In the Matter of the Parentage of: I.D.O.

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedJanuary 23, 2024
Docket39222-8
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

FILED JANUARY 23, 2024 In the Office of the Clerk of Court WA State Court of Appeals, Division III

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION THREE

In re Parentage of: ) No. 39222-8-III ) I.D.O.† ) ) Minor child, ) ) SHAWN M. JETT, ) ) Appellant, ) UNPUBLISHED OPINION ) v. ) ) JASMINE R. CAREY, ) ) Respondent. )

LAWRENCE-BERREY, A.C.J. — Shawn Jett appeals four contempt orders, premised

on his violations of a parenting plan. He challenges the sufficiency of the evidence and

the trial court’s failure to include a purge provision in each order. We affirm and award

Jasmine Carey her reasonable attorney fees and costs on appeal.

† To protect the privacy interests of the minor child and because the minor child prefers to use the name “J[ ], we shall use that initial throughout this opinion. Gen. Order for Court of Appeals, In re Changes to Case Title (Wash. Ct. App. Aug. 22, 2018) (effective September 1, 2018), http://www.courts.wa.gov/appellate_trial_courts. No. 39222-8-III In re Parentage of I.D.H.O.

FACTS1

First contempt order

Shawn Jett (Father) and Jasmine Carey (Mother) are the parents of J., a young

teenager. The parties’ parenting plan orders joint decision-making for all nonemergency

healthcare decisions. In June 2020, the parties mediated issues related to the parenting

plan. While they discussed counseling for J., Father’s only stated basis for counseling

was he thought J. had ADHD.2 Mother and Father agreed to counseling with a specified

provider and Mother made J. an appointment. Father cancelled that appointment. The

parties did not discuss counseling again. Unbeknownst to Mother, Father unilaterally

changed J.’s primary care provider in December 2020.

In February 2021, the parties again mediated parenting issues. Father did not tell

Mother he thought J. needed counseling, nor did he disclose that he had changed J.’s

primary care provider or that the new provider recommended counseling.

In March 2021, J. started seeing a mental health counselor. Father did not share

this information with Mother.

1 The parties agree that the challenged findings of fact must be sustained if they are supported by substantial evidence. Given that the trial court found Mother’s evidence credible, we take the statement of facts from her declarations. 2 Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.

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On August 8, 2022, Mother brought her first motion against Father for contempt.

The trial court found Father in contempt, ruling that he violated the parenting plan by

“failing to notify/inform/involve the mother in the child’s mental health counseling and

medical decision making.” Clerk’s Papers (CP) at 58. It additionally found that Father

was capable of following the parenting plan and that his failure to do so was intentional,

where Father “secreted the knowledge that the child was in counseling . . . from the

mother.” CP at 58. This concealment was intentional notwithstanding the parties’ earlier

discussions about the possibility of J. entering counseling. Being intentional, the court

deemed the concealment in bad faith. The court found that Father was able but unwilling

to follow the parenting plan, as he “continue[d] to fail to notify the mother of counseling

appointments and [was] not involving her in the process.” CP at 59. Pursuant to its

contempt finding, the court ordered Father to pay a $100 civil penalty into the court’s

registry and awarded Mother $835 in attorney fees and costs.

Second contempt order

After abiding by the parenting plan’s visitation schedule for several years, Father

filed for a domestic violence protection order against Mother. Although the court denied

Father’s request, J. began refusing to attend visits with Mother.

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Mother was scheduled to pick up J. on August 4, 2022, at 5:00 p.m. at an Ace

Hardware parking lot. Mother arrived early, between 4:00 and 4:30 p.m. When J. told

her that he needed to use the restroom inside the store, Mother agreed. When Mother

began to follow J. into the store, Father’s brother stopped her to serve her with court

papers. It was then that Mother saw J. run to an adjacent parking lot where he got into a

car with an 18-year-old female, Aurora. Father watched the two drive off and then left.

Mother had previously expressed concern about J. spending time with Aurora.

Acting on that concern, Mother called the police, who told her to wait in the parking lot.

She then texted Father, asking for J.’s and Aurora’s cell phone numbers. Father did not

respond. When Mother texted again to ask Father if he knew where J. had gone, he said

he did not know. When Mother again asked for the cell phone numbers, Father again did

not respond. Mother again texted Father, stating that if he did not know where Aurora

had taken J., then this was a kidnapping and they should pursue charges. Father texted a

screen shot of the message back to Mother, apparently thinking he was sending it to J.

Father claimed he was out looking for J. but when Mother drove by his home, his van and

truck were parked in the driveway.

At 8:46 that evening, Father texted Mother that J. had returned home and he would

take J. to his counselor the next day. Father asked Mother if she would be willing to

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come to the appointment, and Mother responded that she would take J. since it was her

residential time, and she still wanted J. to be with her. She offered to meet with them

both to assure J. he was not in trouble and to express both parents’ mutual support. She

asked that Aurora not be at the drop-off and asked for the counselor’s telephone number.

Father did not respond.

Mother texted Father the following morning to ask when and where she should

pick up J. for his counseling appointment. Father never responded. Mother missed her

entire long-weekend visit.

The parties did not communicate until Mother’s next regular long-weekend visit,

beginning August 11, 2022. Two-and-one-half hours before the scheduled exchange,

Father texted Mother, claiming J. was sick, but negative for COVID. Mother told Father

she would be at the Ace Hardware at 5:00 p.m.

When Father arrived with J., J. sat on a cart rack in the parking lot, insisting he did

not have to visit Mother because he was sick. J. told Mother he was not going with her

because “he was told that he did not need to [go],” and because Father “told him that

there was nothing the police would do to make him [go].” CP at 29. J. “insisted his dad

told him that he should not have to come over because he was sick.” CP at 29.

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Mother and Father then began discussing J.’s counseling and medications, but

Father claimed he did not know the name of the counselor or what medications J. took.

After Mother reassured J. that both parents loved and supported him, even suggesting a

joint weekly dinner, J. again refused to comply with visitation and said because he was

14, “he [got] to make all of the decisions for himself and . . . [could] do whatever he

want[ed].” CP at 30. Father did not refute J.’s statement.

After talking to Serenity, Mother’s daughter, J. agreed to come over. Yet after

briefly being alone with Father, J. changed his mind, again insisting he would not go with

Mother. Father never encouraged J.

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