In the Int. of: Z.Y.R., Appeal of: D.R.

Superior Court of Pennsylvania·Decided February 15, 2023·No. 1399 MDA 2022·Unpublished

Opinion

NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37

IN THE INTEREST OF: Z.Y.R. A : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF MINOR : PENNSYLVANIA :

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APPEAL OF: D.R., FATHER :

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: No. 1399 MDA 2022

Appeal from the Decree Entered September 20, 2022 In the Court of Common Pleas of Berks County Orphans' Court at No(s):

87987

BEFORE: STABILE, J., DUBOW, J., and McCAFFERY, J. MEMORANDUM BY DUBOW, J.: FILED FEBRUARY 15, 2023 D.R. (“Father”) appeals from the September 20, 2022 Decree that involuntarily terminated his parental rights to then-nine-year old Z.Y.R. (“Child”). Upon careful review, we affirm.

Z.P. (“Mother”) and Father (collectively, “Parents”) are parents to Child, who was born in September 2012 when Parents were attending high school. Parents never lived together and ended their romantic relationship shortly after they graduated. A 2014 custody order granted Father physical custody of Child every other weekend and every Wednesday night, however Father rarely exercised that time with Child. In 2014, Father had one overnight visit with Child and saw Child approximately ten times per year from 2015 until 2020. Father has not visited with Child since December 2020.

Mother met her current husband, K.V. (“Stepfather”), in high school but the two were reintroduced in July 2019. The two married in June 2021 and

have two biological children together, Z.V. and Z.V., born in September of 2020 and March of 2022, respectively. Stepfather coaches Child in basketball and baseball.

Father is not married. He has two younger children, who he sees regularly due to having amicable relationships with their respective mothers.

On December 2, 2021, Mother filed a petition for the involuntary termination of Father’s parental rights to Child pursuant to 23 Pa.C.S. §2511(a)(1). Specifically, Mother averred that Father’s conduct over the past six months evidenced a settled purpose of relinquishing his parental claim to Child because he had not visited with Child since December 12, 2020.

The trial court appointed counsel for both Father and Child, and also appointed a guardian ad litem (“GAL”) for Child. The court held a hearing on Mother’s petition on September 7, 2022. The court heard testimony from Mother, Father, GAL, and Child.

The trial court provided a thorough and accurate summary of testimony in its Opinion, which we adopt for purposes of this appeal. See Trial Ct. Op., filed 11/3/22, at 10. In sum, Mother testified that, despite the custody order permitting more contact, Father only had Child visit overnight on one weekend in 2014 and has not seen Child more than ten times per year from 2014 to 2020. Mother explained that Father attended approximately half of Child’s baseball games in 2019 or 2018 but has not attended games since then. Mother acknowledged that Father called and asked to see Child a few times and, because Child was uncomfortable with an in-person visit, in July 2021

Mother offered Father contact with Child through FaceTime but Father refused. Mother testified that Father has failed to consistently pay child support and refuses to send payments until he receives a contempt notice in the mail. Mother further testified that the only items that Father has bought for Child in nine years were a baseball helmet, a basketball hoop, a video game console, and some sneakers as birthday or Christmas gifts. Mother stated that the only school event that Father attended was Child’s first day of preschool six years ago. Mother testified that, at one point, Father moved to California but did not inform her until after he moved. Mother further testified that she does not know how long Father lived in California, because he did not contact her or Child when he returned to Pennsylvania.

Mother testified that she had not considered a termination of Father’s parental rights until Father sent her a text message indicating that he would voluntarily relinquish his parental rights if he did not have to pay child support anymore. Mother explained that once Father suggested this, she had a family meeting with Child to ascertain Child’s position. Child did not think his life was going to change because Father was already not involved. Mother believes a termination of parental rights is in Child’s best interest because Father has never taken any responsibility for raising Child and it is too late to take responsibility now. Mother also stated that Child wants to be adopted by Stepfather.

Father testified that he went to California in the summer of 2015 to try to attend college and did not tell Mother because he was not sure it would

work out and did not want the Custody Order to be affected. Father explained that he returned briefly in September for Child’s birthday, returned permanently in November, and saw Child at Christmas. Father testified that after he returned from California, he thought the Custody Order had expired so he saw Child on Mother’s terms. Father testified that he saw Child a few times a month from 2015 to 2017 and stopped seeing Child on Wednesdays when Child started school in 2017. Father testified that from 2017 until 2020 he was seeing Child approximately twice a month. Father informed the court that he attended all of Child’s baseball games and most of his practices because Mother could not stop him.

Father explained that the last time he visited with Child was in December 2020 at a birthday party for one of his younger children. Father found out that from a third party that after the party Child “supposedly [] got sick and somehow it’s my fault. And ever since then it’s been downhill.” N.T. TPR Hearing, 9/7/22, at 152. Father testified that he attempted to reach out multiple times to see Child but Mother would not respond or Mother would inform him that Child did not want to see him. Father explained that he bought Christmas presents for Child in 2020 but did not give them to Child due to his own pride; he wanted to see Child in person rather than drop off the gifts. Father testified that the gifts are still in his garage.

Father explained that he briefly saw Child in June 2022 when Child and Mother attended a funeral for Father’s grandmother. Father testified that he asked to see Child the next day and Mother did not respond. Father also

testified that a week later he asked if Child could attend a major league baseball game with him in New York for the weekend and Mother responded that Child would like to come but was not comfortable attending without Mother and Stepfather there. Father confirmed that when he offered to take Child to the baseball game, he had child support arrearages close to $3,000 but stated, “I mean, do you think my son would rather an experience or do you think my son would rather [have] money.” Id. at 173.

Father testified that he always tried to keep up with Child support payments, and if Mother had asked him for additional money, he would have been willing to give it to her. Father admitted sending a text message to Mother telling her that he would relinquish his parental rights to Child but explained that the message was sent in anger, and he did not actually feel that way. Father testified that he does not want to relinquish his parental rights to Child, he loves Child, and he wants to see Child on a consistent basis. Father explained that he thinks Stepfather is a good influence in Child’s life and he believes that it is in Child’s best interest to have both Father and Stepfather involved in Child’s life.

Child testified that he does not remember Father attending his baseball games or spending alternate Saturdays with Father. Child remembers Father picking him up once every two or three months. Child does not want Father to start to come to his baseball games again because he does not have a relationship with him. In reference to his relationship with Father, Child explained, “it never really ended because I never had a relationship with him.”

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