FILED AUGUST 29, 2019 In the Office of the Clerk of Court WA State Court of Appeals, Division III
IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION THREE
In re the Matter of the Interest of ) ) No. 36656-1-III J.L.M. ) ) UNPUBLISHED OPINION ) )
FEARING, J. — Shelly Matthews appeals from the superior court’s termination of
her parental rights in an action for adoption of her son filed by her son’s stepmother. We
affirm.
FACTS
Because of the nature of this appeal, we employ pseudonyms for all persons,
except professional witnesses. We glean our facts from trial testimony.
Shelly Matthews and Richard Mendenhall engaged in a short romantic
relationship, during which Matthews became pregnant with their child. Mendenhall
knew of the pregnancy and wished to parent the child. On April 3, 2008, Matthews gave
birth to a baby boy, Jerry Mendenhall, the subject of this adoption proceeding.
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Richard Mendenhall. Matthews feared that Mendenhall would flee from the hospital
with Jerry if not restrained from contact with him. Mendenhall learned of his son’s birth
thereafter.
In July 2008, Richard Mendenhall filed a parentage action. In October 2009,
Mendenhall saw Jerry for the first time. Mendenhall and Shelly Matthews entered into a
temporary parenting plan a month later.
In 2009, Shelly Matthews sustained an IT band injury, an injury resulting from the
overuse of the iliotibial connective tissue on the lateral or outer part of the thigh and
knee. Her physician prescribed oxycodone as she awaited surgery. According to
Matthews, surgery was denied, but she does not identify who denied the surgery. The
physician ceased prescribing oxycodone and referred Matthews to a pain clinic to combat
withdrawal from the medication. Clinic assistance did not succeed, and Matthews
contracted a physical addiction to pain medication.
In early 2011, Richard Mendenhall begin living with his girlfriend, Karen.
Karen’s two young children joined the household.
On September 30, 2011, the Clark County Superior Court entered a final parenting
plan in the parentage action initiated by Richard Mendenhall. In the meantime, the court
gradually increased visitation between Mendenhall and Jerry. The final parenting plan
ordered fifty/fifty custody of Jerry between Mendenhall and Shelly Matthews. The court
entered findings that expressed concern with Matthews’ association with her boyfriend,
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Aaron Eaton. The court found Mendenhall’s living environment more stable, but still
ruled that Jerry should spend equal time with his mother.
Shelly Matthews’ use of pain medication increased such that Richard Mendenhall
noticed changes in Matthews’ behavior during the weekly exchange of Jerry. Matthews
often changed residences. Exchange locations became irregular. Matthews’ boyfriend,
rather than Matthews, appeared for exchanges of the boy. At the exchange, Jerry often
wore moldy clothes soaked in urine. Jerry commented to his father about his mother’s
dirty living environment.
In 2011, Shelly Matthews became pregnant with a second child. She ceased pain
medications during the pregnancy. Nevertheless, after delivering her second son,
Matthews’ addiction wrested control of her life. By early 2012, Matthews used
methamphetamine and heroin. To support her habit, Matthews sold unlawful drugs.
Richard Mendenhall observed further changes in Matthews’ demeanor and behavior.
Matthews appeared lethargic and uninterested in Jerry’s welfare.
Robert Mendenhall and Karen married in 2012 and bore a son together soon after.
Jerry developed close relationships with his two stepsisters, Karen, and his baby brother.
Jerry became a well-integrated member of the blended household. He calls Karen
“Mom.”
Shelly Matthews entered jail, in the summer of 2012, for possession of controlled
substances with intent to distribute. On July 11, 2012, Richard Mendenhall petitioned
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for, and received, a temporary parentage order. The order granted Mendenhall full
residential placement of Jerry and restrained Matthews from coming within three hundred
feet of the home, work place, or school of Mendenhall or Jerry. The order also restrained
and enjoined Matthews from “disturbing the peace” of Mendenhall and Jerry. Ex. 23.
The order denied contact between Jerry and Aaron Eaton. The temporary order granted
Matthews supervised visits with Jerry every Wednesday from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. and every
Saturday from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., with Jerry’s maternal grandparents supervising the
visitations. The restraining order did not expressly prohibit Matthews from sending
cards, letters, or presents to Jerry. Matthews, however, interpreted the restraining order
as no contact whatsoever because any contact with Mendenhall was never peaceful. The
order had no expiration date.
The parties dispute the number of times Shelly Matthews visited Jerry after
Richard Mendenhall gained temporary full custody. Matthews claims she attended at
least five visits. Richard Mendenhall alleges she attended one or two visits. Mendenhall
continued to bring Jerry to Matthews’ mother’s house even though Matthews quit
appearing. Mendenhall thought Jerry would benefit by visiting with his grandmother,
Diane Kitchner. Shelly Matthews last visited Jerry on September 29, 2012.
On February 20, 2013, Richard Mendenhall filed for a modification to the
parenting plan shifting all parental responsibilities to himself. Matthews did not appear at
a scheduled trial. The superior court entered a default order and ordered permanent
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residential placement with Mendenhall. The court found that RCW 26.09.191 factors
applied because of Matthews’ willful abandonment, neglect, substantial nonperformance
of parenting functions, a long-term impairment from drug, alcohol or other substance
abuse, the absence of emotional ties between Matthews and Jerry, and abusive initiation
of conflict that created the danger of serious damage to the child’s psychological
development. The superior court found that Matthews engaged in conduct detrimental to
the well-being and safety of Jerry, including criminal conduct, drug use, and
abandonment.
In December 2013, Shelly Matthews reentered prison after a conviction for
possession with intent to deliver a controlled substance and possession of a controlled
substance. Matthews’ youngest son went to live with Diane Kitchner, Matthews’ mother.
Jerry continued to reside thereafter with Richard Mendenhall and his wife, Karen.
While in prison, Shelly Matthews worked as a telemarketer on work release. After
release from prison in January 2015, Matthews moved into Oxford House, a recovery
home in Vancouver, Washington. Matthews continued her employment as a telemarketer
for one year. She also completed a drug treatment program. Matthews participated in
Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous. She maintained her sobriety,
obtained a driver’s license, and bought a car. During this year of self-improvement,
Matthews did not contact Jerry.
Shelly Matthews made three child support payments for Jerry between 2013 and
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2014 through involuntary wage garnishments. Following her release from prison in
January 2015, Matthews’ wages were regularly garnished for support payments.
On January 14, 2016, with some stability and recent sobriety, Shelly Matthews
filed a petition for modification of the parenting plan. She requested an order to visit
Jerry and gradually reintroduce herself back into his life after a four-year absence.
PROCEDURE
This appeal arises from Karen Mendenhall’s February 2016 petition for
termination of the parent-child relationship between Shelly Matthews and Jerry in order
to free Jerry for adoption by Karen. Shelly Matthews filed a responsive declaration and
an objection to termination of her parental rights and the adoption of Jerry.
Karen Mendenhall’s petition proceeded to trial in December 2017. Jerry was then
eight years old.
Clinical psychologist, Dr. Landon Poppleton, testified at trial for Shelly Matthews.
Dr. Poppleton explained that, even though a child lacks a secure attachment to a
biological parent, the court should not presume that the child’s best interests are served
by severing the parent-child relationship. Dr. Poppleton noted the difficulty of
reconnecting a parent and child after the biological parent’s long absence, but concluded
the reconnection can be successful.
Clinical psychologist Dr. Valerie Correa, testified at trial for Karen Mendenhall.
Karen first consulted Dr. Correa in spring of 2016, and Correa had completed multiple
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evaluations of Jerry and Karen’s relationship. Dr. Correa testified that Jerry and Karen
enjoyed a strong bond and a secure attachment. Correa testified that Jerry referred to
Shelly Matthews by her first name and only called Karen “mom.” Correa also testified
that Jerry expressed fears that Matthews might kidnap him if Matthews ever had an
unsupervised visit. Jerry told Dr. Correa that he has no positive memories of Matthews
and that she is a stranger to him.
Social worker Lori Whittaker, who conducted an adoptive home study at the
request of the Mendenhalls, also testified. During her time in the home, Whittaker
observed a bonded and blended family. Whittaker testified to Jerry’s happiness with his
father and Karen and that Jerry considered Karen to be his mother. Whittaker opined that
adoption by Karen would serve Jerry’s best interests.
After trial, the superior court ordered the termination of Shelly Matthews’ parental
rights to Jerry. The court entered the following findings of fact:
II. FINDINGS OF FACT
1. [Karen Mendenhall] has established by clear, cogent and convincing evidence that it is in [Jerry Mendenhall’s] best interest to terminate the parental relationship with [Shelly Matthews]. 2. Ms. [Matthews] has failed to perform parenting functions required by RCW 26.33.120 under circumstances that demonstrate a substantial lack of regard for her parental obligations. 3. Ms. [Matthews] is withholding consent to the termination of her parental rights and to the adoption by Petitioner contrary to the best interest of the child, [Jerry Mendenhall]. 4. Petitioner has shown by clear, cogent and convincing evidence that Ms. [Matthews] is unfit under the statute RCW 26.33.120.
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5. Ms. [Matthews] has been absent from the child’s life for five (5) years, which constitutes a majority of his life. 6. Ms. [Matthews] underwent a lengthy parentage action and is no stranger to the legal system. She is aware of the legal avenues she could have pursued through court to modify the parenting plan entered February 20, 2013. 7. After Ms. [Matthews] was released from her incarceration, she concentrated on her own best interest of maintaining her sobriety in place of seeing to the needs of [Jerry Mendenhall]. 8. Ms. [Matthews] has not yet regained custody of her other child in the legal custody of her mother, [Diane Kitchner]. 9. Ms. [Matthews] needed to step up to her parental responsibilities at an earlier point in time. 10. The 2012 restraining order was entered to protect the child from Ms. [Matthews] because she presented a danger to him due to her drug addictions. 11. It is noteworthy that the child’s maternal grandmother, [Diane Kitchner], was unaware that Ms. [Matthews] had been out of prison for a year prior to contacting her about her other child. 12. [Karen Mendenhall] stepped up to provide for the child’s needs at the time he needed a safe and secure home, and she continues to do so.
Clerk’s Papers (CP) at 195-96.
LAW AND ANALYSIS
Findings of Fact
RCW 26.33.120 controls termination of parental rights for purposes of an
adoption. The statute declares:
(1) Except in the case of an Indian child and his or her parent, the parent-child relationship of a parent may be terminated upon a showing by clear, cogent, and convincing evidence that it is in the best interest of the child to terminate the relationship and that the parent has failed to perform parental duties under circumstances showing a substantial lack of regard for his or her parental obligations and is withholding consent to adoption contrary to the best interest of the child.
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The adoption code requires clear, cogent, and convincing evidence to sustain an
order terminating parental rights. In re Interest of H.J.P., 114 Wn.2d 522, 532, 789 P.2d
96 (1990). Pursuant to this standard of proof, the ultimate fact in issue must be shown by
evidence found to be “highly probable.” In re Interest of Pawling, 101 Wn.2d 392, 399,
679 P.2d 916 (1984).
Shelly Matthews assigns error to all of the trial court’s findings of fact. A trial
court’s finding of fact will not be disturbed on appeal if supported by substantial
evidence. In re Welfare of Sego, 82 Wn.2d 736, 739, 513 P.2d 831 (1973). Substantial
evidence constitutes evidence sufficient to persuade a fair-minded rational person of the
truth of the declared premise. In re Welfare of A.B., 181 Wn. App. 45, 59, 323 P.3d 1062
(2014). A conclusion of law erroneously labeled as a finding of fact is reviewed as a
conclusion of law. Willener v. Sweeting, 107 Wn.2d 388, 394, 730 P.2d 45 (1986). We
do not reweigh the credibility of witnesses. In re Welfare of Sego, 82 Wn.2d at 739-40.
RCW 26.33.120 does not require that the petitioner prove underlying facts by
clear, cogent, and convincing evidence. The court must find clear, cogent, and
convincing evidence only for the ultimate facts that termination serves the child’s best
interests and the parent has failed to perform parental duties while showing a substantial
lack of regard for parental obligations.
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We address each discrete finding of fact. Because of the conclusory nature of
findings of fact one, three, and four, we address those findings later. Sufficient evidence,
if not clear, cogent, and convincing evidence, supports all underlying findings.
“2. Ms. [Matthews] has failed to perform parenting functions required by RCW
26.33.120 under circumstances that demonstrate a substantial lack of regard for her
parental obligations.” CP at 195. Shelly Matthews testified that she had not expressed
any love or affection to Jerry in the last five years. Matthews had never sent a letter or
card to Jerry. She agreed that she did not provide any food, clothing, or medical care for
Jerry in the last five years.
“5. Ms. [Matthews] has been absent from the child’s life for five (5) years, which
constitutes a majority of his life.” CP at 196. Shelly Matthews admitted in a declaration
that she has not seen Jerry since September 2012. Matthews excuses her absence because
of her recovering from drug addiction. Nonetheless, the finding does not elaborate as to
the reason for the absence.
“6. Ms. [Matthews] underwent a lengthy parentage action and is no stranger to the
legal system. She is aware of the legal avenues she could have pursued through court to
modify the parenting plan entered February 20, 2013.” CP at 196. Testimony showed
Shelly Matthews to have participated in the legal process to establish a parenting plan.
She brought a motion to modify the plan in January 2016. Contrary to Matthews’
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assertion, the trial court did not find that she had a level of sophistication to effectively
fight the legal system to gain access to her child.
“7. After Ms. [Matthews] was released from her incarceration, she concentrated on
her own best interest of maintaining her sobriety in place of seeing to the needs of [Jerry
Mendenhall].” CP at 196. Shelly Matthews agreed during direct examination that for
one year she worked to improve herself without attempting to visit her son. During this
time, Matthews provided no necessities such as food, clothing, health care, or social
guidance for Jerry.
“8. Ms. [Matthews] has not yet regained custody of her other child in the legal
custody of her mother, [Diane Kitchner].” CP at 196. Diane Kitchner, Shelly Matthews’
mother, testified at trial that she still maintained custody of Matthews’ other son.
“9. Ms. [Matthews] needed to step up to her parental responsibilities at an earlier
point in time.” CP at 196. This finding of fact is more a judgment as to Shelly
Matthews’ obligations, rather than a statement of fact. Nevertheless, Matthews met none
of her parental obligations or maintained any visitation with Jerry since September 29,
2012. She waited four years since last seeing her son to seek a modification to the
parenting plan.
“10. The 2012 restraining order was entered to protect the child from Ms.
[Matthews] because she presented a danger to him due to her drug addictions.” CP at
196. Shelly Matthews admitted in her February 22, 2016 declaration that she was unfit
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due to her active drug addiction. Matthews also testified at trial that the court restrained
her because of criminal activity and her use of heroin and methamphetamine. She agreed
that the restraining order sought to protect Jerry from her.
“11. It is noteworthy that the child’s maternal grandmother, [Diane Kitchner], was
unaware that Ms. [Matthews] had been out of prison for a year prior to contacting her
about her other child.” CP at 196. Diane Kitchner testified that she first spoke, in
December 2015, to Shelly Matthews after Matthews’ release from prison in January
2015. Although the time period may have been closer to eleven months than one year,
we do not fault the superior court for rounding the number to one year.
“12. [Karen Mendenhall] stepped up to provide for the child’s needs at the time he
needed a safe and secure home, and she continues to do so.” CP at 196. Shelly
Matthews assigns error to this finding, but in her brief she impliedly concedes the
accuracy of the fact. Testimony from Richard Mendenhall, Karen Mendenhall, Lori
Whittaker, and Dr. Valerie Correa show that Karen has been a mother figure for Jerry for
years.
Parental Unfitness
In finding of fact number four, the court concludes that Karen Mendenhall
established by clear, cogent, and convincing evidence that Shelly Matthews is an unfit
parent under RCW 26.33.120. We agree.
Under RCW 26.33.120(1), in order for the court to terminate the parental rights of
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a nonconsenting parent, the court must find parental unfitness on the part of the
nonconsenting parent. In re Interest of H.J.P., 114 Wn.2d 522, 531 (1990). Parental
unfitness is established by showing that the nonconsenting parent “has failed to perform
parental duties under circumstances showing a substantial lack of regard for his or her
parental obligations . . . .” RCW 26.33.120(1). Parental obligations consist of:
(1) express love and affection for the child; (2) express personal concern over the health, education and general well-being of the child; (3) the duty to supply the necessary food, clothing, and medical care; (4) the duty to provide an adequate domicile; and (5) the duty to furnish social and religious guidance.
In re Adoption of Lybbert, 75 Wn.2d 671, 674, 453 P.2d 650 (1969). The overwhelming
evidence established that Shelly Matthews performed none of these obligations for more
than five years. In In re Interest of Pawling, 101 Wn.2d 392 (1984), the Washington
Supreme Court held that the evidence supported the termination of parental rights of a
parent who had not expressed love and affection, personal concern, or social and
religious guidance to his child for over five years and had supplied negligible financial
support for the child.
Shelly Matthews underscores that she showed love and regard for Jerry by
declining to interrupt his life during her addiction. She also emphasizes that her absence
resulted from the 2012 restraining order. In re Adoption of Infant McGee, 86 Wn. App.
471, 937 P.2d 622 (1997) addressed this similar focus. In McGee, the court found that
the father chose to distance himself from the child and the father’s assaults and threats
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against the mother necessitated the no-contact order. The law does not consider
abandonment of a child to be an expression of love and affection, no matter the reason for
the abandonment.
We note that, despite the restraining order, Shelly Matthews possessed visitation
rights with Jerry. Matthews failed to meaningfully attend more than two of the
supervised visitations. Matthews resided in jail only for thirteen months during the five
years that she absented herself from Jerry’s life. When she gained employment on
release from prison, she paid child support involuntarily through wage garnishments. In
short, overwhelming evidence showed that Matthews had been an unfit parent.
Shelly Matthews cites In re Interest of H.J.P., 114 Wn.2d 522, 531 (1990), In re
Interest of S.G., 140 Wn. App. 461, 166 P.3d 802 (2007), In re Welfare of C.B., 134 Wn.
App. 942, 143 P.3d 846 (2006), In re Adoption of Infant McGee, 86 Wn. App. 471
(1997), and In re Welfare of Sego, 82 Wn.2d 736 (1973) for the proposition that the
adopting parent must prove current parental unfitness. In turn, Matthews contends that
the superior court violated her right to due process by terminating her rights based on past
parental unfitness. She emphasizes her sobriety and fight to gain stability since early
2013. We disagree with Matthews’ legal contention.
RCW 26.33.120(1) reads that the adopting parent may show parental unfitness by
past parental behavior, evidenced by the language that the parent “has failed to perform
parental duties.” RCW 26.33.120(1) (emphasis added). Those decisions do not support
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the need to show current unfitness in the adoption setting. In re Interest of S.G., In re
Welfare of C.B., and In re Welfare of Sego involve dependency actions, and, therefore,
RCW 13.34.180(1) controlled the decisions. Best Interests of Jerry
The trial court’s finding of fact number three reads: “Ms. [Matthews] is
withholding consent to the termination of her parental rights and to the adoption by
Petitioner contrary to the best interest of the child [Jerry Mendenhall].” CP at 195.
Shelly Matthews contends that, while she withheld her consent to adoption, Jerry’s best
interests lie with maintaining a relationship with her. She further contends that the
finding of fact is a legal conclusion that should be reviewed de novo by this court.
Shelly Matthews cites no legal authority for the contention that the finding is a
conclusion or that this court reviews the finding de novo. We deem the statement of best
interests to be a finding of fact, albeit an ultimate finding, on which the trial court weighs
numerous underlying facts.
Evidence at trial demonstrated that Jerry thrives with Karen Mendenhall and his
father. The record established that, from Jerry’s perspective, Karen is his mother.
Moreover, the expert who conducted the home study noted that Jerry felt safe and
protected with Karen and that given all of her observations, she felt it would be in Jerry’s
best interest to be adopted by Karen. Jerry has also formed close relationships with
Karen’s two daughters.
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Best Interests
Combined with the finding that Shelly Matthews is an unfit parent, overwhelming
evidence showed that Jerry’s bests interest are served by severing Matthews’ parental
rights. In In re Interest of Pawling, 101 Wn.2d 392 (1984), the Washington Supreme
Court affirmed a finding that the child’s best interests were served by termination of a
natural parent’s rights when the underlying facts showed that the child’s psychological
father was his stepfather and that the boy had been integrated into his mother’s and
stepfather’s household.
Due Process
Washington courts have rejected the argument that due process and equal
protection require that a nonconsenting parent in a private termination and adoption
action pursuant to RCW 26.33.120 receive the same safeguards and services as afforded a
parent in a dependency proceeding. In re Interest of Infant Child Skinner, 97 Wn. App.
108, 110, 982 P.2d 670 (1999). A dependency action allows the court to “order
reunification efforts and remedial services to address the circumstances that prompted
intervention by the State.” In re Interest of Infant Child Skinner, 97 Wn. App. at 117.
The goal is to reunite the child with his or her legal parents if reasonably possible. In
contrast, the adoption statute, RCW 26.33.120(1), does not provide for State intervention.
Instead, the purpose of the adoption process “is to provide stable homes for children” and
to protect the best interests of the child. RCW 26.33.010.
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A parent whose parental rights are terminated through an adoption proceeding is
not similarly situated to a parent whose rights are terminated through a dependency
proceeding. In re Interest of Infant Child Skinner, 97 Wn. App. at 117-18. Therefore, the
standard for termination and the procedures set forth within the adoption act satisfy the
requirements of due process. In re Interest of Infant Child Skinner, 97 Wn. App. at 110.
CONCLUSION
We affirm the superior court's termination of the parental rights of Shelly
Matthews to Jerry Mendenhall.
A majority of the panel has determined this opinion will not be printed in the
Washington Appellate Reports, but it will be filed for public record pursuant to RCW
2.06.040.
Fearing, J.
WE CONCUR:
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