In Re the Paternity of A.C-F., J.F. v. T.C.

CourtIndiana Court of Appeals
DecidedDecember 16, 2014
Docket08A02-1405-JP-315
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
In Re the Paternity of A.C-F., J.F. v. T.C., (Ind. Ct. App. 2014).

Opinion

Pursuant to Ind.Appellate Rule 65(D), this Memorandum Decision shall not be regarded as precedent or cited before Dec 16 2014, 9:58 am any court except for the purpose of establishing the defense of res judicata, collateral estoppel, or the law of the case.

ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: ATTORNEY FOR APPELLEE:

KAREN CELESTINO-HORSEMAN CYNTHIA G. HARMON Indianapolis, Indiana Flora, Indiana

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

IN RE THE PATERNITY OF A.C-F., ) ) J.F., ) ) Appellant-Respondent, ) ) vs. ) No. 08A02-1405-JP-315 ) T.C., ) ) Appellee-Petitioner. )

APPEAL FROM THE CARROLL CIRCUIT COURT The Honorable Benjamin A. Diener, Judge Cause No. 08C01-1212-JP-52

December 16, 2014

MEMORANDUM DECISION - NOT FOR PUBLICATION

NAJAM, Judge STATEMENT OF THE CASE

J.F. (“Mother”) appeals the award of primary physical custody of A.C-F. (“Child”)

to T.C. (“Father”). She presents two issues for our review, which we revise and restate as

follows:

1. Whether the trial court’s August 19, 2013, order was a provisional or final order.

2. Whether the trial court abused its discretion in awarding primary physical custody to Father.

We affirm.

FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY

Child was born in 2009, and Mother filed a petition to establish paternity on

December 20, 2012. In the interim, Child lived with Mother, and Father exercised

informal parenting time. After completing a DNA test, Father admitted paternity, and the

Court entered a Judgment of Paternity on June 24, 2013. In its judgment, the Court

awarded Mother temporary custody of Child and ordered that Father have parenting time

pursuant to the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines. Because Father indicated his desire

to have primary physical custody of Child, the court appointed a guardian ad litem

(“GAL”) and set the matter for hearing regarding permanent support and custody on

August 19.

Despite being unable to observe Father interact with Child, the GAL filed her first

report on August 12.1 In that report, the GAL indicated a number of concerns she had

regarding Mother’s care of Child:

1 The GAL attributed this deficiency in her report to “confusion between the parties and me” and “time and distance constraints.” Appellant’s App. at 43. However, because of the GAL’s “remaining 2 [Child], age 4 years and 3 months as of this writing, is not toilet- trained. . . . And there is no physical or developmental reason why he is not. . . . Dad finds it extremely disturbing that [Child] is still in diapers . . . . Mom doesn’t find it disturbing and explains that [Child] fights against toilet-training. She states that he will urinate in the toilet with some regularity but will not use the toilet for bowel movements. I asked what the plan was, given that he should be starting school in one year. [Mother] stated that she thought he would be more likely to go along with toilet- training once he knew he was going to school because he was looking forward to that.

I was curious as to what [the daycare provider] had to say about [Child], so I dropped by her home/day care for a visit. [She] stated that she had been watching [Child] for less than a year but that his development had really come a long way in that time. . . .

Closely related to the issue of toilet-training is the matter of discipline. [Father] expressed concern about [Child’s] tendency to react to the word “no” with a tantrum or a meltdown.

When I visited with [Mother] and [Child] in [Mother’s] home, [Child] did, indeed, lurch from one tantrum to another. . . . [H]is behavior would have been more appropriate to a child two years younger. In the hour that I was there, [Child] threw a full-blown tantrum over being refused a soda (yelling, throwing things); he burst into screaming when his video game ended and his mother did not reset it quickly enough for his liking; he pushed his mother (physically) at least three different times because he didn’t want her to talk to me. He refused to talk to, look at, or acknowledge me, although he did salute my exit with a “Bronx cheer.”[2]

To her credit, [Mother] acted more or less appropriately in that she did refuse to give in to his tantrums. I don’t know if her refusal was for my benefit or if she routinely refuses to reward tantrums, although the fact that he kept at it for the better part of the hour suggests that he is accustomed to some sort of payoff for his trouble. In any event, [Mother] did not lose her temper, which is good, but she also did not escalate her response to include

observations of [Child] with his various family members,” the GAL stated that she did “not believe that it is likely that an observation of [Child] with his father [would be] likely to alter [her] recommendations.” Id. 2 A “Bronx cheer” is also known as a “raspberry”: “a sound of contempt or derision made by trilling the extended tongue between the protruded lips.” Webster’s Third New International Dictionary of the English Language Unabridged 282, 1883(Merriam-Webster, Inc. ed., 1961). 3 a timeout or loss of privileges, which might have been warranted at some point.

The [Child] I observed at . . . day care was an entirely different child. He was shy, but he answered [the care provider] politely when she spoke to him, responded to redirection, played with—or at least alongside—other children peacefully, and smiled. [The daycare provider] stated that he was never a behavior problem; that he was still learning social skills, especially sharing, but that he did not hit or push the other children; and that she never had to put him in timeout.

***

[Mother] believes that, outside of the diaper issue, “he’s way ahead of where he needs to be.”

From the little bit of speech I overheard at [Mother’s] and [at the daycare], I am concerned that his social skills, vocabulary, and diction are below average for a child of his age, but[,] again, I could not coax much speech out of him. Although he generally stayed in the same room as [Mother] and me, he refused to make eye contact or even look at me. At day care, he was standing in a corner by himself when I arrived, apparently on his own initiative . . . , but[,] after 10 minutes or so[,] he grabbed a toy truck and joined some other little boys. He smiled at [his care provider] when she spoke to him and talked a little in response to her direct questions.

[Father] states that the best place for [Child], ultimately, is with [Mother]. However, he believes he is in the best position to bring [Child] up to speed—or as close as possible—in the year remaining before he begins school. He and [his fiancée (“Fiancée”)] will be sending [their daughter] to a nearby Catholic Kindergarten and would like to enroll [Child] at the Preschool there. . . . [Father] believes he is more of a disciplinarian than [Mother] is, and [Fiancée] states that although [Child] gives her a little bit harder time than he does [Father], she can get him to listen. . . .

[Mother] believes that things are going fine with [Child], that [Child] is largely “way ahead of where he should be,” and that [Father] is largely motivated by a desire to avoid paying child support. . . .

4 [Child] is well behind where he should be in terms of behavior, toilet-training, and social skills. There is no known or suspected physical or mental reason for the delay. . . . I believe that, as much as he has benefitted from being at [day care], he would benefit more from the more structured environment of a preschool.

. . . Given that [Child] is more than one year behind—after months of playing catch-up—this problem did not arise solely under [Mother’s] watch. And [Mother] has made a number of good choices regarding [Child’s] welfare and development.

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