In Re the Marriage of Peter A. Eikamp and Lisa Eikamp Upon the Petition of Peter A. Eikamp, petitioner-appellant/cross-appellee, and Concerning Lisa Eikamp, respondent-appellee/cross-appellant.

CourtCourt of Appeals of Iowa
DecidedOctober 14, 2015
Docket14-1798
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

No. 14-1798 Filed October 14, 2015

IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF PETER A. EIKAMP AND LISA EIKAMP

Upon the Petition of PETER A. EIKAMP, Petitioner-Appellant/Cross-Appellee,

And Concerning LISA EIKAMP, Respondent-Appellee/Cross-Appellant. ________________________________________________________________

Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Marshall County, Michael J. Moon,

Judge.

Peter Eikamp appeals, and Lisa Eikamp cross-appeals, from a

modification order. AFFIRMED AS MODIFIED AND REMANDED.

Barry S. Kaplan of Kaplan & Frese, L.L.P., Marshalltown, for appellant.

Christy R. Liss of Clark, Butler, Walsh & Hamann, Waterloo, for appellee.

Heard by Doyle, P.J., Eisenhauer, S.J.,* and Goodhue, S.J.*

*Senior judge assigned by order pursuant to Iowa Code section 602.9206 (2015). 2

EISENHAUER, Senior Judge.

Peter Eikamp appeals the denial of his petition to modify the child custody

and support provisions of the decree dissolving his marriage to Lisa Eikamp. He

contends joint physical care is not in the children’s best interests. On cross,

appeal, Lisa contends the court erred in calculating Peter’s child-support

obligation when it granted her counterclaim for modification. Lisa also requests

she be awarded appellate attorney fees.

I. Background Facts and Proceedings.

The parties’ marriage was dissolved in May 2013. The decree dissolving

the marriage incorporates the parties’ stipulation regarding the issues to be

determined in the dissolution proceeding. Among other things, the parties

stipulated to joint physical care of their three minor children and agreed neither

party would pay child support. While the stipulation states the parties anticipated

“they will each have the children approximately 50% of the time,” neither the

stipulation nor the dissolution decree further specify the terms of custody

arrangement.

Although the parties envisioned splitting time with the children, this did not

happen immediately following the dissolution. Exactly what occurred between

June and November 2013 is unclear. Peter testified the children resided

primarily with him in the months following the dissolution and he occasionally

stayed at Lisa’s apartment when the children were in her care at her request. In

his version of events, he assumed the role of primary caretaker because Lisa

was experiencing emotional difficulties and instability in the wake of the divorce.

He agreed they stayed at each other’s residences with the children on occasion, 3

but stated this was because Lisa did not want the responsibility of the having the

children on her own.

In contrast, Lisa testified she was not struggling prior to November 2013.

In her version of events, the parties continued to reside together with the children

following the dissolution even though she obtained an apartment. According to

Lisa, she primarily stayed with Peter and the children at the marital residence,

although occasionally they stayed at her apartment. Lisa admits Peter was never

clear about the status of their relationship following the divorce but she believed

they “had the probability of getting back together.”

What is clear is that things changed for the worse in November 2013.

Peter’s grandmother passed away, and he did not allow Lisa to attend the

funeral. At that point, Lisa realized her relationship with Peter was over and, in

her own words, “things kind of started to spiral down.” Lisa began to engage in

self-harming behavior by cutting herself, and concerns were expressed regarding

her suicidal ideation and alcohol use.

Lisa was voluntarily admitted to Covenant Medical Center for observation

in November 2013 and discharged two days later. She was prescribed

medication but believes she was overmedicated. She did not feel like herself,

and her self-harming behavior worsened. Because she did not feel stable upon

discharge, Lisa did not exercise her full rights under the child custody provisions

of the decree. Instead, she limited the time she spent with the children to visits

supervised by her parents.

Lisa was hospitalized again in January 2014 after she lost control of her

car during a snowstorm and drove into a ditch. The sheriff’s deputy who assisted 4

Lisa was concerned she was a danger to herself and took her to Covenant

Medical Center. Lisa was admitted for observation and discharged the next day.

Lisa was admitted to Covenant Medical Center a third time in February

2014 after going to Peter’s house at 10:00 p.m., intoxicated and bleeding from a

self-inflicted cut on her arm. Lisa remained at Covenant for one week before she

was discharged. Upon her discharge, she changed psychiatrists and medication

and began feeling better.

On the night of March 8, 2014, Lisa went to Peter’s home, where the

children were staying. She was distraught because Peter had not returned her

telephone calls or text messages for more than two hours. While at the home,

she took a knife from the kitchen and held it to her chest, threatening suicide.

Although Peter took the knife from her, two of the children heard Lisa tell Peter to

give her keys back so she could go kill herself. Lisa returned home and called

law enforcement to falsely report Peter had physically assaulted her. Lisa was

arrested one week later and charged with two counts of child endangerment. At

the time of trial, those charges were still pending.

On March 14, 2014, Peter filed a petition seeking to modify the child

custody and support provisions of the dissolution decree, requesting he be

granted physical care of the children. Lisa counterclaimed seeking modification

of the provisions of the decree relating to child support, medical support, and the

postsecondary education subsidy.

After Peter filed the petition to modify, Lisa requested the child custody

provisions of the decree be implemented. Since then, the parties have alternated

physical care of the children on a weekly basis. 5

The matter came to a trial in October 2014. The district court entered its

order two days later. It dismissed Peter’s petition to modify, sustained Lisa’s

counterclaims to modify the child-support obligation and postsecondary

education subsidy, and awarded Lisa $2500 in attorney fees. Peter filed a timely

notice of appeal.

II. Scope and Standard of Review.

We review modification rulings de novo. See Iowa R. App. P. 6.907.

Although we make our own findings of fact, we give weight to the trial court’s

findings regarding witness credibility but are not bound by them. Iowa R. App.

P. 6.904(3)(g). Our overriding consideration is the children’s best interests. Iowa

R. App. P. 6.904(3)(o).

III. Modification of Child Custody.

Peter appeals the portion of the order dismissing his petition to modify the

child custody and support provisions of the decree. As is often said, “once

custody of children has been fixed it should be disturbed only for the most cogent

reasons.” In re Marriage of Hoffman, 867 N.W.2d 26, 32 (Iowa 2015).

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