In re the Probate of the Will of Debaun

2 Connoly 304
CourtNew York Surrogate's Court
DecidedApril 15, 1890
StatusPublished
Cited by1 cases

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In re the Probate of the Will of Debaun, 2 Connoly 304 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 1890).

Opinion

The Surrogate.

The paper offered as the will was executed on the 10th day of September, 1880. By it the decedent bequeathed to each of his two sons, the children of his first marriage, the sum of one hundred dollars, and the remainder of his estate, said to be worth about $20,000, is given to his second wife, Josephine, who is named as executrix. Four witnesses attested the execution.

The decedent was married in 1854 to his first wife, and they resided on a farm in Hackensack, New Jersey, in which his mother had a life interest. Their sons, Charles and Edwin, are now thirty-one and twenty-eight years old, respectively, the first named having been an imbecile from birth. In 1868 or 1869 their mother separated from the decedent, and soon after took the children. In 1872 she obtained an absolute divorce in the state of Rhode Island, on the ground of non-support. She took upon herself the [306]*306care and support of the children, and thenceforward the decedent did not see them for several years. She again married in 1873. She supported and educated the younger son until he was licensed as a physician and was able to earn his own living. To support herself, she studied medicine, and has been for sixteen years following her profession in this city.

In 1877 the decedent was married to Mrs. Josephine A. Vreeland, he being her fourth husband, and they resided for a time on the Hackensack farm, then in Jersey City, until July, 1886, when they removed to a house owned by the decedent on Nineteenth street, in New York, where he died in July, 1887, at the age of sixty-two. His widow survived him only a few months, dying childless, at the age of fifty-five.

In 1880, about three years after their marriage, while residing in Jersey City, the instrument in contest was executed, and on the same occasion the wife made her will, in which the husband was made her sole legatee. The greater portion of the estate of which the decedent died possessed did not vest in him until the death of his mother, in November, 1885, five years after the date of the instrument in contest. The estate of the wife came to her from her third husband, and is shown to have been worth from $40,000 to $50,000 at her death.

Though allegations were filed against the mental competency of the decedent, and that the paper was not executed in conformity with the statute, no proof ,was adduced to sustain them. The sole question for my consideration is that of fraud arid undue influence alleged to have been exercised in its procurement. [307]*307It is seldom that the usual relations of husband and wife' to each other are so completely reversed as is shown by the evidence in this case. Many witnesses were examined, nearly all persons of middle age or past, and the greater number those who had known the husband intimately. The burden of their testimony is that the decedent was a man of little will. She was coarse, selfish, mercenary, exacting; was indifferent to her own kindred and possessed of an unyielding will. She had been three times married and once divorced. The decedent was introduced to her as a man of wealth. During a courtship that extended over two years he observed in her such perverse characteristics that near the hour appointed for the wedding he was depressed in spirits and was reluctant to marry, and would not have done so if a friend, to whom he had confided his feelings, had not urged him. From the beginning of their married life her will seems to have controlled in all her relations with the husband. If her wishes mildly expressed were not complied with she commanded; if commands failed she used threats, and he submitted for the sake of peace. Except on rare occasions she refused to permit him to leave the house, and when he went out she was nearly always in his company. In all important matters his free agency seems to have been overcome. Though pet names were publicly used between them, it had become so much a matter of habit as to have no significance, for the testimony shows scarce any declarations of affection on the part of the husband for the wife, and nearly all his statements are strong evidence that none existed. The case is equally bar[308]*308ren of declarations of the wife of love for the husband. The apparent harmony in their relations observed by one witness when visiting them socially, and by others who met them in business transactions, and which to them seemed evidence of a mutual love and affection, was a result that might be expected between two persons, one positive and aggressive and the other meek and cowardly, and there are abundant proofs of discord throughout their married life, and on all occasions she came out ahead.

Proponent’s counsel claims that the exhibitions of the wife’s violence were only when she was under the influence of liquor. If not before, certainly very soon after the marriage she was accustomed to use intoxicating drinks to excess, and the habit had so increased that for several years before her death she was a victim of alcoholism to such an extent as to be under disability for days at a time, and to disgrace herself in public. From her own statement, she had once been in delirium tremens, and one witness, called for the proponent, states that during the last three years of her life she was not herself, and was incompetent to transact business. The few who thought their relations were happy and affectionate probably saw them when the wife was at her best, and there were many periods, probably, and some quite extended, when her conduct and language were unaffected by drink. They had no servant or other member of their household, and scarce any social intimates. Occasionally a friend visited them, and when the wife was suffering from her' excesses a woman was called in to attend her.

[309]*309Soon after her marriage she announced her purpose to compel her husband to leave his estate to her, "without provision for his sons. She was eight years his junior, and in the ordinary course of nature would survive him. About three years after the marriage, they appeared at the office of an attorney, and she gave directions for the preparation of wills for each. She falsely stated that the decedent’s sons had not treated him well, and did not state that one was a helpless imbecile and was living on the bounty of his mother, the husband’s first wife. It was only because she believed that, otherwise, the sons could break their father’s will (though advised to the contrary) that she directed the insignificant bequests for them contained in the instrument to be inserted, and she suggested the amount of each. She requested two of the subscribing witnesses to be present at the lawyer’s office. Though informed that the two were sufficient, she asked that the attorney and another gentleman also act. She directed the husband’s will to be first executed, and, though evidently desiring to postpone the execution of her own will, she acquiesced in his wish that both be then signed.

The case is bristling with evidences of the wife’s boisterous domination and of the husband’s meek submission to her will, and as a whole, it shows that affection was not the motive that acted on his mind when he executed the paper propounded. From his marriage he spoke to friends and acquaintances of the wretched life he was leading. He several times stated his intention to leave his wife, and once made preparations to do so, but was dissuaded. Twice he made [310]*310threats of suicide.

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