In re the Marriage of Sundby

CourtCourt of Appeals of Iowa
DecidedMarch 30, 2022
Docket20-1552
StatusPublished

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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 20-1552 Filed March 30, 2022

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF ALISA DANAE SUNDBY AND TAYLOR RAY SUNDBY

Upon the Petition of ALISA DANAE SUNDBY, Petitioner-Appellee,

And Concerning TAYLOR RAY SUNDBY, Respondent-Appellant. ________________________________________________________________

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Marion County, Robert B. Hanson,

Judge.

The husband appeals the dissolution and attorney fee ruling. AFFIRMED

AS MODIFIED AND REMANDED.

Andrew B. Howie and Tara L. Hofbauer of Shindler, Anderson, Goplerud &

Weese, P.C., West Des Moines, for appellant.

Ryan J. Baumgartner of Cashatt Warren Family Law, P.C., Des Moines, for

appellee.

Considered by Schumacher, P.J., Ahlers, J., and Blane, S.J.*

*Senior judge assigned by order pursuant to Iowa Code section 602.9206

(2022). 2

BLANE, Senior Judge.

Taylor Sundby appeals the decree dissolving his marriage to Alisa (Ali) on

many grounds. On our review, we affirm the decree as modified and remand for

further proceedings.

I. Background facts and proceedings.

Taylor and Ali stipulated that they entered into a common law marriage in

2004. The parties have four children: H.R.S. (born 2003), C.R.S. (born 2006),

B.D.S. (born 2008), and K.M.S. (born 2012). The children reside with Ali at the

family home in Harvey, Iowa, where the family has lived for the past three years

since returning from Colorado. The home is one block from Ali’s parents. The

parties also stipulated that Ali would have primary care of the children.

At the time of the trial, Taylor was forty years old and has a degree in

chemical engineering. Since 2004 he has been employed as a quality manager

for Danaher Company, headquartered in Loveland, Colorado. The company also

has a chemical manufacturing distribution plant in Ames, where Taylor has worked

since moving to Iowa. Since their separation, Taylor has resided in Pleasant Hill,

but he testified he intended to move back to Colorado in November 2019.1

Ali was thirty-eight years old at the time of trial. She has a high school

education and has taken part-time classes at community colleges, but she has not

obtained any degree, special training, or certification. She previously worked part-

1As with most appeals, our knowledge is frozen in time based upon the record made before the district court, so we do not know if anticipated events actually occurred. 3

time waitressing and at a call center, but she has stayed home with the children

since 2003 when the parties’ first child was born.

On October 9, 2018, Ali filed her petition for dissolution of marriage.2 The

court filed its decree dissolving the marriage on March 10, 2020. On March 23,

2020, the court filed a supplemental decree of dissolution of marriage addressing

child support. Both parties filed motions under Iowa Rule of Civil Procedure

1.904(2), and the court revised the child support. Taylor then timely appealed.

II. Standard of review.

Because this is an equity action, our review is de novo. In re Marriage of

Mann, 943 N.W.2d 15, 18 (Iowa 2020) (citing Iowa R. App. P. 6.907). “We give

weight to the factual determinations made by the district court; however, their

findings are not binding . . . .” Id. (citation omitted). We disturb the district court’s

rulings only where there is a failure to do equity. In re Marriage of McDermott, 827

N.W.2d 671, 676 (Iowa 2013).

III. Discussion.

Taylor raises a number of challenges to the district court’s dissolution

decree. We address each below.

A. Taylor allowed parenting time only in Iowa.

The parties agreed Ali would have physical care of the children, but she

sought sole legal custody and that Taylor’s parenting time be only in Iowa. The

district court awarded joint legal custody but agreed to limit Taylor’s parenting time

2Taylor initially filed a motion to dismiss denying the existence of a marriage. The district court denied the motion on December 7, 2018. The court also stayed Taylor’s separate paternity action between these parties. 4

to Iowa. Taylor argues on appeal that Ali “did not present any evidence that would

justify the district court placing such extreme restrictions on Taylor’s parenting

time. . . . The district court made no findings pursuant to Iowa Code section

598.41(1) [(2018)] and [In re Marriage of Rykhoek, 525 N.W.2d 1 (Iowa Ct. App.

1994)], which would justify restricting Taylor’s visitation.” Taylor contends, under

this record and in the children’s best interests, he should be allowed to exercise at

least some of his parenting time in Colorado. We do not agree.

The district court made the following findings supported by the evidence.

It is clear from the record that Taylor’s relationship with the older two children[3] has been strained, prior to and during the pendency of this action. Taylor’s actions, including his employment of corporal punishment as a form of discipline and his periodic angry outbursts, are primarily responsible for this. Both [children] testified that their respective relationships with Taylor are not ideal but that, despite these difficulties, they love their father and want to restore/repair their respective relationships with him. However, they both indicate that this should be done gradually. The court finds that Taylor’s relationship with the children should be fostered and that it is in their best interest to have parenting time with him albeit not in Colorado, considering their current state of fear and distrust of him as a result of his believed substance abuse and anger control problems. The court encourages the parties and their children to engage in counseling.

Later, the court concluded:

Additionally, the court finds that, although Taylor and the two older children have had strain in their parent-child relationships, the most troubling events were isolated and occurred more than a year ago. Recently, the relationships between Taylor and the two oldest children seem to have improved. Taylor earnestly desires to rebuild his relationships with his children and maintaining the parent-child relationships with both parents is in the best interests of all of the parties’ children. Having said that, the court also finds that rebuilding/restoring the relationships between Taylor and these children will take time and should be approached gradually given the

3 Since the entry of the decree, the oldest child has turned eighteen years old and is no longer subject to the visitation provisions of the decree. 5

obvious fear and distrust the children, especially the two oldest ones, have for him. Taylor’s parenting time shall be as delineated herein but shall occur in Iowa and not in Colorado or elsewhere at this time.

In making a physical care arrangement, we consider the factors listed in Iowa Code

section 598.41(3). See In re Marriage of Hansen, 733 N.W.2d 683, 696 (Iowa

2007). We do not resolve these questions based on “perceived fairness to the

spouses, but primarily upon what is best for the child[ren].” Id. at 695 (emphasis

omitted). “The objective . . . is to place the children in the environment most likely

to bring them to health, both physically and mentally, and to social maturity.” Id.

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