In the Interest of L.A. and L.A., Minor Children

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided September 18, 2024·No. 23-2119·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 23-2119

Filed September 18, 2024

IN THE INTEREST OF L.A. and L.A., Minor Children,

L.H., Mother, Petitioner-Appellee,

L.A., Father, Respondent-Appellant.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Plymouth County, Daniel P. Vakulskas, Judge.

A father appeals the private termination of his parental rights. AFFIRMED.

Jay P. Phipps of Phipps Law Office, PLC, Moville, for appellee mother.

Debra S. De Jong, Orange City, for appellant father.

Chad Thompson, Kingsley, attorney and guardian ad litem for minor children.

Considered by Badding, P.J., Langholz, J., and Gamble, S.J.* *Senior judge assigned by order pursuant to Iowa Code section 602.9206 (2024).

BADDING, Presiding Judge.

The father of two children, born in 2013 and 2015, appeals the termination of his parental rights under the ground of abandonment in Iowa Code section 600A.8(3)(b) (2023). At the termination hearing, the father testified: “These are my children. I am their father. I remember the times that I did have [with] them and the relationship I had with them, and I—I miss that a lot.” But in the three years since he had last seen the children, the juvenile court found the father had done “nothing . . . to affirmatively step up as a parent.”

The father challenges that finding, claiming the evidence was insufficient to establish the statutory ground for termination. He also claims that termination was not in the children’s best interests and that his attorney provided ineffective assistance. We deny these claims upon our de novo review of the record and affirm the juvenile court’s ruling. I. Background Facts and Proceedings The mother and father were in an on-and-off relationship for nine years, during which their two children were born. Their relationship ended for good in early 2018 because of the father’s substance use. The mother moved into her parents’ home with the children, while the father found a one-bedroom apartment for himself in a nearby town.

With no custody order in place after they separated, the mother said the father’s parents would contact her when they wanted to see the children: “It wasn’t [the father] contacting me, it was [his parents] when they wanted to see them on weekends.” The grandparents had the children at their house maybe twice a month for the next year or so. When the children were there, the father would

often—but not always—come to see them, according to the paternal grandfather who testified at the termination hearing.

This informal arrangement ended in September 2020 when the father pulled the oldest child “down the stairs by his shirt and shook him at the end of the stairs” at the grandparents’ house. After that incident, the father testified, “I wasn’t allowed to speak or talk to the children until we all went to counseling and therapy.” The mother enrolled the child in therapy, and she testified the father was invited to attend but didn’t. The father’s memory was different. He testified, “it was sort of [an] invitation”; something “along the lines of ‘after a while you can come to counseling with [the child] and be around him.’” In any event, the father never attended therapy with the oldest child. And he hasn’t had any contact with either child since then.

The father testified that it was not for lack of trying. He sent the mother many text messages—for “[d]ays after weeks after months,” with some just repeating her name to “try and talk to her about . . . the kids and the whole situation.” The mother agreed, “He has sent me text messages, some asking about the children, some just saying my name repeatedly.” She testified that the last message she received from the father was in June 2022, when he “just mentioned that he should see the children.” The father thought his last contact with the mother was a phone call a year or two before the termination hearing, during which the mother said that she would talk to the child’s therapist about visitation. But the father testified that “it never ended up going anywhere.”

During this time, the father’s life “kind of fell into devastation.” He had a series of criminal convictions, which landed him in jail and then prison. Those

convictions included assault with a dangerous weapon, domestic abuse assault, and his third operating-while-intoxicated offense. The father had just finished a nine-month stint in prison before the termination hearing. He was paroled to a residential treatment facility and obtained a full-time job. The father testified that he had been sober for close to one year and was “doing well stabilizing” his life, although he still had another pending charge for domestic abuse assault.

Unlike the father, the mother’s life with the children improved after their separation. In early 2020, she began dating her now-husband. They have one child together and another on the way. The mother’s husband has assumed the role of dad for the children by, as he testified, being “there every day with them, I go to all the sport outings, provide them a safe and secure home, [and] involve them in my family’s activities.” The children are excelling in school, and they are involved in multiple extracurricular activities. In hopes that her husband would be able to adopt the children, the mother petitioned to terminate the father’s rights in August 2023.

After the mother’s petition was filed, the court appointed a guardian ad litem for the children. The guardian ad litem filed a report before the hearing, noting that he could not talk to the father because the father’s court-appointed attorney did not respond to his request for contact information. But the guardian ad litem did talk to the children, the mother, and the stepfather. His report said that between 2020 and 2022, the father asked, “to talk and/or see the children approximately 10 times, but did not have any contact with them.” The father had not asked for any visitation with the children in the past year. And, according to the report, the father “has never provided any financial or emotional support for the children.” The guardian

ad litem concluded that termination was in the children’s best interests because they “are healthy and are thriving in their current living environment.”

Following a hearing in December, the court issued its ruling terminating the father’s parental rights under Iowa Code section 600A.8(3)(b). The father appeals. II. Standard of Review “Private termination proceedings under chapter 600A are reviewed de novo.” In re B.H.A., 938 N.W.2d 227, 232 (Iowa 2020). We give weight to the juvenile court’s findings of fact, especially concerning the credibility of witnesses, but we are not bound by them. Id. III. Analysis Terminations under chapter 600A require a two-step analysis. Id. The moving party must first prove a statutory ground for termination and then establish that termination is in the child’s best interests—“both by clear and convincing evidence.” In re J.R., No. 23-1127, 2023 WL 8449501, at *3 (Iowa Ct. App. Dec. 6, 2023); accord B.H.A., 938 N.W.2d at 232. The father challenges both steps. He also raises ancillary issues about the effectiveness of his court-appointed counsel. We will address each claim in turn.

A. Ground for Termination The juvenile court concluded that the father abandoned the children under Iowa Code section 600A.8(3)(b) because he “completely rejected the duties imposed by the parent-child relationship by not providing for the children nor maintaining regular contact with them.” The father challenges this conclusion, arguing that the mother “did not prove by clear and convincing evidence that [he] had financial resources and refused to contribute to the children.” He also argues

the mother prevented him from contacting the children. We disagree on both counts.

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