In the Matter of the Marriage of: Sarah Hannah & Jon-Luke Mcadams

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided August 1, 2023·No. 39423-9·Published

Opinion

FILED

SEPTEMBER 21, 2023

In the Office of the Clerk of Court WA State Court of Appeals, Division III

COURT OF APPEALS, DIVISION III, STATE OF WASHINGTON

In re the Marriage of: ) No. 39423-9-III )

SARAH HANNAH, )

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Respondent, ) ORDER GRANTING ) MOTION TO PUBLISH and )

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JON-LUKE McADAMS, )

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Appellant. )

THE COURT has considered nonparties Family Violence Appellate Project, National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence, Project DVORA / Jewish Family Service, Tacomaprobono Community Lawyers, and the Domestic Violence Legal Empowerment and Appeals Project’s motion to publish the court’s opinion filed on August 1, 2023, and the response thereto, and is of the opinion the motion to publish should be granted. Therefore, IT IS ORDERED the motion to publish is granted. The opinion filed by the court on August 1, 2023, shall be modified on page 1 to designate it is a published opinion and on page 19 by deletion of the following language:

A majority of the panel has determined this opinion will not be printed in the Washington Appellate Reports, but it will be filed for public record pursuant to RCW 2.06.040.

PANEL: Judges Lawrence-Berrey, Pennell, and Staab FOR THE COURT:

GEORGE FEARING

CHIEF JUDGE

FILED

AUGUST 1, 2023

In the Office of the Clerk of Court WA State Court of Appeals, Division III

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION THREE

In re the Marriage of: ) No. 39423-9-III )

SARAH HANNAH, )

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Respondent, )

) UNPUBLISHED OPINION and )

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JON-LUKE McADAMS, )

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Appellant. )

LAWRENCE-BERREY, A.C.J. — Jon-Luke McAdams appeals after the trial court determined that adequate cause did not exist for him to seek modification of his parenting plan to grant him mutual decision-making authority over his children. He argues the trial court erred in its determination and by sanctioning him by requiring him to pay Sarah Hannah1 her reasonable attorney fees. We disagree and affirm. We additionally conclude that this appeal is frivolous and award Ms. Hannah her reasonable attorney fees on appeal.

Ms. Hannah identifies as nonbinary, but uses the honorific “Ms.” and she/her 1

pronouns in her briefing.

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FACTS

The parties share two children. Under the temporary parenting plan in place during their divorce proceedings, Mr. McAdams had limited visits with the children, which increased in time as he engaged in and complied with treatment for alcohol use disorder and domestic violence.

Permanent parenting plan In the permanent parenting plan, the superior court found that Mr. McAdams had a history of domestic violence and a long-term problem with substance abuse. The parties agreed there would be no limitations on either parent, and the court granted sole decision- making to Ms. Hannah. The court’s reasons for doing so were twofold: first, the court was required to limit decision-making because of the domestic violence finding, and, second, Ms. Hannah did not want to share decision-making, which was reasonable because of Mr. McAdams’s substance abuse problems and their inability to cooperate with each other in decision-making. The parenting plan provided that the children would live with Mr. McAdams approximately 5 out of every 14 days.

The court listed a number of provisions in section 14 of the parenting plan so the parties could safely and effectively communicate, given Mr. McAdams’s history of domestic violence and alcohol abuse:

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• Using an app to communicate;

• Prohibiting Mr. McAdams from using nonprescribed drugs or alcohol;

• Prohibiting the parties from making derogatory remarks about the other within the hearing range of the children;

• Prohibiting the parties from using the children to gather information about the other;

• Prohibiting the parties from discussing the litigation or adult issues with the children;

• Requiring Mr. McAdams to obtain a urinalysis if Ms. Hannah reasonably believes he is under the influence of alcohol;

• Requiring Mr. McAdams to engage in family counseling with the children, with both parents having access to the children’s records from the counselor;

• Prohibiting the parties from having face-to-face contact, and requiring Mr. McAdams to stay an appropriate distance from Ms.

Hannah; and

• Enabling Ms. Hannah to return to court and request a restraining order, and providing that any violation of section 14 of the parenting plan would be prima facie evidence for the basis of a restraining order.

Clerk’s Papers (CP) at 7.

Petition for modification On August 17, 2022, Mr. McAdams petitioned to modify the parties’ parenting plan. He did not request a major or minor modification; rather, he requested “other changes” under RCW 26.09.260(10), specifically changes to decision-making because of a claimed substantial change in one parent or child’s situation. CP at 12. Mr. McAdams explained:

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I have addressed the [domestic violence] and substance abuse issues that led to my limited decision-making. Sarah is making sweeping unilateral decisions that are so important regarding my daughter[’s] gender identity that I ask to be involved as a parent, and to assure [sic] the best interests of my daughter are met. These substantial changes in circumstances merit my full involvement in decision-making.

CP at 12.

Although Mr. McAdams filed a petition to modify the parenting plan, he did not move for a finding of adequate cause. Ms. Hannah instead did so, asking the court to deny the petition, and was thus considered the moving party below. Ms. Hannah argued there had not been any substantial change in circumstances. She noted in regard to a restraining order request, “I believe the respondent’s litigation is frivolous and intended to harass me. It may be necessary for the court to add protections for me to protect me from abusive use of litigation.” CP at 19. She further stated in a declaration that Mr. McAdams “continues to try to manipulate me, use the children as a weapon, engage in unnecessary conflict, and continues his attempts to control and cause me harm.” CP at 23. Ms. Hannah recounted a number of instances where Mr. McAdams delayed signing necessary forms or taking actions to separate their assets as required by the decree of dissolution. In one instance, Mr. McAdams had their minor children sign a form as witnesses, requiring resubmission of the form and needlessly involving the children in litigation.

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Ms. Hannah explained that she and her partner were nonbinary and her children had become curious about gender identity. Ms. Hannah had researched how to explain gender identity in a neutral manner and found a book written for children. The book answered the children’s questions, and they asked to take the book home to read with Mr. McAdams. Mr. McAdams refused to read the book and accused Ms. Hannah of attempting to influence the children to be nonbinary. Their older daughter, then seven years old, appeared naturally curious about gender as it applied to her, and Ms. Hannah proposed counseling so their daughter could talk to someone neutral about her feelings.

Ms. Hannah stated she could not foresee a time where she would be able to interact with Mr. McAdams in person or make decisions with him because of “the domestic violence in our marriage and his continued harassment and attempts to manipulate me since the final orders were entered . . . . It would not be in the best interest of our daughters to force me to interact with my abuser and the statute protects me from having to do so.” CP at 26.

Mr. McAdams responded that there had been a substantial change of circumstances because he had completed his domestic violence and substance abuse requirements and had no problems since. Additionally, their daughter was going through a substantial change in circumstances “regarding her gender issues.” CP at 42. He

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