In the Matter of the Paternity of B.K. and L.K., Kathryn D. McCallaham v. Joy X. Khotxay (mem. dec.)

CourtIndiana Court of Appeals
DecidedMay 28, 2015
Docket49A04-1407-JP-345
StatusPublished

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MEMORANDUM DECISION Pursuant to Ind. Appellate Rule 65(D), this May 28 2015, 6:36 am Memorandum Decision shall not be regarded as precedent or cited before any court except for the purpose of establishing the defense of res judicata, collateral estoppel, or the law of the case.

ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT ATTORNEY FOR APPELLEE Rae Feller Sean C. Lemieux Indianapolis, Indiana Lemieux Law Indianapolis, Indiana

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

In the Matter of the Paternity of May 28, 2015 B.K. and L.K., Court of Appeals Case No. 49A04-1407-JP-345 Kathryn D. McCallaham, Appeal from the Appellant-Petitioner, Marion Circuit Court The Honorable Louis Rosenberg, v. Judge The Honorable Sheryl Lynch, Joy X. Khotxay, Commissioner Cause No. 49C01-0910-JP-47650 Appellee-Respondent.

Kirsch, Judge.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 49A04-1407-JP-345 | May 28, 2015 Page 1 of 12 [1] Kathryn D. McCallaham (“Mother”)1 appeals the trial court’s order modifying

custody to grant sole physical custody to Joy X. Khotxay (“Father”) and

ordering the parents to share joint legal custody. Mother raises one issue for

our review, which is whether the trial court abused its discretion when it

modified custody.

[2] We affirm.

Facts and Procedural History [3] Mother and Father, who were never married, are the parents of two children,

B.K., born October 26, 2001, and L.K., born October 3, 2003. The parents

were in a relationship and lived together until 2006 when Mother moved out of

the residence. At that time, Mother requested that Father have physical

custody of the children so she could get back on her feet. Thereafter, Father

had physical custody of the children until 2009. Paternity of the children was

formally established by the trial court in December 2009, and the parties agreed

that Mother would have physical and legal custody of the children, while

Father would have parenting time.

[4] Subsequent to the agreed order, Father exercised parenting time with the

children from Friday to Monday every week. In 2010, Mother changed

Father’s parenting time to Saturday to Tuesday every week. In 2012, when

1 We note that Mother’s name appears as both “Kathryn D. McCallaham” and “Kathryn D. McCallahan” in various places in the record. Per a motion filed with this court and an order issued by this court, the correct spelling is “McCallaham,” and we shall use that spelling in referring to Mother.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 49A04-1407-JP-345 | May 28, 2015 Page 2 of 12 Father moved in with his current wife, Mother again changed his parenting

time to alternate between Friday and Saturday one week and Sunday and

Monday the next week. Father married his current wife in 2012, and they have

a baby together; his wife also has a son from a prior marriage, whose parenting

time she arranges so that all four children can be together.

[5] In August 2012, Mother filed her petition to modify child support. A month

later, in September, Father filed his petition to modify custody, child support,

and parenting time and a motion for rule to show cause. Hearings on these

cross-motions were held on November 13, 2013, March 11, 2014, and March

12, 2014.

[6] At the hearings, evidence was presented that the children’s educational needs

had changed, and Father believed he should be awarded primary physical

custody because he could provide a consistent schedule. B.K. is generally a

good student, but struggled with reading and comprehension. L.K., however,

particularly struggles with academics. In the second grade, L.K. had been a B-

C student, but began failing his classes in the third grade. Father testified that

when he tried to speak with Mother about work that needed to be done to help

L.K., she would not respond to Father. Tr. at 74. L.K.’s third grade teacher,

Ms. Steiner, notified the parents that L.K. was habitually failing to turn in his

homework, and Father worked with her to make sure the homework was

getting completed. During Father’s parenting time, Father would initial L.K.’s

homework when it was completed, initial the reading log, and sought other

interventions to assist L.K. Mother did not initial L.K.’s homework and did

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 49A04-1407-JP-345 | May 28, 2015 Page 3 of 12 not follow up with Ms. Steiner. Mother said that her live-in boyfriend checked

L.K.’s homework when he was with Mother, and on the weekends, she did not

regularly check L.K.’s backpack for homework due on Monday; instead Mother

thought the teachers would contact her if there was homework assigned over

the weekend. Id. at 472.

[7] During the third grade, which was the 2012-2013 school year, L.K. would

receive a homework packet on Mondays to be completed and turned in each

Friday. When Father had parenting time on Wednesdays evenings, he would

check L.K.’s backpack and find the packets had not yet been started. When he

asked Mother about the packets, she would respond that she did not know

about them and did not check L.K.’s backpack. She also testified that she had

never seen the reading log that L.K. was required to keep and the parents were

required to sign. Id. at 363. During Christmas break of 2012, L.K. received a

packet of schoolwork to complete over the break, but Mother did not “make

him do an entire ten page packet” because it was a break. Id. at 473. She

stated, instead, he read and did “other things,” but did not “make him sit in

front of a piece of paper” on his break. Id. When questioned as to why she did

not make it a priority to have L.K. complete the packet, especially in light of

L.K.’s struggles in school, Mother testified, “There is no answer for that. I

don’t know how to answer that.” Id. at 473-74.

[8] Mother did not do extra work with L.K. to help him improve his grades, and

when asked why, she did not have an answer. Father purchased additional

educational materials, including reading and writing workbooks, to assist the

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 49A04-1407-JP-345 | May 28, 2015 Page 4 of 12 children with their schoolwork. L.K. also attended tutoring sessions at Sylvan

Learning Center. Mother cancelled seven of the appointments, which were

later made up, but Father was worried about the cancellations because of the

lack of consistency it created.

[9] Although B.K. does not have academic struggles to the same extent as L.K.,

B.K. does struggle with reading and comprehension. Mother did not have B.K.

do any additional reading to help him improve, and she testified that she did

not know why she did not do so. Id. at 364-65. Father helps B.K. with his

homework when he helps L.K., and also has B.K. read thirty minutes a day and

write a summary of the reading.

[10] In 2012, L.K.’s teacher voiced her concern to Mother and Father that L.K. may

have ADHD. Father wished to have L.K. see a doctor for a diagnosis and

treatment and, for approximately two years, requested that Mother take L.K. to

the doctor as she had sole legal custody of the children. However, Mother

refused to do so because she did not want him to be labeled for life and because

she was worried the medication would turn L.K. into a zombie. Instead,

Mother self-prescribed Vitamin E and added fish and protein to his diet. When

L.K. was taken to the doctor in early 2014 and after the first hearing date in

November 2013, L.K.

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