In Re The Marriage Of: Valerie Ndje Nlend, V. Rodrigue Alain Ndje Nlend

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedDecember 1, 2025
Docket86331-2
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Marriage of No. 86331-2-I (consolidated with VALERIE NDJE NLEND, Nos. 87482-9-I, 87158-7-I)

Respondent, DIVISION ONE and UNPUBLISHED OPINION RODRIGUE ALAIN NDJE NLEND,

Appellant.

BIRK, J. — After more than two years of litigating this dissolution matter in

four counties in two states, Rodrigue Ndje Nlend did not appear for or participate

in the trial. Several months after the trial court entered final orders that dissolved

his marriage to Valerie Ndje Nlend and provided for the care and support of the

parties’ children, Rodrigue1 filed a series of motions primarily seeking to vacate the

final dissolution orders. The trial court entered nine orders denying the

postjudgment motions. The court later granted a motion to correct clerical errors,

and entered an amended decree of dissolution.

In three consolidated appeals, Rodrigue challenges 25 orders entered in

this proceeding. Rodrigue’s challenges are largely precluded by his failure to

preserve his claims of error, present evidence, or challenge Valerie’s evidence at

trial. His claims otherwise lack merit and are simply a continuation of his

1 We use the parties’ first names for clarity and intend no disrespect by doing

so. No. 86331-2-I/2

established pattern of using the legal system to harass and distract from his

repeated failures to comply with orders enforcing his court-ordered obligations over

the life of this case. We affirm.

I

The parties were married in 2006, had two children, and lived in Washington

for about 15 months before they separated in September 2020. In a November

2020 proceeding, the King County Superior Court entered a Domestic Violence

Protection Order (DVPO) protecting Valerie and the children and imposing

restrictions on Rodrigue. In May 2021, Valerie filed a petition in King County to

dissolve the parties’ marriage. A few months thereafter, she moved to North

Carolina with the children.2 The trial court entered temporary provisions requiring

that Rodrigue pay spousal and child support, and a temporary parenting plan.

In April 2022, following a contempt hearing to enforce Rodrigue’s past due

support obligations, Rodrigue filed an action seeking dissolution in Mecklenburg

County, North Carolina. In July 2022, Rodrigue filed in King County Superior Court

a judgment for “Absolute Divorce” entered by the Mecklenburg County court and

sought dismissal of Valerie’s Washington petition. The superior court dismissed

the petition without prejudice. Valerie sought reconsideration, asserting that the

North Carolina order did not address many significant issues she sought to resolve

in her Washington petition, such as child support, parenting provisions, and the

2 Although Valerie moved without providing advance notice, the trial court

later concluded the relocation was not in bad faith and it was in the children’s best interest to remain in North Carolina with Valerie pending resolution of the case.

2 No. 86331-2-I/3

distribution of assets. In August 2022, the superior court granted reconsideration

and vacated the dismissal order, concluding that it was “inappropriate” for

Rodrigue to obtain the North Carolina order while the matter was pending in

Washington. The trial court reset the matter for trial and Rodrigue appealed the

August 2022 order.

Meanwhile, the King County Superior Court entered an order confirming

jurisdiction in Washington, after conferral as authorized by statute, RCW 26.27.101

(a Washington court may communicate with another state court about a family law

proceeding). The North Carolina court vacated the judgment of divorce. This court

affirmed the trial court’s ruling reinstating Valerie’s petition and resetting the matter

for trial. See In re Marriage of Nlend, No. 84442-3-I, slip op. at 1, 10-11 (Wash.

Ct. App. July 31, 2023) (unpublished), https://www.courts.wa.gov/opinions/pdf/

844423.pdf.

With both Washington and North Carolina courts unambiguously confirming

Washington’s jurisdiction over the dissolution matter, Rodrigue filed additional

competing and duplicative actions in Mecklenburg County and two other North

Carolina counties, seeking the same relief. And he again unsuccessfully moved

to dismiss the Washington case. In a 2023 order resolving approximately twenty

motions Rodrigue filed in that court, a Mecklenburg County trial court found that

Rodrigue had engaged in “forum shopping” to avoid the enforcement of

Washington’s support orders; exhibited “gamesmanship and acted in bad faith” by

filing excessive pleadings, inexcusably failing to appear for hearings, and ignoring

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this court’s rulings; interposed pleadings for the “improper purpose of harassing

[Valerie], causing unnecessary delay, and needlessly increasing the costs of

litigation;” and used the courts in both states in a “weaponized manner for the

purpose of continuing his abuse and harassment.”

Four times between June 2022 and April 2023, the King County court found

Rodrigue in contempt for failing to comply with support and other court-ordered

obligations. The court imposed numerous conditions on Rodrigue to purge the

contempt, such as, payment of outstanding support amounts due, disclosure of his

residential address with proof of residency, and the return of funds withdrawn from

the parties’ accounts following the parties’ 2020 separation. Rodrigue did not

respond to the allegations of contempt, appear at any of the contempt hearings, or

comply with any purge conditions. In addition to the conditions included in the

initial temporary orders, the court entered orders imposing specific financial

restraints on Rodrigue, freezing certain accounts, and prohibiting withdrawal or

transfer of financial assets.

In April 2023, the King County court renewed the DVPO. A few days later,

the trial court denied another of Rodrigue’s “multiple motions” to dismiss, noting

that courts in Washington and North Carolina had ruled that “Washington Court

has jurisdiction in this matter,” Rodrigue had previously raised a “inconvenient

forum” argument, and he had not shown that any relevant circumstance had

changed.

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Rodrigue did not participate in a pretrial status conference held on October

26, 2023 or respond to Valerie’s ER 904 submissions. In November 2023, Valerie

filed a motion to require Rodrigue to appear in person for trial. Valerie pointed to

Rodrigue’s history of noncompliance with court orders and explained that, following

the April 2023 renewal of the DVPO and denial of his motion to dismiss, Rodrigue

had ceased participating in the case. The court granted the motion and ordered

Rodrigue to appear in person.

Valerie appeared at the December 14, 2023 trial by Zoom.3 The court

considered her testimony and more than 70 exhibits she filed. Rodrigue did not

appear. The trial court memorialized Rodrigue’s nonappearance and noted that

the court had communicated with him about the start of trial using the e-mail

address he had used throughout the case:

All right, so I want to just state on the record that the respondent is not here.

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