In the Matter of the Interest of: J.L.M.

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided August 29, 2019·No. 36656-1·Unpublished

Opinion

FILED

AUGUST 29, 2019

In the Office of the Clerk of Court WA State Court of Appeals, Division III

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION THREE

In re the Matter of the Interest of )

) No. 36656-1-III

J.L.M. )

) UNPUBLISHED OPINION )

)

FEARING, J. — Shelly Matthews appeals from the superior court’s termination of her parental rights in an action for adoption of her son filed by her son’s stepmother. We affirm.

FACTS

Because of the nature of this appeal, we employ pseudonyms for all persons, except professional witnesses. We glean our facts from trial testimony.

Shelly Matthews and Richard Mendenhall engaged in a short romantic relationship, during which Matthews became pregnant with their child. Mendenhall knew of the pregnancy and wished to parent the child. On April 3, 2008, Matthews gave birth to a baby boy, Jerry Mendenhall, the subject of this adoption proceeding.

Two days before delivery, Shelly Matthews obtained a restraining order against

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Richard Mendenhall. Matthews feared that Mendenhall would flee from the hospital with Jerry if not restrained from contact with him. Mendenhall learned of his son’s birth thereafter.

In July 2008, Richard Mendenhall filed a parentage action. In October 2009, Mendenhall saw Jerry for the first time. Mendenhall and Shelly Matthews entered into a temporary parenting plan a month later.

In 2009, Shelly Matthews sustained an IT band injury, an injury resulting from the overuse of the iliotibial connective tissue on the lateral or outer part of the thigh and knee. Her physician prescribed oxycodone as she awaited surgery. According to Matthews, surgery was denied, but she does not identify who denied the surgery. The physician ceased prescribing oxycodone and referred Matthews to a pain clinic to combat withdrawal from the medication. Clinic assistance did not succeed, and Matthews contracted a physical addiction to pain medication.

In early 2011, Richard Mendenhall begin living with his girlfriend, Karen.

Karen’s two young children joined the household.

On September 30, 2011, the Clark County Superior Court entered a final parenting plan in the parentage action initiated by Richard Mendenhall. In the meantime, the court gradually increased visitation between Mendenhall and Jerry. The final parenting plan ordered fifty/fifty custody of Jerry between Mendenhall and Shelly Matthews. The court entered findings that expressed concern with Matthews’ association with her boyfriend,

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Aaron Eaton. The court found Mendenhall’s living environment more stable, but still ruled that Jerry should spend equal time with his mother.

Shelly Matthews’ use of pain medication increased such that Richard Mendenhall noticed changes in Matthews’ behavior during the weekly exchange of Jerry. Matthews often changed residences. Exchange locations became irregular. Matthews’ boyfriend, rather than Matthews, appeared for exchanges of the boy. At the exchange, Jerry often wore moldy clothes soaked in urine. Jerry commented to his father about his mother’s dirty living environment.

In 2011, Shelly Matthews became pregnant with a second child. She ceased pain medications during the pregnancy. Nevertheless, after delivering her second son, Matthews’ addiction wrested control of her life. By early 2012, Matthews used methamphetamine and heroin. To support her habit, Matthews sold unlawful drugs. Richard Mendenhall observed further changes in Matthews’ demeanor and behavior. Matthews appeared lethargic and uninterested in Jerry’s welfare.

Robert Mendenhall and Karen married in 2012 and bore a son together soon after.

Jerry developed close relationships with his two stepsisters, Karen, and his baby brother. Jerry became a well-integrated member of the blended household. He calls Karen “Mom.”

Shelly Matthews entered jail, in the summer of 2012, for possession of controlled substances with intent to distribute. On July 11, 2012, Richard Mendenhall petitioned

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for, and received, a temporary parentage order. The order granted Mendenhall full residential placement of Jerry and restrained Matthews from coming within three hundred feet of the home, work place, or school of Mendenhall or Jerry. The order also restrained and enjoined Matthews from “disturbing the peace” of Mendenhall and Jerry. Ex. 23. The order denied contact between Jerry and Aaron Eaton. The temporary order granted Matthews supervised visits with Jerry every Wednesday from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. and every Saturday from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., with Jerry’s maternal grandparents supervising the visitations. The restraining order did not expressly prohibit Matthews from sending cards, letters, or presents to Jerry. Matthews, however, interpreted the restraining order as no contact whatsoever because any contact with Mendenhall was never peaceful. The order had no expiration date.

The parties dispute the number of times Shelly Matthews visited Jerry after Richard Mendenhall gained temporary full custody. Matthews claims she attended at least five visits. Richard Mendenhall alleges she attended one or two visits. Mendenhall continued to bring Jerry to Matthews’ mother’s house even though Matthews quit appearing. Mendenhall thought Jerry would benefit by visiting with his grandmother, Diane Kitchner. Shelly Matthews last visited Jerry on September 29, 2012.

On February 20, 2013, Richard Mendenhall filed for a modification to the parenting plan shifting all parental responsibilities to himself. Matthews did not appear at a scheduled trial. The superior court entered a default order and ordered permanent

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residential placement with Mendenhall. The court found that RCW 26.09.191 factors applied because of Matthews’ willful abandonment, neglect, substantial nonperformance of parenting functions, a long-term impairment from drug, alcohol or other substance abuse, the absence of emotional ties between Matthews and Jerry, and abusive initiation of conflict that created the danger of serious damage to the child’s psychological development. The superior court found that Matthews engaged in conduct detrimental to the well-being and safety of Jerry, including criminal conduct, drug use, and abandonment.

In December 2013, Shelly Matthews reentered prison after a conviction for possession with intent to deliver a controlled substance and possession of a controlled substance. Matthews’ youngest son went to live with Diane Kitchner, Matthews’ mother. Jerry continued to reside thereafter with Richard Mendenhall and his wife, Karen.

While in prison, Shelly Matthews worked as a telemarketer on work release. After release from prison in January 2015, Matthews moved into Oxford House, a recovery home in Vancouver, Washington. Matthews continued her employment as a telemarketer for one year. She also completed a drug treatment program. Matthews participated in Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous. She maintained her sobriety, obtained a driver’s license, and bought a car. During this year of self-improvement, Matthews did not contact Jerry.

Shelly Matthews made three child support payments for Jerry between 2013 and

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2014 through involuntary wage garnishments. Following her release from prison in January 2015, Matthews’ wages were regularly garnished for support payments.

On January 14, 2016, with some stability and recent sobriety, Shelly Matthews filed a petition for modification of the parenting plan. She requested an order to visit Jerry and gradually reintroduce herself back into his life after a four-year absence.

PROCEDURE

This appeal arises from Karen Mendenhall’s February 2016 petition for termination of the parent-child relationship between Shelly Matthews and Jerry in order to free Jerry for adoption by Karen. Shelly Matthews filed a responsive declaration and an objection to termination of her parental rights and the adoption of Jerry.

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