IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
No. 22-1551 Filed December 7, 2022
IN THE INTEREST OF A.R., Minor Child,
C.R., Father, Appellant ________________________________________________________________
Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Butler County, Peter B. Newell,
District Associate Judge.
A father contests the termination of his parental rights to his now three-year-
old son. AFFIRMED.
Mark A. Milder, Denver, for appellant father.
Thomas J. Miller, Attorney General, and Mary A. Triick, Assistant Attorney
General, for appellee State.
Elizabeth Batey of Vickers Law Office, Greene, attorney and guardian ad
litem for minor child.
Considered by Tabor, P.J., and Schumacher and Chicchelly, JJ. 2
TABOR, Presiding Judge.
Christopher refused to acknowledge “how his domestic violence, mental
health issues, and substance abuse created a danger to his child’s safety.”
Focusing on that refusal, the juvenile court terminated Christopher’s parental
relationship with A.R. Appealing termination, Christopher contends the State did
not prove its case and did not meet its reasonable-efforts mandate. See Iowa
Code § 232.116(1) (2022). He also believes that termination is not in A.R.’s best
interests. See id. § 232.116(2). And he urges us to apply the factors in paragraphs
(a) and (c) of section 232.116(3) to avoid termination. Finally, he claims
termination violates his due process rights because A.R.’s mother, who retained
her parental rights, favored preserving the father-son relationship. Alternatively,
he asks for a six-month delay in permanency. After an independent review, we
affirm the juvenile court’s thorough and well-reasoned termination order.1
I. Facts and Prior Proceedings
Four-month-old A.R. was present when his father assaulted his mother. In
February 2020, police were dispatched to the family’s home after Christopher
struck A.R.’s mother in the face and threw her down. She nearly landed on the
infant. Based on those facts, child protective services released a founded report
documenting denial of critical care.2 A few months later, the court adjudicated A.R.
1 We review termination proceedings de novo. In re L.B., 970 N.W.2d 311, 313 (Iowa 2022). We respect the juvenile court’s factual findings, but they do not dictate our result. Id. The State must prove the grounds for termination by clear and convincing evidence. Id. 2 This incident was not Christopher’s first case of child abuse. Allegations of
domestic violence and substance abuse led to founded reports involving his other children in 2009 and 2016. 3
as a child in need of assistance. Although the Iowa Department of Health and
Human Services was concerned about the mother’s mental health and the parents’
poor “relationship skills,” the court did not remove A.R. from their custody.
That is, not until January 2021, when Christopher smashed a beer can
against the mother’s head and strangled her until she nearly passed out. The
mother lost a tooth in the assault. A.R. was again present during the domestic
abuse. Christopher’s violence prompted the court to remove A.R. from his
custody.3 And a no-contact order prevented Christopher from interacting with
A.R.’s mother. A.R. stayed with his mother, who moved in with her parents.
But when the mother requested—over the department’s objection—that the
no-contact order be lifted in July 2021, the juvenile court saw a clear danger to
A.R. So the court removed the child from the mother’s custody and placed him
with the maternal grandparents. That placement too was short-lived. The
department moved A.R. into foster care in October 2021 because the grandparents
could not set boundaries for the parents.
As the new year began, the department viewed the ongoing “toxic”
relationship between the parents as the main barrier to bringing A.R. home. In
March 2022, the father challenged the department’s reasonable efforts toward
reunification. After an evidentiary hearing, the court found the department was
meeting its reasonable-efforts mandate. Instead, the court laid the blame for
continued removal at Christopher’s feet. He did not cooperate with the
3 The court also ordered both of A.R.’s parents to undergo drug testing. 4
department’s directives to avoid contact with A.R.’s mother. He did not address
his mental-health issues, and he struggled to tamp down his anger and aggression.
On a positive note, by the time of the permanency hearing in May 2022, the
mother had achieved steady progress in her mental-health and substance-abuse
treatment. Not so for Christopher. He did not sign releases for the department to
monitor his substance-abuse treatment, despite testing positive for
methamphetamine and THC in April 2022. His moods remained volatile, and he
persisted in manipulating A.R.’s mother. In response to the parents’ divergent
situations, the department recommended reunification with the mother as the
permanency goal for A.R. By contrast, the court directed the State to petition to
terminate Christopher’s parental rights. After the State filed that petition,
Christopher asked to meet alone with the department case manager. Christopher
was “very, very upset” and kept interrupting her. The case manager described that
“uncomfortable” encounter:
You could see the anger in his face and his eyes. . . . [H]e was visibly shaking. His lips were quivering. . . . [H]e was clenching his fists. . . . [A]t one point I remember wondering should I maybe leave, . . . but I just continued to sit there and listen to what he had to say.
The juvenile court held trial on the State’s petition across three days during
the summer of 2022. The case manager was a key witness for the State. She
testified that Christopher’s pattern of domestic violence prevented him from co-
parenting A.R. In her view, Christopher continued to “exert manipulation and
control” over A.R.’s mother, even when there was no physical violence. The case
manager expressed concern that Christopher refused to recognize how domestic 5
violence affected his son. She also discussed the risk to a child from a parent’s
methamphetamine use.
In its September order, the court terminated Christopher’s rights under Iowa
Code section 232.116(1), paragraphs (h) and (l). Christopher appeals that order.
II. Analysis
In most termination cases, we ask three questions. In re A.S., 906 N.W.2d
467, 472 (Iowa 2018). First, did the State prove a ground for termination
under section 232.116(1)? Id. at 472–73. Second, if so, is terminating parental
rights in the child’s best interests measured by the criteria in section
232.116(2)? Id. And third, is there a countervailing factor in section 232.116(3)
that would weigh against termination? Id. We examine each question in turn.
A. Statutory Ground/Reasonable Efforts
Christopher contends the juvenile court erred in terminating his parental
rights under paragraphs (h) and (l) of section 232.116(1). We may affirm on either
ground if supported by clear and convincing evidence. In re A.B., 815 N.W.2d 764,
774 (Iowa 2012). We pick paragraph (h). To satisfy that ground, the State needed
to prove by clear and convincing evidence:
(1) The child is three years of age or younger.
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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA
No. 22-1551 Filed December 7, 2022
IN THE INTEREST OF A.R., Minor Child,
C.R., Father, Appellant ________________________________________________________________
Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Butler County, Peter B. Newell,
District Associate Judge.
A father contests the termination of his parental rights to his now three-year-
old son. AFFIRMED.
Mark A. Milder, Denver, for appellant father.
Thomas J. Miller, Attorney General, and Mary A. Triick, Assistant Attorney
General, for appellee State.
Elizabeth Batey of Vickers Law Office, Greene, attorney and guardian ad
litem for minor child.
Considered by Tabor, P.J., and Schumacher and Chicchelly, JJ. 2
TABOR, Presiding Judge.
Christopher refused to acknowledge “how his domestic violence, mental
health issues, and substance abuse created a danger to his child’s safety.”
Focusing on that refusal, the juvenile court terminated Christopher’s parental
relationship with A.R. Appealing termination, Christopher contends the State did
not prove its case and did not meet its reasonable-efforts mandate. See Iowa
Code § 232.116(1) (2022). He also believes that termination is not in A.R.’s best
interests. See id. § 232.116(2). And he urges us to apply the factors in paragraphs
(a) and (c) of section 232.116(3) to avoid termination. Finally, he claims
termination violates his due process rights because A.R.’s mother, who retained
her parental rights, favored preserving the father-son relationship. Alternatively,
he asks for a six-month delay in permanency. After an independent review, we
affirm the juvenile court’s thorough and well-reasoned termination order.1
I. Facts and Prior Proceedings
Four-month-old A.R. was present when his father assaulted his mother. In
February 2020, police were dispatched to the family’s home after Christopher
struck A.R.’s mother in the face and threw her down. She nearly landed on the
infant. Based on those facts, child protective services released a founded report
documenting denial of critical care.2 A few months later, the court adjudicated A.R.
1 We review termination proceedings de novo. In re L.B., 970 N.W.2d 311, 313 (Iowa 2022). We respect the juvenile court’s factual findings, but they do not dictate our result. Id. The State must prove the grounds for termination by clear and convincing evidence. Id. 2 This incident was not Christopher’s first case of child abuse. Allegations of
domestic violence and substance abuse led to founded reports involving his other children in 2009 and 2016. 3
as a child in need of assistance. Although the Iowa Department of Health and
Human Services was concerned about the mother’s mental health and the parents’
poor “relationship skills,” the court did not remove A.R. from their custody.
That is, not until January 2021, when Christopher smashed a beer can
against the mother’s head and strangled her until she nearly passed out. The
mother lost a tooth in the assault. A.R. was again present during the domestic
abuse. Christopher’s violence prompted the court to remove A.R. from his
custody.3 And a no-contact order prevented Christopher from interacting with
A.R.’s mother. A.R. stayed with his mother, who moved in with her parents.
But when the mother requested—over the department’s objection—that the
no-contact order be lifted in July 2021, the juvenile court saw a clear danger to
A.R. So the court removed the child from the mother’s custody and placed him
with the maternal grandparents. That placement too was short-lived. The
department moved A.R. into foster care in October 2021 because the grandparents
could not set boundaries for the parents.
As the new year began, the department viewed the ongoing “toxic”
relationship between the parents as the main barrier to bringing A.R. home. In
March 2022, the father challenged the department’s reasonable efforts toward
reunification. After an evidentiary hearing, the court found the department was
meeting its reasonable-efforts mandate. Instead, the court laid the blame for
continued removal at Christopher’s feet. He did not cooperate with the
3 The court also ordered both of A.R.’s parents to undergo drug testing. 4
department’s directives to avoid contact with A.R.’s mother. He did not address
his mental-health issues, and he struggled to tamp down his anger and aggression.
On a positive note, by the time of the permanency hearing in May 2022, the
mother had achieved steady progress in her mental-health and substance-abuse
treatment. Not so for Christopher. He did not sign releases for the department to
monitor his substance-abuse treatment, despite testing positive for
methamphetamine and THC in April 2022. His moods remained volatile, and he
persisted in manipulating A.R.’s mother. In response to the parents’ divergent
situations, the department recommended reunification with the mother as the
permanency goal for A.R. By contrast, the court directed the State to petition to
terminate Christopher’s parental rights. After the State filed that petition,
Christopher asked to meet alone with the department case manager. Christopher
was “very, very upset” and kept interrupting her. The case manager described that
“uncomfortable” encounter:
You could see the anger in his face and his eyes. . . . [H]e was visibly shaking. His lips were quivering. . . . [H]e was clenching his fists. . . . [A]t one point I remember wondering should I maybe leave, . . . but I just continued to sit there and listen to what he had to say.
The juvenile court held trial on the State’s petition across three days during
the summer of 2022. The case manager was a key witness for the State. She
testified that Christopher’s pattern of domestic violence prevented him from co-
parenting A.R. In her view, Christopher continued to “exert manipulation and
control” over A.R.’s mother, even when there was no physical violence. The case
manager expressed concern that Christopher refused to recognize how domestic 5
violence affected his son. She also discussed the risk to a child from a parent’s
methamphetamine use.
In its September order, the court terminated Christopher’s rights under Iowa
Code section 232.116(1), paragraphs (h) and (l). Christopher appeals that order.
II. Analysis
In most termination cases, we ask three questions. In re A.S., 906 N.W.2d
467, 472 (Iowa 2018). First, did the State prove a ground for termination
under section 232.116(1)? Id. at 472–73. Second, if so, is terminating parental
rights in the child’s best interests measured by the criteria in section
232.116(2)? Id. And third, is there a countervailing factor in section 232.116(3)
that would weigh against termination? Id. We examine each question in turn.
A. Statutory Ground/Reasonable Efforts
Christopher contends the juvenile court erred in terminating his parental
rights under paragraphs (h) and (l) of section 232.116(1). We may affirm on either
ground if supported by clear and convincing evidence. In re A.B., 815 N.W.2d 764,
774 (Iowa 2012). We pick paragraph (h). To satisfy that ground, the State needed
to prove by clear and convincing evidence:
(1) The child is three years of age or younger. (2) The child has been adjudicated a child in need of assistance pursuant to section 232.96. (3) The child has been removed from the physical custody of the child’s parents for at least six months of the last twelve months, or for the last six consecutive months and any trial period at home has been less than thirty days. (4) There is clear and convincing evidence that the child cannot be returned to the custody of the child’s parents as provided in section 232.102 at the present time. 6
Iowa Code § 232.116(1)(h); see In re D.W., 791 N.W.2d 703, 707 (Iowa 2010)
(interpreting “at the present time” to mean “at the time of the termination hearing”).
In challenging the fourth element, Christopher contends “there is insufficient
evidence to show that any of the issues alleged to exist concerning the father have
had any impact on his ability to provide safe care for this child.”
We disagree with his contention. In fact, his appellate argument echoes his
failure to acknowledge responsibility in the juvenile court. Christopher minimizes
his abusive acts and denies their impact on A.R. He insists A.R. did not suffer “any
direct harm at the hands of his father.” This line of argument fundamentally
misconstrues the menace of domestic violence.4 As we have recognized:
“Children raised in homes touched by domestic abuse are often left with deep
scars, revealed in the form of increased anxiety, insecurity and a greater likelihood
for later problems in interpersonal relationships.” In re Marriage of Brainard, 523
N.W.2d 611, 615 (Iowa Ct. App. 1994). Violence in the home also puts the children
themselves in harm’s way. See id. Because Christopher lacks insight into the
danger posed by his domestic abuse, A.R. cannot be safely returned to his
custody. Termination was proper under paragraph (h).
Christopher also contends that the department did not make reasonable
efforts at reunification.5 See In re C.B., 611 N.W.2d 489, 493 (Iowa 2000) (“[T]he
4 Christopher also belittles the case manager’s feeling of intimidation when meeting alone with him, blaming their “severely damaged” working relationship. What he fails to recognize is that his hostility caused the damage. A parent’s inability to act with civility toward professionals working on their case is a relevant consideration when determining whether that parent is ready to resume custody. See In re M.P., No. 19-0995, 2019 WL 5063337, at *4 (Iowa Ct. App. Oct. 9, 2019). 5 The State argues Christopher should have raised this claim when objecting to
termination. But we find that his motion for reasonable efforts preserved error. 7
reasonable efforts requirement is not viewed as a strict substantive requirement of
termination. Instead, [it] . . . impacts the [State’s] burden of proving the elements
of termination which require reunification efforts.”). The department must “make
every reasonable effort to return the child to the child’s home as quickly as possible
consistent with the best interests of the child.” Id. (citation omitted).
Christopher claims reasonable efforts were lacking because the department
mandated fully supervised interactions through early 2022 though he alleges being
substance free for months. But the department had legitimate reasons not to
expand visitation. Christopher failed to take responsibility for his acts of violence
and failed to release information about his mental-health or substance-abuse
treatment. Given his own recalcitrance, Christopher’s reasonable-efforts
challenge fails.
B. Best Interests
Christopher argues that termination is not in A.R.’s best interests because
they have a strong bond and the child is healthy and happy. His argument
overlooks the structure of Iowa Code section 232.116(2). See In re P.L., 778
N.W.2d 33, 40–41 (Iowa 2010). That provision considers the child’s safety, as well
as the best placement for furthering his “long-term nurturing and growth” and his
“physical, mental, and emotional condition and needs.” Iowa Code § 232.116(2).
Applying that framework, we find terminating Christopher’s parental rights will
promote a safer environment for A.R. His future will be brighter without the specter
of a parent engaging in domestic violence and methamphetamine use. 8
C. Countervailing Factors
Once the State has proven grounds for termination, the burden shifts to the
parent to prove a permissive exception under section 232.116(3). See A.S., 906
N.W.2d at 475–76.
Christopher contends his rights should not have been terminated because
a relative has legal custody of A.R. See Iowa Code § 232.116(3)(a). He insists
“there is little to gain and much to lose” by terminating the rights of one parent
when the child remains with the other parent. The State counters that this
exception does not apply because A.R. was in the custody of the department “at
all relevant times.” See In re A.M., 843 N.W.2d at 103, 106, 113 (noting exception
did not cover grandparents taking care of child when department had legal
custody). We agree with the State’s position. But even if the mother had legal
custody of A.R., Christopher’s pattern of domestic abuse would tilt the scales away
from applying this exception.
Christopher next argues that termination was improper because all parties
agree that he has a “very strong bond” with A.R. See A.S., 906 N.W.2d, at 476.
That provision allows a court to preserve parental rights if clear and convincing
evidence shows that the termination would harm the child given the closeness of
the parent-child relationship. Iowa Code § 232.116(3)(c). True, the record shows
a close bond between father and son. But the record also shows that A.R. forms
bonds easily and “has a solid attachment to other caregivers.” In this
circumstance, any disadvantage from severing the tie to Christopher will be
mitigated by A.R.’s ability to develop other supportive relationships. 9
D. Due Process
Next Christopher emphasizes his “fundamental liberty interest in the care,
custody and control” of his child. Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57, 65–66 (2000).
He points out that the mother’s rights were not terminated and that she favors
preserving his relationship with A.R. From there, Christopher contends terminating
his rights “goes well beyond what was necessary and interfered with these parents’
constitutional rights to raise their family as they see fit.”
We read Christopher’s claim as one of substantive due process. When a
party alleges that specific government conduct violates substantive due process,
we apply the shocks-the-conscience standard to assess the claim. Lennette v.
State, 975 N.W.2d 380, 393–94 (Iowa 2022). Nothing in this record signals that
kind of egregious governmental abuse. The department acted on reasonable
evidence that Christopher’s conduct posed a risk to his young son. Christopher
cannot show a due process violation.
Moreover, Christopher cannot rest his argument for reversal on the court’s
preservation of the mother’s rights. He must advance his own reasons, separate
from those facts supporting the mother, to overcome termination. In re D.G., 704
N.W.2d 454, 460 (Iowa Ct. App. 2005). His petition on appeal does not meet that
standard.
E. Six-Month Deferral of Permanency
As an alternative to termination, Christopher asks for more time to correct
the deficiencies in his parenting. Under section 232.117(5), the juvenile court may
delay permanency for up to six months as an alternative to terminating parental
rights. See In re N.J., No. 19-1999, 2020 WL 2988237, at *3 (Iowa Ct. App. June 10
3, 2020). A reprieve is appropriate if the court can point to “specific factors,
conditions, or expected behavioral changes” that justify believing the need for
removal from parental care would no longer exist after that time. Iowa Code
§ 232.104(2)(b). But no such conditions emerge here. Christopher still struggles
with methamphetamine use. And despite his engagement with services, he
refuses to recognize the power-and-control issues in his relationship with A.R.’s
mother or to control his anger and frustration. Under these circumstances, a six-
month extension was not warranted.
Finding no grounds for reversal, we affirm the termination of Christopher’s
parental rights.
AFFIRMED.