In the Matter of the Marriage of: Yemisi F. Awotoye & Fiyinfolu Cyril Awotoye

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided August 20, 2026·No. 40041-7·Unpublished

Opinion

FILED

AUGUST 20, 2026

In the Office of the Clerk of Court WA State Court of Appeals, Division III

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION THREE

In the Matter of the Marriage of: ) No. 40041-7-III )

YEMISI F. AWOTOYE, )

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Respondent, )

) UNPUBLISHED OPINION and )

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FIYINFOLU CYRIL AWOTOYE, )

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Appellant. )

MURPHY, J. — Fiyinfolu Cyril Awotoye appeals from various trial court orders in this marriage dissolution proceeding. Because the decisions are supported by substantial evidence and fall within the trial court’s broad discretion, we affirm.

FACTS

Fiyinfolu Cyril Awotoye and Yemisi F. Awotoye 1 married in Nigeria in 2008.

Over many years, they lived at times together and other times separately in Nigeria, the United Kingdom and Baltimore, Maryland, before ultimately settling together in Baltimore. The parties share two minor children: T.D.A. and O.A.A.

On September 30, 2019, Yemisi moved alone to Spokane, Washington, for a new job. She visited the children in Baltimore in October 2019, and from mid-November 2019

We hereinafter refer to the parties by their first names as they share a common 1

surname. We intend no disrespect by doing so.

In re Marriage of Awotoye to January 2020. On January 8, 2020, she returned to Spokane with both children. Fiyinfolu remained in Baltimore.

On May 21, 2021, Yemisi petitioned for legal separation in Spokane County Superior Court. The trial court entered a temporary parenting plan and child support order placing the children primarily with Yemisi. Fiyinfolu did not pursue any separate action in Maryland, and appeared through counsel in the Spokane County action on June 15, 2021.

The children’s relationship with Fiyinfolu deteriorated. He moved for the appointment of a guardian ad litem, and the trial court appointed Lindsey Paxton. The court directed Paxton to investigate: (1) why the children were reluctant to communicate with or visit Fiyinfolu, (2) potential interference with parenting, including coercive conduct, by either parent, (3) safety concerns, and (4) any other issues relevant to the children’s relationship with their parents.

Paxton’s 23-page report, based on interviews with the parties, children, and collateral individuals, concluded that the children had “a ruptured relationship” with Fiyinfolu and did not want to talk to or visit with him. Clerk’s Papers (CP) at 275. The rupture began before Yemisi petitioned for a legal separation, after Fiyinfolu refused to sign documents permitting Yemisi to buy a house in Spokane and worsened after he tried to prevent a second home purchase around April 2021. Fiyinfolu’s refusal to sign the

In re Marriage of Awotoye children’s passport applications or agree to summer camp plans were also “serious points of contention for the children.” CP at 275-76. Paxton reported that the children “do not seem to trust [their father] or believe that he has their best interests at heart.” CP at 276.

Paxton noted Yemisi had likely always been the children’s primary attachment figure. She also determined both parents contributed to the children knowing too much about adult conflicts, and that Yemisi could do more to encourage the children to contact their father, but neither parent was found to be actively interfering with parental relationships. Paxton recommended family therapy for Fiyinfolu and the children, individual counseling, and that Fiyinfolu have short, in-person visits with the children.

Trial commenced on the legal separation petition in March 2023. Each party submitted a proposed parenting plan. They also submitted a joint asset and liability list. They did not agree on the date of separation. Yemisi proposed a separation date of September 30, 2019, the date she moved to Spokane. Fiyinfolu proposed a separation date of May 21, 2021, the date Yemisi filed her petition. The separation date was important as it impacted the proposed asset and liability distributions.

Relevant on appeal, Fiyinfolu had two retirement accounts: a 401(k) plan through Achieving the Dream, and a LifeNet profit sharing plan. In the trial management joint report, both parties valued Fiyinfolu’s 401(k) plan at $12,367. Yemisi provided a statement showing Fiyinfolu’s 401(k) plan had a zero balance as of September 30, 2020,

In re Marriage of Awotoye because Fiyinfolu had withdrawn all funds from the account. Yemisi valued Fiyinfolu’s profit sharing plan at $27,013. Fiyinfolu asserted it had no value. Yemisi provided statements showing Fiyinfolu’s profit sharing plan balance as of December 31, 2022, was $23,876, with a vested balance of $4,775. Also by way of assets, Yemisi had a separate Wells Fargo bank account that both parties valued at $644.57.

In its April 14, 2023, oral ruling, the trial court set the separation date as March 5, 2021, and confirmed Washington as the children’s home state. The court found Fiyinfolu’s strained relationship with the children was due, in part, to his “authoritative parenting style” and his actions regarding Yemisi’s attempted home purchases, the children’s camp attendance, their passport applications, and phone use. CP at 7. The court noted Yemisi acted inappropriately by sharing her frustrations about Fiyinfolu with the children and calling law enforcement to conduct an unnecessary welfare check on T.D.A. while the child was in Baltimore. The trial court determined the parenting plan should be based in Spokane given Yemisi’s role as primary caregiver. The court defined Fiyinfolu’s parental visitation and communication provisions, granting Fiyinfolu monthly visitation in Spokane, with the children visiting him in Baltimore for select holidays and part of the summer school break. Fiyinfolu was required to provide 30 days’ notice for his Spokane visits. The court ordered family counseling (with Fiyinfolu choosing the counselor) and

In re Marriage of Awotoye individual counseling. The court also ordered that the children continue to attend private school.

Regarding property, the trial court valued the community portion of Fiyinfolu’s LifeNet profit sharing plan at $9,679, and his separate portion at $14,196 (with a total value of $23,875). The court treated his 401(k) account as community property worth $12,367 (noting he had withdrawn the funds). Yemisi was awarded her Wells Fargo account. The court ordered Fiyinfolu to pay Yemisi $30,000 as an equalization payment, such that Fiyinfolu would receive net assets of $83,874 and Yemisi would receive $54,110 after the equalization payment.

On June 12, 2023, the trial court entered written findings, conclusions, and orders consistent with its April 14, 2023, oral ruling. 2 Both parties moved for reconsideration. On October 3, 2023, the court issued orders on reconsideration, adding terms for the equalization payment (90 days, with judgment at 12 percent interest) and declined to revisit asset valuations. It also entered the final amended parenting plan.

Fiyinfolu filed a notice of appeal in the trial court on November 1, 2023, and indicated in the notice that he was appealing from the following: (1) the trial court’s

2 The trial court’s April 14 oral ruling was incorporated by reference in its (1) findings and conclusions about a marriage, CP at 42, and (2) final legal separation order, CP at 47. The trial court also entered a child support order, that no party has appealed from.

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