In the Matter of the Marriage of: Devin Christopher Kienow & Teresa A. Dittentholer Kienow

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedMarch 11, 2025
Docket39451-4
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

FILED MARCH 11, 2025 In the Office of the Clerk of Court WA State Court of Appeals, Division III

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

DIVISION THREE

In the Matter of the Marriage of ) ) No. 39451-4-III DEVIN CHRISTOPHER KIENOW, ) ) Appellant ) ) and ) UNPUBLISHED OPINION TERESA A. DITTENTHOLER KIENOW, ) ) Respondent. )

STAAB, J. — This case concerns a post-dissolution dispute between Devin Kienow

and Teresa Dittentholer1 involving two primary issues: Kienow’s alleged failure to pay

his court-ordered share of their children’s private school educational expenses and his

retention of Dittentholer’s phone, which he believes contains evidence relevant to the

children’s custody.

The trial court found Kienow in contempt for failing to pay the educational

expenses and ordered him to return the phone. Kienow appeals this order, and the order

denying revision, raising four main arguments: (1) the trial court lacked jurisdiction or

1 The final dissolution order changed the respondent’s name from Teresa Dittentholer Kienow to Teresa A. Dittentholer. No. 39451-4-III In re Marriage of Kienow

authority to hear the contempt motion, (2) the court erred by failing to preserve potential

criminal evidence on Dittentholer’s phone, (3) Dittentholer abused the ex parte process,

and (4) Dittentholer should be sanctioned for bad faith litigation.

Dittentholer argues that the trial court properly exercised its jurisdiction,

reasonably found Kienow in contempt, and correctly denied his motion to view the

contents of the phone. Dittentholer also opposes Kienow’s request for sanctions,

contending his appeal is frivolous and requesting attorney fees incurred in responding.

We affirm and grant Dittentholer’s request for reasonable attorney fees.

BACKGROUND

Devin Kienow and Teresa Dittentholer were married and have two children. Their

dissolution was finalized on June 15, 2021.

As part of the dissolution, Kienow and Dittentholer were ordered to pay a

proportionate share of the children’s educational expenses. Kienow has not made any

payments toward this expense since March 2021, which were applied to the 2020-21

school year.

In May 2022, Dittentholer allowed her son to use her cell phone, which he

accidentally brought to Kienow’s home without her permission. While searching his

son’s backpack, Kienow found the phone and confiscated it.

When Dittentholer requested the phone’s return, Kienow refused. Instead,

Kienow, who was still represented by an attorney at the time, emailed a “Letter to

2 No. 39451-4-III In re Marriage of Kienow

Preserve Evidence” to Dittentholer’s attorney, claiming the phone contained evidence

that needed to be preserved. Clerk’s Papers (CP) at 186-89. After an exchange of

emails, Kienow emailed Dittentholer’s attorney directly and indicated that he was now

representing himself and could be reached at a certain email address.

On August 17, Dittentholer filed a motion for contempt, seeking enforcement of

Kienow’s obligation to pay his share of the children’s educational expenses and the

return of her phone and the children’s passports. She obtained an order to show cause,

setting a hearing for September 7, 2022.2

Dittentholer served Kienow using several methods. Someone from Dittentholer’s

attorney’s office attempted to serve Kienow with the motion and order sometime before

August 23, leaving copies at his front door. Copies were also mailed to Kienow on

August 31. Dittentholer also hired a process server to personally serve Kienow with the

contempt hearing documents. The process server first tried, unsuccessfully, to serve

Kienow at his home on August 27, noting that it appeared “abandoned.” The process

server commented that there were security cameras by the front door and facing the

driveway, and the court documents were still lying on the doorstep. The process server

spoke to a neighbor the next day, who confirmed that Kienow still lived at the residence.

2 A copy of this order is not included in the record.

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On August 30, the process server pulled into the children’s school parking lot

behind Kienow, but Kienow drove away quickly in what the process server characterized

as an attempt to avoid being served. The process server walked to the other school

parking lot where Kienow had parked and personally served him with the order to show

cause, the motion for contempt, and Dittentholer’s declaration.

On September 1, Kienow filed a pro se objection to the show cause hearing with

the court. He acknowledged being personally served, denied trying to evade service, and

moved the court to strike the hearing because he was not served at least 14 days before

the hearing.

In response to Kienow’s objection to the timing of the show cause hearing,

Dittentholer obtained an amended order to show cause, moving the hearing to September

15. Dittentholer mailed the amended show cause order to Kienow on September 1, using

the address provided by Kienow.

On September 12, Kienow filed another pro se objection, asking the court to strike

the September 15 hearing, arguing that the court lacked personal jurisdiction because he

was not personally served with the amended order to show cause. Alternatively, he

argued that he still had not received 14-days notice of the new hearing date.

On September 15, Dittentholer sought and obtained an ex parte order allowing her

to serve future documents on Kienow by email, claiming service by email would be as

effective as service by mail and also alleging that Kienow had been evading service. The

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court found that Kienow was evading service, authorized email service, and renoted the

show cause hearing for September 30. The court also ordered Kienow to immediately

return the phone and Dittentholer’s passport. Dittentholer also requested that the court

impose attorney fees against Kienow for his intransigence.

That same day, Kienow filed an objection to the order authorizing service by

email. He continued to argue that the new order to show cause must be personally served

and asked for sanctions, alleging Dittentholer’s motion to serve by email was made in

bad faith.

Kienow also filed two motions. The first was a “Motion To Vacate” the order

authorizing email service, arguing that Dittentholer should be sanctioned for abusing the

court process by obtaining the order to show cause in ex parte without there being an

emergent need for it. The second was a “Motion for Order of Protection of Evidence,”

requesting the court order Dittentholer to protect the phone’s data from being destroyed

and allow Kienow to view the phone’s contents. In a sealed declaration, he alleged that

the phone contained inappropriate content.

On September 21, Dittentholer filed a second contempt motion, asserting that

Kienow had failed to immediately return her phone and passports as directed by the

court’s September 15 order. Dittentholer also responded to Kienow’s motions.

On September 27, Kienow filed a response to the motion for contempt, arguing

that the court did not have authority to authorize email service and that the court lacked

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personal jurisdiction over him because he had not been personally served. He

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