In Re the Marriage of Peter A. Eikamp and Lisa Eikamp Upon the Petition of Peter A. Eikamp, petitioner-appellant/cross-appellee, and Concerning Lisa Eikamp, respondent-appellee/cross-appellant.

Court of Appeals of Iowa·Decided October 14, 2015·No. 14-1798·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 14-1798

Filed October 14, 2015

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF PETER A. EIKAMP AND LISA EIKAMP

Upon the Petition of PETER A. EIKAMP, Petitioner-Appellant/Cross-Appellee,

And Concerning LISA EIKAMP, Respondent-Appellee/Cross-Appellant.

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Marshall County, Michael J. Moon, Judge.

Peter Eikamp appeals, and Lisa Eikamp cross-appeals, from a modification order. AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED AND REMANDED.

Barry S. Kaplan of Kaplan & Frese, L.L.P., Marshalltown, for appellant.

Christy R. Liss of Clark, Butler, Walsh & Hamann, Waterloo, for appellee.

Heard by Doyle, P.J., Eisenhauer, S.J.,* and Goodhue, S.J.* *Senior judge assigned by order pursuant to Iowa Code section 602.9206 (2015).

EISENHAUER, Senior Judge.

Peter Eikamp appeals the denial of his petition to modify the child custody and support provisions of the decree dissolving his marriage to Lisa Eikamp. He contends joint physical care is not in the children’s best interests. On cross, appeal, Lisa contends the court erred in calculating Peter’s child-support obligation when it granted her counterclaim for modification. Lisa also requests she be awarded appellate attorney fees.

I. Background Facts and Proceedings.

The parties’ marriage was dissolved in May 2013. The decree dissolving the marriage incorporates the parties’ stipulation regarding the issues to be determined in the dissolution proceeding. Among other things, the parties stipulated to joint physical care of their three minor children and agreed neither party would pay child support. While the stipulation states the parties anticipated “they will each have the children approximately 50% of the time,” neither the stipulation nor the dissolution decree further specify the terms of custody arrangement.

Although the parties envisioned splitting time with the children, this did not happen immediately following the dissolution. Exactly what occurred between June and November 2013 is unclear. Peter testified the children resided primarily with him in the months following the dissolution and he occasionally stayed at Lisa’s apartment when the children were in her care at her request. In his version of events, he assumed the role of primary caretaker because Lisa was experiencing emotional difficulties and instability in the wake of the divorce. He agreed they stayed at each other’s residences with the children on occasion,

but stated this was because Lisa did not want the responsibility of the having the children on her own.

In contrast, Lisa testified she was not struggling prior to November 2013.

In her version of events, the parties continued to reside together with the children following the dissolution even though she obtained an apartment. According to Lisa, she primarily stayed with Peter and the children at the marital residence, although occasionally they stayed at her apartment. Lisa admits Peter was never clear about the status of their relationship following the divorce but she believed they “had the probability of getting back together.”

What is clear is that things changed for the worse in November 2013.

Peter’s grandmother passed away, and he did not allow Lisa to attend the funeral. At that point, Lisa realized her relationship with Peter was over and, in her own words, “things kind of started to spiral down.” Lisa began to engage in self-harming behavior by cutting herself, and concerns were expressed regarding her suicidal ideation and alcohol use.

Lisa was voluntarily admitted to Covenant Medical Center for observation in November 2013 and discharged two days later. She was prescribed medication but believes she was overmedicated. She did not feel like herself, and her self-harming behavior worsened. Because she did not feel stable upon discharge, Lisa did not exercise her full rights under the child custody provisions of the decree. Instead, she limited the time she spent with the children to visits supervised by her parents.

Lisa was hospitalized again in January 2014 after she lost control of her car during a snowstorm and drove into a ditch. The sheriff’s deputy who assisted

Lisa was concerned she was a danger to herself and took her to Covenant Medical Center. Lisa was admitted for observation and discharged the next day.

Lisa was admitted to Covenant Medical Center a third time in February 2014 after going to Peter’s house at 10:00 p.m., intoxicated and bleeding from a self-inflicted cut on her arm. Lisa remained at Covenant for one week before she was discharged. Upon her discharge, she changed psychiatrists and medication and began feeling better.

On the night of March 8, 2014, Lisa went to Peter’s home, where the children were staying. She was distraught because Peter had not returned her telephone calls or text messages for more than two hours. While at the home, she took a knife from the kitchen and held it to her chest, threatening suicide. Although Peter took the knife from her, two of the children heard Lisa tell Peter to give her keys back so she could go kill herself. Lisa returned home and called law enforcement to falsely report Peter had physically assaulted her. Lisa was arrested one week later and charged with two counts of child endangerment. At the time of trial, those charges were still pending.

On March 14, 2014, Peter filed a petition seeking to modify the child custody and support provisions of the dissolution decree, requesting he be granted physical care of the children. Lisa counterclaimed seeking modification of the provisions of the decree relating to child support, medical support, and the postsecondary education subsidy.

After Peter filed the petition to modify, Lisa requested the child custody provisions of the decree be implemented. Since then, the parties have alternated physical care of the children on a weekly basis.

The matter came to a trial in October 2014. The district court entered its order two days later. It dismissed Peter’s petition to modify, sustained Lisa’s counterclaims to modify the child-support obligation and postsecondary education subsidy, and awarded Lisa $2500 in attorney fees. Peter filed a timely notice of appeal.

II. Scope and Standard of Review.

We review modification rulings de novo. See Iowa R. App. P. 6.907.

Although we make our own findings of fact, we give weight to the trial court’s findings regarding witness credibility but are not bound by them. Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g). Our overriding consideration is the children’s best interests. Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(o).

III. Modification of Child Custody.

Peter appeals the portion of the order dismissing his petition to modify the child custody and support provisions of the decree. As is often said, “once custody of children has been fixed it should be disturbed only for the most cogent reasons.” In re Marriage of Hoffman, 867 N.W.2d 26, 32 (Iowa 2015).

“To change a custodial provision of a dissolution decree, the applying party must establish by a preponderance of evidence that conditions since the decree was entered have so materially and substantially changed that the children’s best interests make it expedient to make the requested change. The changed circumstances must not have been contemplated by the court when the decree was entered, and they must be more or less permanent, not temporary. They must relate to the welfare of the children. A parent seeking to take custody from the other must prove an ability to minister more effectively to the children’s wellbeing.”

Id. (quoting In re Marriage of Frederici, 338 N.W.2d 156, 158 (Iowa 1983)).

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