In the Interest of R.V., C.V., T.V., and J.V., Minor Children

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided November 2, 2022·No. 22-0689·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 22-0689

Filed November 2, 2022

IN THE INTEREST OF R.V., C.V., T.V., and J.V., Minor Children,

S.V., Mother, Petitioner-Appellant,

J.V., Father, Respondent-Appellee.

DEAN A. FANKHAUSER, Guardian ad Litem, Appellant.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Sioux County, Daniel P. Vakulskas, District Associate Judge.

A mother and her children’s guardian ad litem appeal the denial of the mother’s petition to terminate the father’s parental rights to their four children. REVERSED AND REMANDED WITH DIRECTIONS.

Rosalynd J. Koob of Heidman Law Firm, P.L.L.C., Sioux City, for appellant mother.

Dean A. Fankhauser of Vriezelaar, Tigges, Edgington, Bottaro, Boden & Lessmann, L.L.P., Sioux City, attorney and guardian ad litem for minor children.

Jenny L. Winterfeld of Klass Law Firm, L.L.P., Sioux Center, for appellee father.

Considered by Ahlers, P.J., and Badding and Chicchelly, JJ.

BADDING, Judge.

A mother of four children petitioned to terminate the parental rights of the children’s father under Iowa Code section 600A.8(3)(b), (9), and (10) (2021) after he was convicted of sexual offenses against the mother’s two minor sisters. The juvenile court determined those grounds had been met, yet found termination was not in the children’s best interests because the mother raised only “a litany of ‘what ifs.’” The mother and the children’s guardian ad litem appeal. I. Background Facts and Proceedings This family is from a small farming community in northwest Iowa. The mother is one of eleven children. Her parents operate a large dairy farm and feedlot. The father began a relationship with the mother when she was only fourteen years old and he was eighteen. The father married the mother once she turned eighteen, and they had four children together, born in 2012, 2014, 2015, and 2017. The couple lived on a farm near both of their families where they raised heifers and custom fed pigs. The father also worked for the mother’s parents on their farm, sometimes spending the night if there was bad weather or chores that needed to be done.

In March 2018, the father was charged with two counts of second-degree sexual abuse, three counts of third-degree sexual abuse, and lascivious conduct with a minor. His victims were two of the mother’s minor sisters, who still lived at home with their parents at the farm where the father worked. The trial information alleged that the father began sexually abusing one of the sisters when she was under the age of twelve. The father ultimately agreed to plead guilty to third-degree sexual abuse, a class “C” felony, under Iowa Code section 709.4(1)(b)(2) (2015)

and an amended charge of indecent exposure, a serious misdemeanor, under section 709.9 (2011).1 He was sentenced in July 2018 to an indeterminate term not to exceed ten years in prison for the sexual abuse conviction.2 The father was also sentenced to a lifetime special sentence of parole under Iowa Code section 903B.1 and ordered to register as a sex offender for life upon his release from custody. His tentative discharge date from prison is February 2023.

At first, the mother was supportive of the father, expressing a desire to stay married to him and keep their family together. She allowed the father to live with her and the children while he was out on bond pending trial. Once the father went to prison, he was barred from having any contact with the children because of the nature of his sex offenses. But he talked to the mother every day on the phone, and she visited him in prison. The mother also wrote the father letters, telling him how much she and the children missed him. And she stayed in contact with his family and had weekly dinners with his parents. For a time, the prison allowed the

1 As to the crimes the father pled guilty to, section 709.4(1)(b)(2) (2015) stated that a “person commits sexual abuse in the third degree when the person performs a sex act under any of the following circumstances. . . . [t]he act is between persons who are not cohabiting as husband and wife” and “[t]he other person is twelve or thirteen years of age.” Section 709.9 (2011) stated that a “person who exposes the person’s genitals or pubes to another not the person’s spouse . . . commits a serious misdemeanor if” the person “does so to arouse or satisfy the sexual desires of either party” and the person “knows or reasonably should know that the act is offensive to the viewer.” Although the trial information, plea agreement, and judgment were admitted as exhibits at trial, the factual basis for the father’s guilty pleas is not in the record before us. Nor are the minutes of evidence that accompanied the trial information. 2 For the indecent exposure conviction, the father was sentenced to 365 days in

jail with all but thirty days suspended, to run concurrently with his prison sentence for the sexual abuse offense.

father to communicate with the children in writing who, at the mother’s urging, sent him some letters, cards, and drawings.

That limited contact with the children stopped in September 2020 because the father started sex offender treatment, a condition of which prohibited him from having contact with minors. The father told the mother that another condition of the program required him to make a full disclosure to her of his sexual offenses. The father made this disclosure during one of his phone calls with the mother in October or December. According to notes the mother took, the father’s victims included male and female children ranging in age from five to fourteen years old. 3 The acts that he performed on these children encompassed everything from hugging, kissing, and unspecified “grooming” type behavior, to fondling, “exposure,” digital and oral penetration, and “forced masturbation.” The father also disclosed that he had engaged in voyeurism, along with masturbating and watching porn “a lot.” Finally, the father revealed that he had sexual contact with dogs, cats, goats, pigs, and a cow.

A few months after learning this information, and faced with the reality of the father being released from prison, the mother decided to cut off contact with him. She explained:

I am a 14-year-old victim of [the father’s] also, I have been groomed since the age of 14, and I never knew anything different, so yes, now I’ve finally come out of my shell, I’m my own person, and I refuse to let my kids back in his hands.

3 The father also listed some same-age and adult sexual partners. It is unclear from the mother’s notes whether these were consensual sexual encounters or not.

The mother filed for divorce in March 2021, followed by the petition to terminate the father’s parental rights under Iowa Code section 600A.8(3)(b), (9), and (10) (2021) in July.

The father completed the sex offender treatment program around the same time the mother filed for divorce. He requested early parole in August, which was denied the next month due to the seriousness of the father’s crime. In October, the father falsely believed he had permission to contact his children, so he called the house phone multiple times. The oldest child answered one of those times and hung up when she realized it was her father. None of the children have seen the father in person since he went to prison in July 2018. According to the mother, the youngest child has no memory of the father and the others haven’t asked about him in years.

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