. He alleged they vacationed together and were involved in various aspects of each other's social and family lives. In 2000, K.C. escorted defendant down the aisle at her daughter's wedding and appeared in family photos from the wedding. He also accompanied defendant to the birth of her first grandchild in 2003. In 2006, he attended another grandchild's first birthday. In 2008, he attended Christmas with defendant at her daughter's house. Plaintiff alleged the grandchildren referred to K.C. as "grandpa [K]" and K.C. took on a grandfatherly role.

Defendant admitted the dating relationship with K.C., but denied he was a live-in boyfriend. She certified "[t]he facts are . . . there is a man I date, and

1 We utilize K.C.'s initials to protect his privacy because he is not a party.

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during most weekends we spend one night together either at my apartment or his apartment." She admitted traveling with K.C. to visit each other's families, but denied sharing expenses or financial resources with K.C.

The court denied plaintiff's request to terminate alimony, finding plaintiff did not establish a prima facie case of cohabitation. However, the court reduced plaintiff's alimony to $2250 per month based upon his retirement.

In 2018, plaintiff filed another motion to terminate his alimony and life insurance obligations retroactive to 2014, based on defendant's cohabitation. Defendant cross-moved to deny plaintiff's motion, enforce the life insurance obligation, and sought counsel fees and costs.

Plaintiff's application alleged the same facts as the 2009 motion, with a few updates. Plaintiff attached a two-page certification from each of the parties' children, which repeated plaintiff's narrative that defendant and K.C. were in a dating relationship. The certification from the parties' daughter claimed K.C. drove defendant to Massachusetts to visit her family, and repeated that K.C. participated in her wedding, was present for the birth of her child, and her children referred to him as "[g]randpa."

The new facts alleged in the daughter's certification asserted K.C.

accompanied defendant on vacation to visit defendant's son in Colorado in 2013.

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The certification also alleged K.C. attended her aunt's eightieth birthday with defendant in 2017. The certification further stated: "In the summer of 2017, I came to New Jersey with my husband and my children to visit my family. My children stayed at [K.C.'s] home, with my mother and [K.C.]. My husband and I stayed at my mother's one-bedroom condominium only a few miles away." The son's certification mostly mirrored the daughter's.

Plaintiff's certification alleged K.C. moved to within approximately three-

quarters of a mile from defendant's home in 2016. He alleged K.C. and defendant had access to each other's residences, but offered nothing to prove his claim. Plaintiff's certification attached a photograph posted by a grandchild taken during a 2014 trip to Colorado to visit the parties' son, referring to K.C. and defendant as his "grandparents." Plaintiff claimed the parties' fifteen-year- old granddaughter effectively sees K.C. as defendant's husband.

Moreover, plaintiff alleged, "[d]efendant does not drive. [K.C.] is solely responsible for transporting [defendant] anywhere she needs to go." He argued "defendant is dependent upon [K.C.]," and "[b]y being solely responsible for her transportation, he is effectively responsible for all of her . . . expenses" associated with transportation. He alleged defendant and K.C. "share in the costs for travel and meals during [their] trips."

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Defendant denied these assertions noting neither plaintiff nor their children lived close enough to witness her driving habits. She certified she "drive[s] all the time, but do[es] not like to drive on highways, and therefore, usually use[s] car services." Additionally, she stated when she and K.C. are on a trip together, involving highway driving, he drove. Defendant certified she often travels alone and in those instances, travels by air or train.

Defendant certified she is not dependent on K.C. for transportation. She noted her vehicle is titled, registered, and insured in her name. She drives it roughly five-to-six days a week, including shopping in town, running errands, traveling to the gym, and visiting dentists and doctors — all of whom are located near her residence. Defendant offered certifications from two close friends who witnessed her driving routine.

Defendant denied she and K.C. shared any living expenses. She certified when they do go out for meals together, they "try to share the costs fairly." She attached her apartment lease, renter's insurance policy, utility and cable bills, rent payment checks, auto insurance declaration page, auto repair receipts, and bank statements demonstrating she paid the expenses herself.

The motion judge denied the relief requested by plaintiff and defendant.

He found "[i]t is un-controverted [defendant] and [K.C.] maintain separate

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abodes. . . . It is un-controverted [they] do not comingle their finances. And that one does not pay the debts of the other." The judge found no other objective indicia defendant and K.C. enjoyed a relationship tantamount to a marriage.

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